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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-04-08, 17:54
Lord_Awesome Lord_Awesome is offline
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Default Sex in a Pool

Hey guys, there is a pool at my house, it's outside, secluded, and my girlfriend and I were talking about having sex, or messing around in it. She says that sex in a pool, makes the condoms more likely to break? Is this true, is the water, or the chlorine breaking down the latex? Would it make polyurethane condoms likely too break too? Would I have to worry about chlorine irritating her vagina? Anything else I should know, or worry about, or find a preemptive solution to?
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Old 2007-04-08, 18:00
Father Time Father Time is offline
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I don't think the chlorine will give you a problem, but I might be wrong. And if she's on birth control, don't worry about the condom.

You won't know if you don't try.
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Old 2007-04-08, 18:03
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You have a pool? Lucky bas...
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Old 2007-04-08, 18:07
Lord_Awesome Lord_Awesome is offline
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She's not on the pill, I don't know if I could talk her onto it. We haven't talked about the pill, we just use condoms.
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Old 2007-04-08, 18:10
Puscifer Puscifer is offline
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just drill her in it dude, theres always abortion..
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Old 2007-04-08, 18:13
Father Time Father Time is offline
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I strongly suggest you talk her into taking the pill. It makes things much easier for the both of you.
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Old 2007-04-08, 18:15
Rocko Rocko is offline
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http://www.youporn.com/watch/3690 :D
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Old 2007-04-08, 19:14
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Water will cause a lot of friction and will make the condom break down. you will also need to apply lube frequently.
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Old 2007-04-08, 19:17
fat_people_suck fat_people_suck is offline
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I wish I could have a fuckin pool...
 #10 
Old 2007-04-08, 19:32
jackdaniels jackdaniels is offline
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I have a pool. A pretty big one too.:D
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Old 2007-04-08, 20:18
oinkthepig oinkthepig is offline
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Watch out for the pools! They transmit the AIDS!

As a fine King i care for my citizens, but be warned that my scientists dont have the cure yet, so enter pools at your own risk.
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Old 2007-04-08, 20:42
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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your sex will improve four-fold if she goes on the pill. peace of mind + lack of condoms = :]]]
moving out will sky rocket it
 #13 
Old 2007-04-08, 20:52
Lord_Awesome Lord_Awesome is offline
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Default Re: Sex in a Pool

Thank you everyone for saying she should go on the pill. Thanks to you guys, we talked about it, and I think I might be able to get her to get the shot. Even better then the pill, she doesn't have to take it everyday, and if we do it at Family Planning Clinic, her parent's won't find out, which means it won't result in an uncomfortable times with her parents.

Oh, and thanks for the advice about it causing more friction, and that stuff.
 #14 
Old 2007-04-08, 20:55
Lord_Awesome Lord_Awesome is offline
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To oink, pools don't carry or spread AIDs, that's your mama's job.
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Old 2007-04-08, 21:43
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Having sex in a pool can result in water being thrust into the female's vagina, potentially causing mild to severe bacterial infections. So if you're okay with that, and the symptoms, such as irregular bleeding for days and days, go right ahead. Yuck yuck yuck.
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Old 2007-04-08, 22:24
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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My girl wouldn't let me fuck her without a condom when she was on the pill... or when she did, she wouldn't let me cum inside her. Lame. Anyways, sex in a hottub kicks ass like hell.
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Old 2007-04-09, 00:55
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I've gone at in a few community pools, and honestly...it's not that great. The water washes away her natural juices, so theres no lubrication at all. I guess that would have a negative effect on condoms as well.
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Old 2007-04-09, 01:35
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Demoiselle
Having sex in a pool can result in water being thrust into the female's vagina, potentially causing mild to severe bacterial infections. So if you're okay with that, and the symptoms, such as irregular bleeding for days and days, go right ahead. Yuck yuck yuck.


