this girl i know and me is going to a bar, i really like her but dont know if shes into me. should i try to hook up with her? and how would i go about hooking up with her?
tell her shes beautiful and shit and then just start making out with her?

Mawuahahahahahahahahahaha, awesome.

Yes, tell her she's beautiful and special. Make sure to buy her a drink.

Realise if your friendship hasn't been frought with sexual tension, she'll probably just freak out.
Your best bet is to reveal some deep real parts of yourself. If she's touched, put hand around her, then BIZZAM. In for the kill.

Get her to buy you a drink. Or just lick your eyebrows.

If you build comfort, especially deep revealing shit BEFORE she's attracted to you, you'll get the 'Let's just be friends', comment.

im just going to tell her how i feel about her. you think that would work?

im just going to tell her how i feel about her. you think that would work?

Probably not, women, like most human beings want there to be something in it for them. If you're going to make a pitch, don't just come out and say it. You've got to play the emotional angle.
People buy on emotion and rationalise with logic. Find a way to make it seem like the stupid choice NOT to suck your wiener in a bar.

Probably not, women, like most human beings want there to be something in it for them. If you're going to make a pitch, don't just come out and say it. You've got to play the emotional angle.
People buy on emotion and rationalise with logic. Find a way to make it seem like the stupid choice NOT to suck your wiener in a bar.

so how would i do that?

so how would i do that?

Subtly tell her what's in it for her. Maybe a fake story about your sister/a girl you helped on the street/etc. She's a fish. You've gotta reel her in using bullshit as the bait.

Subtly tell her what's in it for her. Maybe a fake story about your sister/a girl you helped on the street/etc. She's a fish. You've gotta reel her in using bullshit as the bait.

idk i think im going to stick with my plan, and if she turn away or says i just want to be friends should i just not talk to her after that?

we will see what happens

Just tell her. If she doesn't respond back as you would hope, then it isn't meant to be. If you are nervous about it, take a couple of shots first. But tell her before you get all sloppy.

This will probably end badly.

My suggestion is to get inebriated at the bar quickly and hope you are a witty and interesting drunk.

You're going to a bar.

How fucking much more obvious does the situation have to make itself?

You buy her a red bull and vodka, a moscow mule, and two long islands. You make her laugh at everything you do. You say "Okay" when she says "Do you wanna go back to your/my place?"

/me shakes head in disbelief and walks away.

If you build comfort, especially deep revealing shit BEFORE she's attracted to you, you'll get the 'Let's just be friends', comment.

PUA? .

Yeah... yet they're still not going to listen.

Buncha AFC motherfuckers :P

How long you been in the community Durell?

About a year... only just getting heavily into NLP now, though. Want to find out what's so special about the October Man sequence.

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im just going to tell her how i feel about her. you think that would work?
NO.

NEVER DO THIS. It has NEVER worked for any guy EVER (well okay maybe there's been a couple of flukes).

Playing the cutesy "I like you, do you like me?" angle just does not work. You've gotta play the game first. Work on attracting her. Don't salivate over her, don't show up at the bar with obvious intentions to hook up with her or you'll look like a sleaze.

NO.

NEVER DO THIS. It has NEVER worked for any guy EVER (well okay maybe there's been a couple of flukes).

Playing the cutesy "I like you, do you like me?" angle just does not work. You've gotta play the game first. Work on attracting her. Don't salivate over her, don't show up at the bar with obvious intentions to hook up with her or you'll look like a sleaze.

Hmmm....Yeah. I don't think that shit works to well either. I always tell girls "I like you alot" and almost every time they just get weirded out, shy, and it just makes the situation awkward, because your putting her on the spot. What are some good ways you can attract girls better? Damn, it's so much easier when your under the influence of something.

dont ever try to hook up witha a girl at the bar..ca zlook what if she has feeling for you and when u did what u did with her she might be thing...doe she really like me or was he drunk and thats y he was hitting on me..soo just chillw ith her today and flirt a lil & then c what happends the next day...

Get it off Torrent. It's useless though. Speed Seduction and NLP is mediocre shit at best, stick with the M3 model.

I'll add you to MSN.

What are some good ways you can attract girls better? Damn, it's so much easier when your under the influence of something.

I think you just answered your own question there.

See, I mainly love the M3 model, but NLP has some interesting nuanced shit that you can throw in. Even the notion of opening with 'Hey guys...', to screen sexual interest is an NLP technique.

After going through some of Hypnotica's stuff and seeing that he's also into NLP, I thought I'd give it a go. The man is fucking unbelievable (especially that 'Sphinx of the Imagination', cd).

Hypnotica/Eric is overhyped man. I've talked to Taste (the guy who won the stylelife challenge and flew to see him) and he's a still AFC. He isn't getting laid any more than before. If I uploaded an audio recording I have of him you'd probably burst out laughing. Sphinx of Imagination is basically the same as any other NLP product like Paul McKennas stuff. Download the free trance (http://www.paulmckenna.com/) and compare.

Don't get me wrong, patterns are cool to use as a spice but most people have moved on from speed seduction and joined the David DeAngelo camp, like Grimble. This is him on Elimidate (his real name is Craig) winning without any patterns or NLP, just using cocky and funny.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8546935475205946704&q=craig+elimidate

Ahhh okay, awesome. Will check out those links.

Hmmm, didn't expect that Hypnotica would be an AFC, though... I mean, he runs a strip club, doesn't he, I thought he'd be knee deep in pussy.

Eric isn't AFC, he's just kinda overhyped when it comes to helping other people. He himself really is knee deep in pussy. But Taste is the same guy he was before he flew out there.

Dude it's simple, get pretty drunk with her, and start dancing with her, it doesn't even have to be close dancing. Then at certain points of the dance just get real close and grind for 2-3 seconds then pull back again. Gauge her reaction, if she likes it, after a while next time you grind lean in and kiss her on the neck. Gauge the reaction, if she's digging it, do it again, only move to the cheek, then the mouth. Guaranteed, works everytime.