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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-04-10, 22:52
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I'm fucked...
Big problem.
Ok there are two girls in my college who are best friends. I would say i am reasonably good friends with both. Now here is my conundrum:
I really like girl 1 who is leaving college. Im not sure what she thinks of me so as far as that is concerned we are just friends.
Tonight girl 1 told me that girl 2 really likes me but i only really consider her as a friend.
People think girl 1 might like me, so i was thinking to tell her my feelings before she leaves.
So my problem is do i risk telling girl 1 i like her in the knowledge that she will tell girl 2 which will likely leave me looking like a bit of a twat with both girls not talking to me?
Oh to add some fun to this problem girl 2 is an ex drug addict with self image issues and a slight bit suicidal.
Also my best friend at college really dislike girl 2 as she tried to split him and his GF up when she liked him.
As the title says im fucked...
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#2
 2007-04-10, 22:59
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Re: I'm fucked...
Is girl 1 leaving in a way that would make her inaccessable e.g. moving to another city? When you say a slight bit suicidal do you mean she's made a vaguely serious attempt in the last 12 months? Or just that she's kinda emoish/depressed?
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#3
 2007-04-10, 23:01
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Re: I'm fucked...
Not totally inaccesable but enough that i will only see her with a good reason (eg parties or one of us makes a special effort).
Also not to sure i've been told she's made attempts when deppressed but i've always thought them the attention seeking kind.
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#4
 2007-04-11, 01:45
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Re: I'm fucked...
Bump
Really need help on this one. It's all going to come to a head very soon.
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#5
 2007-04-11, 01:47
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Re: I'm fucked...
if it would take "special" effort to see each other, i doubt it would work out regardless of girl 2
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#6
 2007-04-11, 01:48
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Find me motherfucker
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Re: I'm fucked...
Just tell girl 1 that you like her ect.
If you get with her, great.
If you don't, and girl 2 doesn't want to know anymore, who gives a fuck, she sounds like a waster.
Move on.
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#7
 2007-04-11, 02:20
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Re: I'm fucked...
I still fail to see how you are fucked. This is the least "fucked" anyone on Totse has ever been.
If you have the balls to go for it, just tell girl 1 you like her. If you dont have the balls, and you just came here for reassurance of that fact, then great, pussy out and do nothing. In reality, that is what most of us do everyday.
Who cares if you look like a twat? You don't want to date girl 2, so if she knows you dont, thats a good thing. If girl 1 thinks you are a twat, who cares, she never liked you anyways.
Why wouldn't she like you? Because she thinks she is too good for you. We call that a bitch. Who cares what bitches think?
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#8
 2007-04-15, 17:01
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Caoltan 
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Re: I'm fucked...
only solution = threesome
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#9
 2007-04-15, 17:26
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averageBT 
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Re: I'm fucked...
would you rather tell the girl that is leaving your feelings or would you rather get fucked by the girl who's staying...hmmm...I take the last one.
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#10
 2007-04-15, 19:46
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Re: I'm fucked...
only solution = threesome
QFT.
Tell girl 1 you like her and don't worry about girl 2 but try and get with her later if it doesn't work with girl 1.
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#11
 2007-04-15, 22:08
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hypno 
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Re: I'm fucked...
suprise sex
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