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 #1 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:34
wooty wooty is offline
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Default How you felt after losing your virginity?

Just lost it. It rocked. I wanna do it a lot more.

I felt really manly afterwards, and just walked around the house topless and hair all messed up after she left. I had a big smile on my face the rest of the night and the majority of the next morning.

What about you guys? Was your first time fulfilling or not? Do you regret it? How'd you feel after it?
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Old 2007-04-04, 04:41
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Dirty.
 #3 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:43
throopguy21 throopguy21 is offline
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i felt like the shit, but only because it was sweet because i was pretty young. i attribute this to the fact that i have done drugs that make the dopamine release from an orgasm seem like nothing, so its not that satisfying.
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Old 2007-04-04, 04:46
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Don't remember. Not because it was too long ago, but because sadly I wasn't sober when I lost mine. I really wish I was too. I don't even know who I lost it to or anything. It sucks.

It usually seems to be a more important thing to girls than guys though, and I have no clue if she was a virgin but she was fucked up too.
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Old 2007-04-04, 04:48
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The same way Vegeta felt when he achieved Super Saiyan after training by himself.
 #6 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:50
thendoftheline thendoftheline is offline
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like blowing shit up?
 #7 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:52
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quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

The same way Vegeta felt when he achieved Super Saiyan after training by himself.

I lol'd
 #8 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:06
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Almost the same as before, but really really happy... like a deep contentment happy. That lasted for days.

And lawl at rabbitweed.
 #9 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:06
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My first time wasn't so great. Don't get me wrong, she was pretty damn hot, but when I bent her over to fuck her, she fucking smelled like shit and B.O! I couldn't even get hard, it was a big turn off. So I made that bitch get in the shower. After she took a shower I proceeded to fuck her. I was still happy that I lost my virginity though.
 #10 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:08
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

My first thoughts were, "Huh, so... that's it?"
 #11 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:41
Veritas Aequitas Veritas Aequitas is offline
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Nothing. I didn't feel any different. In fact I felt like a jackass because I kinda just messed everything up. The second time however, I felt like I had just been given a lightsaber. Just fucking cool.
 #12 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:45
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quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

The same way Vegeta felt when he achieved Super Saiyan after training by himself.

bahahahahahhaahah
 #13 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:48
K Hole Gangster K Hole Gangster is offline
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

The first time was sort of a bore. I was left with this "oh..." feeling.

The second time was like having mickey mouse jack me off on that gigantic tower in disney world. When he finally got me off I lit the sky up with firecum as little children watched from afar. My cum then drowned everybody.

God damn, sex got good after the first time.
 #14 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:51
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I just lost it about a week ago.

I'm definitely feeling good. Noticably more confident, etc. It's good.

-F☺rd
 #15 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:56
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quote:Originally posted by K Hole Gangster:

The first time was sort of a bore. I was left with this "oh..." feeling.

The second time was like having mickey mouse jack me off on that gigantic tower in disney world. When he finally got me off I lit the sky up with firecum as little children watched from afar. My cum then drowned everybody.

God damn, sex got good after the first time.

LMAO. You are one fucked up honkey.

Ford, congrats, I feel ya man. High five.
 #16 
Old 2007-04-04, 06:15
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

I fucked her outside, on a playground. She cried for a little while, and I stopped. She told me she didn't want it from behind. I took her from missionary. Halfway through, it started to rain. All semblance of who I was or where I was going melted in the rainstorm.

I remember being done with it and feeling like it was a chore. By the time I was done I was completely disgusted by the girl. The way she felt was amazing, but she was very unattractive. The time it took me to cum was way too long for a first timer. The rain made it so I couldn't concentrate. Every time I saw her face I was back to square one. I just closed my eyes, bit down hard and grunted right into her.

I felt soooo fucking dirty. After a while, though, I felt like a man afterwards. I fucked that same girl at least fifty times that year. She was a cougar, but damn she felt good.
 #17 
Old 2007-04-04, 06:33
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

not much different, if at all.

just the occasional thought of... "oh, right. im not a virgin anymore..."

it was fun though, very enjoyable.

happened about 2 weeks ago actually.

times after that have been better.
 #18 
Old 2007-04-05, 18:02
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"That was it? I've had better blowjobs."

She was a virgin, too, and it was disappointing. I kept sleeping with her until we broke up, and then I did it with another girl and it was amazing and has been so since. My current girlfriend is a whole lot better in bed.

I did feel manly, though, because she let me go down on her and I gave her the first orgasm she'd ever had in her life. It was nice to be able to experience that with her.

But yeah, she sucked in bed. Don't save it for marriage if you were debating doing so. It's like buying a car without test driving it.
 #19 
Old 2007-04-05, 18:03
Satanz Handicapped Helper Satanz Handicapped Helper is offline
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Like I just spent 10 euro.
 #20 
Old 2007-04-05, 18:07
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Eh, it wasn't all that special - both the setting and the actual feeling. But it wasn't awful.
 #21 
Old 2007-04-05, 19:12
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I felt like having another beer. And when I woke up, I was horrified at the ugly bitch that I had just fucked. At least I slapped her in the cheek with my cock. That's not a joke either. Low self confidence? Slap some chick in the cheek with your cock.
 #22 
Old 2007-04-05, 20:17
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Originally Posted by Schmazz
Eh, it wasn't all that special - both the setting and the actual feeling. But it wasn't awful.


