My ex-boyfriend started talking to me online yesterday, asking me if I could do him a favour. I said maybe. He wanted me to come pick him up (he lives about a 30 minute drive away) and then drive him around so he could drop off resumes. OH, and wanted me to cash some cheques for him. Fucking scrub.

I said maybe, call me tomorrow, and if I'm not busy maybe I'll take you. This meant no, I'm studying for exams and I'm not your personal fucking taxi, you asshole.

He's called me EIGHT TIMES in the past hour and a half. What the fuck? That's more times than he called me throughout the duration of our relationship...

What the hell is this? Does this loser actually think I'm going to spend my entire day driving his broke ass around or is this some weird plea for attention or something?

why didn't you just say "no, i'm studying for exams and i'm not your personal fucking taxi, you asshole"?
he's calling because you told him to.

I suggest saying "Yes, I'd be happy to help", then driving over there. When he starts walking out to the car, drive away and laugh.

I'm sure it will brighten your day and mood. :)

Nuh uh, I'm busy watching Human Mutants on Discovery Channel. Actually, Atlantis now. And "call me tomorrow" does not mean "call me incessantly, you crazy psycho." It's up to about 20 times now. It's really weird.

Nice. That's usually when I turn the ringer off. You've obviously got something he wants, bad.

At least you didn't tickle a tiger.

Heh, I always wonder what does my ex think of me when we talk.




So I bet he only heard the "Call me tomorrow, I'll take you" part. He's probably freaking by now because he thought that you ditched him.

and geez christ, he's turning his resumes(Is it some job essay thingy) in?! you're calling him a scrub for getting a job, lol.

Heh, I always wonder what does my ex think of me when we talk.




So I bet he only heard the "Call me tomorrow, I'll take you" part. He's probably freaking by now because he thought that you ditched you.

and geez christ, he's turning his resumes(Is it some job essay thingy) in?! you're calling him a scrub for getting a job, lol.

Heh, this is just payback for all the times he said he'd call me and never did. And he IS a scrub. He's too lazy to take the bus to drop em off, so basically if I, or someone else, don't take him, he won't do it.

And I've now lost count of the phone calls...

Euda, I want to tickle a tiger. A baby one with no teeth. It'd be fun. :)

You could tickle me. I'll even purr, growl, and swipe my paws at your swingin' tits.

:D





Demoiselle, I'm proud of you for not weakening and considering being his slave for the day.

You know that as soon as he's got what he wants from you he'll cast you aside all over again.

Untill the next time he wants something.

:D





Demoiselle, I'm proud of you for not weakening and considering being his slave for the day.

You know that as soon as he's got what he wants from you he'll cast you aside all over again.

Untill the next time he wants something.


Hehe, thanks yoyo. I definitely know that, among the other reasons for not doing it, like my laziness and my better things to do (mythbusters! yes I'm a discovery channel addict) and philosophy notes. And then my boyfriend getting all weird about it. "WHY ARE YOU HANGING OUT WITH YOUR EX?!!?" And such. Bah. I'm surrounded by mental.

I said maybe, call me tomorrow, and if I'm not busy maybe I'll take you. This meant no, I'm studying for exams and I'm not your personal fucking taxi, you asshole.

Why don't women say what they fucking mean? Esspesially over the phone. He can't see any body language, and it is harder to hear the different tones in peoples voices. The whole situation could have been avoided had you just said "no, I'm studying for exams and I'm not your personal fucking taxi, you asshole".

At the same time he is one crazy fucker...20 times! WTF!

why didn't you just say "no, i'm studying for exams and i'm not your personal fucking taxi, you asshole"?
he's calling because you told him to.i agree

Yeah, see, I like this idea, I really do...Only problem with it is that he'll more than likely keep phoning except with abuse and shit.

I say just tell him to go screw a goat because you're busy and you're not his girlfriend anymore.

Although on a more psychological level, why did you feel the need to say maybe then bitch about him phoning you to us? Maybe you still like the "scrub" ;) :p

Well, besides sweet li'l grrrls being raised to be polite & accomodating? I know that sometimes I'm too soft when someone acts insane?

From what she said she isn't friends with with this guy?

To ask her to spend this much time on him? He is either thinking that he is king of manipulation or he's nuts! A nut is a scary thing. If someone is too weird, one way of coping is to play along.

If you don't stay on top of it? You can get sucked into participating in their madness...

If you talk to this fugger again? Accuse him of being from Calgary & thus an uncouth boor! An impossible mad dog who should be put down before he infects others. :D

Although on a more psychological level, why did you feel the need to say maybe then bitch about him phoning you to us? Maybe you still like the "scrub" ;) :p

I shared it with totse because I have no friends to discuss such things with. No, seriously, I don't. And no, I don't like him anymore. Took me a long time to get over him, even into my current relationship, but I am over him, no interest. Except he is quite the fox, Jude Law lookalike and such. But the personality... UGH. He's just so stupid. And... yucky. Gives me a headache everytime I talk to him. I don't need more headaches.

Why didn't you just say no, and leave it at that?
If you didn't want to, then you should have just said - and now look what's happening.

If hes an asshole then why are you sparing his feelings? Why sugarcoat it/put it off for another day?

Oh and I'm sure this will thrill your current boyfriend.

Well, as BB-Kate says, why? Have you mentioned his calling a zillion times to your current beau?

Make him at all jealous if you have? Worth it all then?

Or were you just too distracted to focus enough attention to deal with the fugger when you were online with him? Maybe if you'd been more 'present'...you wouldn't have responded to him at all...