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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-04-09, 09:04
Mephistos Minion Mephistos Minion is offline
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Default I know I gotta tell her but...

Ok here is the deal:

I was going out with a girl for 2 years, she dumped me,. whatever. then I had a one nighter with a cool chick from my history class, again, whatever.

I have been going out with another girl for about a month now. Things were going well, but I am her first boyfriend (this has nothing to do with me not getting any really), we don't work as a couple really well I don't think. She dosen't get me sense of humour alot, and says "Eww" and blushes at most things I say. I havn't been "The first boyfirend" since grade 9 (year 12 nearly 18 years old now).

I know I need to tell her that it isnt working, that I think we are better as friends (which we are, going back to being just mates wouldnt be that different really, but I don't want to hurt her. I don't like being the first boyfriend, even less the first guy to dump her.

Any advice?
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Old 2007-04-09, 09:09
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Default Re: I know I gotta tell her but...

she doesnt like your sick sense of humor you say?
well just disgust her to the point where she dumps you.

your out of the relationship and shes nothurt everybody wins.
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Old 2007-04-09, 09:12
Mephistos Minion Mephistos Minion is offline
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Default Re: I know I gotta tell her but...

I dunno if she would though. Plus I would get HELL from her mates if I pulled something like that. That is another thing, I hate her friends. and she dosen't feel comfortable around mine.
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Old 2007-04-09, 09:48
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Default Re: I know I gotta tell her but...

then just tell her what you said here.

that you dont want to hurt her but you think you would be better off friends.
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Old 2007-04-09, 10:21
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Default Re: I know I gotta tell her but...

Since you're her first boyfriend, I'd be very careful in letting her know the bad news.

If she gets hurt too badly, she might either turn into a whore or overreact and start hating guys.
 
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