Thats basically me right here.
 #23 
Old 2007-04-05, 20:41
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

Relief, the first time is like getting over the hump. Once i did it once it wasn't really that hard to get laid again. No GF most of the time but i get it atleast once a week.
 #24 
Old 2007-04-05, 20:54
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I felt kind of let down because it was utterly shit. And then I told my sister and she had a right go at me and then I felt dirty.
 #25 
Old 2007-04-05, 21:15
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

I regreted it.

For a start, I sucked. She just sorta lay there. The whole experience was far from mind blowing.

You can make love and you can fuck... At this stage in my life, I have done both a lot and obviously combined the two so I was making fuck. My first time, though, was neither of these.

It was an awkward little mistake which kept me from losing my virginity to the girl I loved.
 #26 
Old 2007-04-05, 21:57
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I think the reason it wasn't as great as the standard hype is for me was because i spent the previous few nights discussing what she and i would do and having phone sex. fun. but kinda degrades the real thing. anyway.

She got in my house. we started kissing and moved up to my room. we stripped each other down. started rubbing against each other. toyed with each other a bit with oral. finally i got the condom put on. we lauged a lot at the initial difficulty in getting myself into her. we climaxed. we dressed. i walked her home.

The whole time afterwards, i kept thinking "hmm... that's it. it was nice, but not life altering."
 #27 
Old 2007-04-05, 22:03
MomentaryLapseOfReason MomentaryLapseOfReason is offline
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

I felt kinda tired, sweaty, breathing heavy, and my hips hurt. Then I got up and got a glass of water. Then I went to bed.
 #28 
Old 2007-04-05, 22:06
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I felt strange, like i did something wrong. And then when I stood up to get something my bones hurt a lot for some reason.
 #29 
Old 2007-04-05, 22:31
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sore, pretty sore.
i woke up hella late, went down stairs, he slapped my butt and hugged me a bunch and it was all warm and whatnot. after the OMFGGF MY VAGINA IS IN SHREADS feeling went away, i wanted to do it again, so two night later, we did.
 #30 
Old 2007-04-05, 22:31
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mostly drunk....and king of the world....or at least my world
 #31 
Old 2007-04-06, 04:28
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Lost it to the girl I love, and nothing was better. We made love, and I was so fucked up on SSRI's I think I didn't cum for three hours. We were both virgins, and we never got around to fucking weekly, but when we did make love, it was an incredible experience.

Since then getting laid is pretty easy, as someone else said. And because the four or five girls I've fucked since the first were only so-so in bed, it hasn't been as good. I am confident that if I fall in love again or hook up with a very, very hot woman (I think I may be close on this front) sex will be that amazing again.

Really, I was satisfied with myself. I performed well, she came, I came.. what else do you want the first time? No blood, not too much pain for her. Later on I felt just a little bit more confident, and honestly, fairly relieved that the whole bullshit of losing it was over. Occaisionally I still have thoughts of "What's the big deal with getting laid anyway?"; luckily, these are assuaged as soon as I fuck someone again.

Finally, I did indeed laugh at rabbitweed's obligatory Super Saiyan comment. DBZ.. brings back the memories from sixth grade, doesn't it fellas?
 #32 
Old 2007-04-06, 04:46
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first time was oral sex. feelings: i enjoy jacking off more than that.
 #33 
Old 2007-04-06, 04:52
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it was cool but i never really cared much about losing my virginity...it just never really meant much to me i guess. it still felt fucking amazing though, especially after i came after 3 god damn hours
 #34 
Old 2007-04-06, 05:06
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first time was oral sex. feelings: i enjoy jacking off more than that.


you must have had some shitty oral sex.
 #35 
Old 2007-04-06, 11:26
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Default Re: How you felt after losing your virginity?

Almost the same as before, but really really happy... like a deep contentment happy. That lasted for days.

Pretty much the same for me.

I remember that while I was doing it, I was thinking 'Now I know why it's such a big deal. It's like trying to get as close as absolutely possible. Like trying to be part of her.'
 #36 
Old 2007-04-06, 11:32
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I felt like a pimp. The best part was that she didn't even know it was my first time. I knew I was a natural-borned fucker.
 #37 
Old 2007-04-06, 15:41
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Heh, my first time was funny (in retrospect).

We were both virgins who had no idea what we were doing, so we did it WRONG. He went in too fast and at a wierd angle, I started gushing blood and crying and then HE started crying. The whole expewrience was so bad that we didn't attempt it again for like 6 months.

My first time with my husband was funny too. He orgasmed like 1 minute into it, but he kept trying to pretend like he hadn't so I tried to pretend like I didn't notice his semen pooling under me and his loss of erection. Heh, now we just laugh when something like that happens.:P
 #38 
Old 2007-04-06, 16:25
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My first time was terrible. I blew my load within minutes, but I kept my erection so I just carried on, witch sucked cause my cock was just numb so I couldn't feel anything.

