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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-04-05, 19:48
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

It's not that important, but this is an update to this thread:
http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=1983769

So it turns out it wasn't one of my girlfriends that hit on my boyfriend, it was half of them. I have 6 close girlfriends and (so far) 3 of them have gotten drunk and come on to my boyfriend. I just feel kind of hurt that my friends would do that. I mean, I've done some stupid ass shit when I've been drinking (haven't we all? lol), but I can honestly say that I have never come onto a guy who has a girlfriend, let alone a good friend's boyfriend!

I'm used to girls hitting on him. It happens constantly, even when I'm with him. He's a good looking guy, it doesn't surprise me. I just kind of expected more from my own girlfriends, you know?

I'm not going to say anything to any of them because I understand that people say and do retarded things when they're drunk. But my faith in my fellow women has been shaken a bit by this and I guess I'm looking for advice on how to get over it. :(
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Old 2007-04-05, 19:54
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Are you kidding? Take it as a compliment. Not a lot of people get someone so good that their friends become that envious.
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Old 2007-04-05, 19:59
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

It's not that important, but this is an update to this thread:
http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=1983769

I guess I'm looking for advice on how to get over it. :(

MY advice is to figure out which girls were hitting on your man, and then follow this simple procedure.....

1) Get THEIR boyfriends together one night for a small party.

2) After getting a couple drinks in you, insist on giving all the guys head and or hand jobs at the same time.

3) Culminate this minor orgy in a massive bukake scene, with cum showering all over your face, hands and hair.

4) Post pics or video of the money shot on Totse.

5) Have last laugh

This is a sure fire way for EVERYONE to feel much better, except for the backstabbing bitches of course.
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Old 2007-04-05, 20:02
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

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Originally Posted by H4T3
Are you kidding? Take it as a compliment. Not a lot of people get someone so good that their friends become that envious.


I do take it as a compliment and I don't blame them for being jealous. But...It just seems wrong to come on to a friends boyfriend. I've always thought that they were absolutely off limits, and I thought that most people would share that view, but I guess not. Oh and I forgot to mention that 2 of these girls have their own boyfriends...Like I said, it just seems wrong to me...
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Old 2007-04-05, 20:07
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Well, just because you've developed rules of sexual attraction in your own mind doesn't mean your friends have. If one of your friends had a great looking boyfriend you were alone and drunk with I'm sure you may have felt a little tension. You may even become flirtatious. It's no big deal, really. The point is: He didn't fuck them, therefore no one is in the wrong. Sure they may have wanted to, and even put it out there, but how do you know it's all on their end?
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Old 2007-04-05, 20:15
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

MY advice is to figure out which girls were hitting on your man, and then follow this simple procedure.....

1) Get THEIR boyfriends together one night for a small party.

2) After getting a couple drinks in you, insist on giving all the guys head and or hand jobs at the same time.

3) Culminate this minor orgy in a massive bukake scene, with cum showering all over your face, hands and hair.

4) Post pics or video of the money shot on Totse.

5) Have last laugh

This is a sure fire way for EVERYONE to feel much better, except for the backstabbing bitches of course.

5 chars.
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Old 2007-04-06, 00:04
sidewayz6.6 sidewayz6.6 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Post pics of the three of them. I'll take one(or all 3), and then they'll forget all about your guy. You can thank me later.
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Old 2007-04-06, 01:22
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

As a male, I can say that the same situation, sexes reversed, sucks. Although, to a female I can't really offer advice, as I don't know what the proper social conduct is. For a male however, when another male makes an obvious pass in real life, knowing full well that they are taken, then actions have to be taken. Usually in the form of a bold conversation.
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Old 2007-04-06, 01:53
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

^^^

I asked my boyfriend what he would do if the situation was reversed, and he said he'd kick his friends' asses, lol.