I remember hearing this from Sue Johanson herself, so you know it has to be true. Just have sex in the shower.
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Old 2007-04-09, 01:38
Dangerousmind Dangerousmind is offline
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I would recommend not having sex in a pool if you must use a condom. It's probally a lot more likley to break.

Personally I never really liked the idea of fucking in a pool because i feel like im pumping chlorinated water up into the chick's vagina; and that cant be too good for her reproductive system.
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Old 2007-04-09, 02:09
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Originally Posted by SilentMind
I've gone at in a few community pools, and honestly...it's not that great. The water washes away her natural juices, so theres no lubrication at all. I guess that would have a negative effect on condoms as well.


Yep, you lose all lubrication, and it actually sucks. Warm water (like a hot tub or a bath) works pretty well, but the ocean or a pool? Fuggeddabidit.
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Old 2007-04-09, 03:20
MadIndustries MadIndustries is offline
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Sex in a pool only works without the condom, true it does wash away her lubrication, but just toy with her alot, keep turning her on with kisses on the neck and light touches over her body, shouldnt be too hard to maintain lubrication long enough to be satisfactory for both of you. And as somebody else said, try for the hot tub, way cooler. Oh! If you have a sauna, do it in there too, it's awesome.
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Old 2007-04-09, 04:20
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Originally Posted by fat_people_suck
I wish I could have a fuckin pool...


does anyone see the pun?
 #23 
Old 2007-04-09, 04:57
PureJeenyus PureJeenyus is offline
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Originally Posted by Isobutane
your sex will improve four-fold if she goes on the pill. peace of mind + lack of condoms = :]]]
moving out will sky rocket it


heh, my buddy just got his girlfriend pregnant cause he doesnt use condoms, and she was on the pill + she refuses to have an abortion so now he is stuck with a child at 20 years old and while still in college.

DONT BE A FOOL WRAP UR TOOL
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Old 2007-04-09, 05:51
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sex in a pool dont sound that good. sex in the shower is uncomfortable.





and a warning
when shes on that shot she will have mood swings alot and gain some weight. but thats better than having a kid!
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Old 2007-04-09, 11:00
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heh, my buddy just got his girlfriend pregnant cause he doesnt use condoms, and she was on the pill + she refuses to have an abortion so now he is stuck with a child at 20 years old and while still in college.

DONT BE A FOOL WRAP UR TOOL

Don't be silly, protect your willy
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Old 2007-04-09, 12:03
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and a warning
when shes on that shot she will have mood swings alot and gain some weight. but thats better than having a kid!

My ex was the same but not with the shot, she was a moody bitch on the pill.
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Old 2007-04-09, 14:06
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http://www.youporn.com/watch/3690 :D

how do they..breeeaaathe?
 #28 
Old 2007-04-09, 15:49
Rocko Rocko is offline
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how do they..breeeaaathe?

Gills.
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Old 2007-04-09, 16:03
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord_Awesome
Thank you everyone for saying she should go on the pill. Thanks to you guys, we talked about it, and I think I might be able to get her to get the shot. Even better then the pill, she doesn't have to take it everyday, and if we do it at Family Planning Clinic, her parent's won't find out, which means it won't result in an uncomfortable times with her parents.

Oh, and thanks for the advice about it causing more friction, and that stuff.


I would just like to point out that the shot may seem great and all but it can cause lots of future damage to her. like the the chance of not being able to have kids for up to three years. the chances of blood clots and so on..... but of course its all up to you... and if you go to a family clinic you could still get her the pill there.
~gecko~
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Old 2007-04-09, 21:25
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The water causes too much friction. Don't bother.
 #31 
Old 2007-04-09, 22:03
throopguy21 throopguy21 is offline
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i heard chlorine is a spermacide(sp?) even in low concentrations, but its not like she"ll be flushing her vagina with pool water though. i suggest you make the sacrafice and get thicker condoms.
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Old 2007-04-09, 22:24
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My friend said the hot tub sex sucks because the water is the same temperature as the pussy and he doesn't really feel all that much pleasure.

