So I hooked up with a girl last night, took her home, all that jazz. But the thing is she's talking about meeting up again for this and that, which is all well and good, but I don't want it to develop into a relationship. I just got out of a long serious relationship which was quite an ordeal at the end, and I'm just not ready for a relationship, nor do I want one, just the sex and fooling around is fine at this stage.

So totse, how do I tell her that all I want is the booty call, with no strings or commitment without her scaring away? She's by no means a very good catch, but on call sex whenever I want it is tempting at this stage. What do I say?

Be blunt, and honest. No point in playing with her head.

just tell her you like spending time with her but you just not ready for a relationship at the moment

she will back down from the subject but hang around just in case you change your mind

Be straight up.

Best advice.

It's usually not that hard at all, if you speak to around your hang-outs or at school or college. Just make suggestions towards it, flirt jokingly about non-committal sex.

"You know _________, I'm really gonna enjoy all the non-committal sex we're going to have"

It may be a little more difficult if you only see her on dates.

It may be a little more difficult if you only see her on dates.

No no no, no dates, just booty calls are what I want, dates implies relationship status. Can't have her thinking that, the furthest I'll go is bringing over a movie a pizza and a bottle of wine to her house for something to do pre-coital. But that wouldn't be a date right?

I wouldnt consider that a date, and it's more polite than arriving after a pizza and bottle of wine and expecting to jump on her.

"I want nothing less than sex."

Works every time.

Most girls already know that all you want is sex, were not all stupid!

ask "are you ok doing what we're about to do if it doesn't lead to an actual relationship, but potentially more sex?"

worked for me. :D

just walk away after you banged her

make sure to cum on the hair to make it nasty

ask her if she's done anything kinky

if yes, or even no. Ask her, or force her to fuck the bottle neck.

whip your cock out and whack off

???

profit

Just try to lead everything to sex. Its probably the best way right now, though you shouldn't keep doing it for a long period of time. sooner or later, you'll have to confront her about you just wanting to hook up.

It is your own fault for giving her your number mate.

Haha, very true, I couldn't really not give it to her, she's friends with some of my friends, so they'd all find out that I didn't give it to her, or that I gave her a fake one and I'd be in the bad books with them, it's a lose lose. But yeah, I'm glad that girl said before that they already expect that all we want is sex, so I should be set, I just wont bring it up until she does, then let her know.

Tell her you found a song that reminded you of her:

http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/bang.php

Depends on the girl, and what she wants. It could be exactly what she is after, or it could turn her off you completely.

Take a chance, and be honest with her. If nothing else, you've had one good night with her.....

Expect nothing and demand everything.