H4T3, you're right, nothing actually happened, so I can't really be mad. I'm just a bit hurt...

oc6, I don't want to automatically say that these girls are not my true friends. I wish I could talk to them, but I don't want to start any drama...
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:10
sidewayz6.6 sidewayz6.6 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

^ I like how you always ever so eloquently skip right over my posts.
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:14
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

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Originally Posted by sidewayz6.6
^ I like how you always ever so eloquently skip right over my posts.


They almost always make me giggle like a bitch.
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:16
sidewayz6.6 sidewayz6.6 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

They almost always make me giggle like a bitch.

Yes, I mean I could be proclaiming my undying love for my favorite Totse member, and she would skip right over this post.
 #13 
Old 2007-04-06, 02:17
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

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Originally Posted by sidewayz6.6
^ I like how you always ever so eloquently skip right over my posts.


Haha! I was actually tempted to post their pictures, but then I would feel bad if anyone said anything mean about my friends...Your posts do make me laugh though!
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:22
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Haha! I was actually tempted to post their pictures, but then I would feel bad if anyone said anything mean about my friends...Your posts do make me laugh though!

Well, luckily we have PRIVATE messages on this new board. Feel free to send those applications-I mean pictures my way. I just noticed 2 of them are taken, but that doesn't seem to have been a problem thus far...
 #15 
Old 2007-04-06, 02:23
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

No one ever private messages me... I feel lonely.
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:24
sidewayz6.6 sidewayz6.6 is offline
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

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Originally Posted by H4T3
No one ever private messages me... I feel lonely.


Well it's only been like 2 days.
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:26
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

^ How the hell. Do we have to add as buddy first?
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:26
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

I feel sorry for their boyfriends as well. I mean if they are coming onto your boyfriend when they consider you a friend imagine who else they must be coming onto, and many probably don't say no the way your boyfriend did.

If I was in your situation(sexes reversed) there would be at the very least a very clear conversation. I'm not sure what the socially proper reaction is among females though but at the very least you should probably tell them to back the fuck up away from your guy. Being drunk is no excuse.
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:26
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Well, luckily we have PRIVATE messages on this new board. Feel free to send those applications-I mean pictures my way. I just noticed 2 of them are taken, but that doesn't seem to have been a problem thus far...

How do you private message someone?
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:29
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

How do you private message someone?
They aren't implemented. You can't.
 #21 
Old 2007-04-06, 02:30
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Zok/JH Disabled it, it should be available soon. You type in their name and send the message. Standard E-mails are faster and easier anyways.

CD: You always beat me to the punch...
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Old 2007-04-06, 02:31
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

I just tried to send you one, but it appears that the administrator(Jefferey) has disabled them. I KNEW it was too good to be true. Can you imagine all the good messages that would be sent?

Man, both of you beat me to it. I'll send you one as soon as they turn them on.
 #23 
Old 2007-04-06, 21:25
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

I'd slap the fucking shit out of all of them.


Friends arent friends if they try to steal from you.No matter what it is they try to steal.
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Old 2007-04-06, 23:47
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

If I was in your situation, I wouldn't be too upset.

I'd be glad my friends thought so highly of my boyfriend, laugh at them because he was mine and not theirs, and love my boyfriend for not doing anything with them. :)
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Old 2007-04-07, 00:33
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Quote:
Originally Posted by yoyobek
I'd slap the fucking shit out of all of them.


Friends arent friends if they try to steal from you.No matter what it is they try to steal.


A little possessive, are we?
 #26 
Old 2007-04-07, 00:47
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

I'm looking for advice on how to get over it. :(

become a lesbian?

post videos of progress
 #27 
Old 2007-04-07, 01:53
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Default Re: Now I understand why he didn't want to tell me...update

Well at least now you can demote them from best mates to... something below that. Or, you could keep your friends close, but your enemies closer. Then strike when the situation warrants it.

Seriously though, talk to them about it, and tell them it's not on. If they can't at least try to keep it in their pants, then they should rightly fuck off. And as if they didn't think you'd find out... hidden message maybe?

Damn I hate these new forums. I change countries and the whole fucking board changes.
 
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