But that's the only place he can really fuck his girl.. I dunno why.
 #33 
Old 2007-04-09, 23:10
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I just googled for about 3 seconds and found you this:

"Shower, hot tub, lake, pool, bath – all are great options for spicing up your sex life! The important thing to keep in mind is that STIs (sexually transmitted infections) and HIV can still be transmitted while having sex in the water. Condoms are not tested for durability against the hot, wet chemicals found in pools and hot tubs. It is quite possible that condoms would deteriorate when placed in chlorine or heated water. In addition, oil-based products such as sunscreen, soaps, and shampoos could also cause condoms to break down. Other problems with wet and wild sex are that spermicide will most likely wash away in the water and water may also be able to seep between the condom and the penis causing the condom to slip off. As with all sexual encounters, it is recommended that you and your partner are tested for sexually transmitted infections before you become sexually intimate.

If you are still planning on having sex in water, it’s better to use some form of protection rather than none at all. The condom needs to be put on before getting into the water and you may want to look into using a silicone-based lubricant. Natural lubricants tend to get washed away while having sex in the water and this causes an increased amount of friction resulting in condom breakage.

Be safe in all of your splish-splash adventures!

Katie Boutott, B.S.
Health Educator
Health Iowa/Student Health Service"

from http://www.uistudenthealth.com/question/default.asp?ID=123
 #34 
Old 2007-04-10, 01:16
chumpion chumpion is offline
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We've always found sex in a pool is more about being naked with other people around, and being able to touch the other person where you wouldn't normally be able to.

Some things to consider when having sex in a pool/ hottub/ saltwater:

* Saltwater can really chafe you both, more so than chlorine, which in turn is worse than fresh water.
* Sex is better if you "slowly slide it in and cuddle/ kiss", rather than going at it hammer and tongs in water. Generally.
* The edge of the pool, or a floating mattress thingy, is generally a good height for the lady to lie back on, and chlorine/ salt water can make a pussy taste very nice.....
* Sex in a public pool is generally one of those things you like to say you have done once, but don't tend to keep doing it.
* Ladies tend to loosen up a fair bit (I mean mood wise, not what your thinking) in a hot tub with candles and stuff all around. Don't know why - and I don't care. I just know it works. And I have an 8 person spa being installed in the next few weeks.
* I guess it would be easier for fatties to have sex in water. Not saying anything about the OP - I'm just guessing it would be easier for fatties. I think hippo's mate in the water, don't they?

I guess having said all that, if you are both in the right mood, you can fuck anywhere you want and love it.
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Old 2007-04-10, 22:36
Lord_Awesome Lord_Awesome is offline
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Thanks for all your advice. I think we are going to try it. I'm gonna try to get her on birth control, so if the condom does break, if we even use one. Yes I had heard about it wearing down latex, but polyurethane is supposed to be stronger, gonna find out if it wears them down too. Sadly I don't have a sauna or hot tub, or else those would be on my list. Oh, and no, I'm not fat. Thanks for the link myscars, i had found that article, but not read all the way through it. Oh, and this is a private pool, so I'm not too worried about a lot of those things people said about public pools. I will be careful though.

Thanks too everyone who has contributed info, and stories.
 #36 
Old 2007-04-11, 01:00
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Uh, if I remember my high school sex ed class correctly, you can't get your girlfriend pregnant by having sex in a pool.

If she really insists that you use protection, try saran wrap or sandwich bags.
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Old 2007-04-11, 01:48
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chlorine does break down latex and so does heat

when i was a lad my friends and i used to boil condoms for a few minuets and that made them stretchy enough to stretch over telephone boxes (tried and tested)

if you worried about about the latex breaking down and you and your partner don't have any STDs you might want to try lambskin condoms

lambskin condoms give a better sensation too
 
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