Before you say anything, here's my story...

I met this Chinese girl at one of my classes. She's nice and kind and I really like her. She seems to be close to me when we were still classmates and I think she enjoys the time we spend together. She doesn't look particularly Chinese because she kinda look like a Caucasian and Chinese mixed together... But she is pure Chinese. I only know that she is a Chinese when I discovered her last name. I find her really cute and my friends also say so.

The problem is I can't say to her that I like her because I think she came from a conservative family and all that... She usually tells me about her brother who seems to care for her. Furthermore, I think his family wants her to marry a pure Chinese and I am not a Chinese. I also think that her family doesn't want her to have a relationship until she graduates. She also seems to be not interested in relationships. Aside from that, I once insulted the Chinese race by saying that they all see wide screen and wide screen monitors and TVs are suited for them. I never really mean it because I was just joking when I said that. I don't want to mess up with their race or anything.

I really like her because all I think about is her even if I am partying and meeting a girl, I suddenly imagine her and say to myself that I will be loyal to her and all that crap. She also seems different from other girls I like since I don't specifically want to have sex with her, I just want her to be happy, be my friend and to be with her always etc.

I am just thinking that I should wait until we graduated. The last time I saw her is about two months ago since we are not anymore classmates but I still think about her almost everyday.

Any ideas?

*waits for offensive joke*

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Toughie.

Dude, in your situation I wouldn't confess.

Mainly because I wouldn't want to complicate her life.

Just try to develop a relationship out of class. See how that goes.

Oh my lord...you do not want to have to deal with conservative chinese parents. Trust me. Just let it die.

What is her situation.

She she full blood Chinese born in America but her parents immigrated here? Did she immigrate here? Is she an exchange student...

The problem is I don't see her anymore since we are not anymore classmates.

I am not in the mood to call her since we are not that close and she and her family might notice that I am courting her etc.

You think about her everyday yet you dont want to call her... She will lose interest, if she even had interest, if you just let it go for the time being...

Just go for it.

If not, you're just gonna regret for life.

God, I just hope so. It seems that almost everything that I do, she acts like an inspiration for me...

I've been dating a girl for almost seven months who sounds a lot like the girl you like, except she looks very Chinese.

Conservative parents suck. You should really go for it if you want her, but don't be surprised when she won't tell her parents about you, assuming you're in college or high school. Realize that now is not the time for her to break away from her family. Asian culture is pretty fucking racist.

Whats this? Whyt boi wants to git wif our wominz??

Don't do it. She might not mind a white boyfriend/husband, but her family will practically disown her. I know these things. My uncle didn't get married until 35, my 34yo cousin is still unmarried, my other cousin married a white guy, my uncle's sister-in-law is dating an east indian guy...

They're all catching some major flak from almost everyone in the family. Sure it's old-fashioned but we're a very proud people.

*ObZ

We are already in college.

I can tell that she is quite rich living in an exclusive village and we both go into a university wherein most students are rich. I'm not bragging or anything, since I am not rich but my parents are. I think that my parents don't want me to get a job.

I believe that I am not that good in girls since I came from an exclusive all boys private school in high school. But I can tell that I'm not weird or a loser since most of you might suspect. She also came from an exclusive school for girls (private school). I've been with other girls but I think its not that serious. I just think that it is different this time.

I feel that she already has a crush on somebody, who I think is also a Chinese.

So your a Chinese then?

I am not specifically white since I look like a Spanish or Hispanic. My skin looks a little Asian. Lol... To tell you the truth, my family is like a mix of races, my father looks like an Indian and Spanish mixed together because of his skin color and his full beard. My mother looks like a Hispanic with some Korean looks. By the way, my great grandfather is half Chinese. Seriously we are so interracial. Well, I think thats enough of my race...

But I really like her... Should I really let it past and be in solitude, longing for her everyday of my life? Sigh...

Just get some balls, and ask her out, dude. If she's as cool as you think she is, she won't be hesitant to date you.

Don't listen to ObsdianZ.

If nothing else, at least you can say you tried...

This guy's a troll. But first of all, so I'd like to assume that you're not trying to sentimentally mind-fuck the entire Chinese population, the entity you're whispering sweet nothings to is called a P-E-R-S-O-N.

Second of all, in any relationship, multi-racial or not, it's best to make a good impression on the parents first regardless of background.

You're an idiot.

That is all.

She love you long time if you just tell her all that you just wrote up for totse. Maybe she'll reject you or maybe she'll say yes. But the point is that you really like her and care about her. And if she likes you back, then she'll probably do whatever is in her control to try to be with you. If in the end she says she likes you but can't disobey her fammerr-ree, then at least you know it's not you- it's her. Or some shit like that.

Maybe your right... I'll just go and tell her everything so that this will be over and so on.

You have yellow fever. Better than jungle fever, I guess.

Or Yeehaw Fever.

i'm chinese, 100%. okay let me tell you from experience many chinese girls who seem and act innocent or conservative, ARE PHONY. i've met wild asian girls.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!
Chinamen have NO seouls.

FFS.

You do not want that bag.

Let.
It.
Die.

Think 'The Grudge' but with you as Jason Behr.

Seriously.

I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
They only come up to your knees,
Yet they're always friendly, and they're ready to please.

I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
There's nine hundred million of them in the world today.
You'd better learn to like them; that's what I say.

I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
They come from a long way overseas,
But they're cute and they're cuddly, and they're ready to please.

I like Chinese food.
The waiters never are rude.
Think of the many things they've done to impress.
There's Maoism, Taoism, I Ching, and Chess.

So I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
I like their tiny little trees,
Their Zen, their ping-pong, their yin, and yang-ese.

I like Chinese thought,
The wisdom that Confucious taught.
If Darwin is anything to shout about,
The Chinese will survive us all without any doubt.

So, I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
They only come up to your knees,
Yet they're wise and they're witty, and they're ready to please.

All together.

Wo ai zhongguo ren.
Wo ai zhongguo ren.
Wo ai zhongguo ren.
Ni hao ma; ni hao ma; ni hao ma; zaijien!

I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
Their food is guaranteed to please,
A fourteen, a seven, a nine, and lychees.

I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
I like their tiny little trees,
Their Zen, their ping-pong, their yin, and yang-ese.

I like Chinese.
I like Chinese.
They only come up to your knees...

LOL. Her family might be masters of kung fu. I think I better do some more research about her family and the Chinese race as well.

Shit man, truer words never spoken!

I tried to even make myself a figure in this one asian chick's life... her mom was asian, and her dad was white.

Oh, but then I found out this chick was a jesus freak.

I think she is really conservative since I think she had never went out with someone before.

Shit man, truer words never spoken!

I tried to even make myself a figure in this one asian chick's life... her mom was asian, and her dad was white.

Oh, but then I found out this chick was a jesus freak.

I think its okay even if she's a little religious as long as not being a jesus freak like you said.