A few weeks later when I got better and gave her, her first orgasm, I was proud as fuck and felt like God! Specially as the first thing she did was run down stairs and tell all her mates!
 #39 
Old 2007-04-06, 16:26
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Originally Posted by wooty
Just lost it. It rocked. I wanna do it a lot more.

I felt really manly afterwards, and just walked around the house topless and hair all messed up after she left. I had a big smile on my face the rest of the night and the majority of the next morning.

What about you guys? Was your first time fulfilling or not? Do you regret it? How'd you feel after it?


What a joke.
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Old 2007-04-06, 16:59
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I felt like a pimp. The best part was that she didn't even know it was my first time. I knew I was a natural-borned fucker.


Hahahaha. So when exactly were you 'borned'?
ilol@people who can't speak their own language.

My first time i made love to my girlfriend of a few months and it was, as people have said, not really what i expected and definately not earth-shatteringly life-changing like the media make it out to be.
Since then our sex lives have got better and better to the point where we're climaxing together almost every time. It's the best feeling in the fucking world - like we're so close that we pretend we're going to melt into one big blob and become one entity.

Such special times in my life so far, she makes me happier than ive ever been :)
 #41 
Old 2007-04-06, 18:33
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Since then our sex lives have got better and better

I lol at people who can't speak their own language. "Have got," eh?

I don't really remember my first time. It wasn't that great I guess.
 #42 
Old 2007-04-06, 18:37
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kinda achy and confused...and sleepy. we had about 3 hours of sleep afterward and it was on my best friends floor while she was having sex with her boyfriend in the bed next to us. yeah...not so romantic. I felt kind of sick and I'm guessing the same of him. not because we didn't really love eachother, but because they pressured us into it...
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Old 2007-04-06, 18:40
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kinda achy and confused...and sleepy. we had about 3 hours of sleep afterward and it was on my best friends floor while she was having sex with her boyfriend in the bed next to us. yeah...not so romantic. I felt kind of sick and I'm guessing the same of him. not because we didn't really love eachother, but because they pressured us into it...

Is it strange that I found that arousing? :p
 #44 
Old 2007-04-06, 18:57
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not much different, if at all.

just the occasional thought of... "oh, right. im not a virgin anymore..."

it was fun though, very enjoyable

same here. I was already full of self confidence and all that before hand so I really felt no different after. The first time wasn't that great. I didn't last very long because I hadn't gotten off in several days before that so it came way too easy, and we didn't have time for a second go. Plus, she was getting close to her period so I really didn't want to risk it again, even though we were using condoms and being very careful. Despite all that it was fun, we enjoyed it, and we loved each other, still do today, so no harm done. The sex has gotten exponentially better since then. All in all, losing your virginity is really no big deal at all, and the first time usually sucks anyway.
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Old 2007-04-06, 20:34
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Heh, my first time was funny (in retrospect).

We were both virgins who had no idea what we were doing, so we did it WRONG. He went in too fast and at a wierd angle, I started gushing blood and crying and then HE started crying. The whole expewrience was so bad that we didn't attempt it again for like 6 months.

My first time with my husband was funny too. He orgasmed like 1 minute into it, but he kept trying to pretend like he hadn't so I tried to pretend like I didn't notice his semen pooling under me and his loss of erection. Heh, now we just laugh when something like that happens.:P


Edit: I felt like an asshole after my first time. I lied and manipulated for a pity fuck. Weird that 3 years later I find myself dating the girl...after apologizing for mistreating her in the past, of course.

I feel bad for your husband until I read about him hitting you or killing your snail.
 #46 
Old 2007-04-06, 20:45
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I felt really fucking proud and also relieved that I finally got it over with. I ended up staying with the guy for over 2 years!
 #47 
Old 2007-04-06, 23:08
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Four years ago. I didn't even get to bust the first time. The condom was too small and cut off circulation, it was a large too!
Not to mention she was a virgin, and was complaining.
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Old 2007-04-06, 23:38
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Edit: I felt like an asshole after my first time. I lied and manipulated for a pity fuck. Weird that 3 years later I find myself dating the girl...after apologizing for mistreating her in the past, of course.

I feel bad for your husband until I read about him hitting you or killing your snail.

Why do you feel bad for him? Oh and it turns out he didn't kill my slug...I just assumed he had because he always talked about doing it!
 #49 
Old 2007-04-09, 05:37
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Originally Posted by K Hole Gangster
The first time was sort of a bore. I was left with this "oh..." feeling.

The second time was like having mickey mouse jack me off on that gigantic tower in disney world. When he finally got me off I lit the sky up with firecum as little children watched from afar. My cum then drowned everybody.

God damn, sex got good after the first time.


I hope you missed the "s" in "she"... unless you just mean mickey mouse, lol analogies comparing women to male animals are misleading...
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Old 2007-04-09, 05:40
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I felt empty, cheated and angry at contemporary fiction which reared my unnatural expectations.
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