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 #1 
Old 2007-04-03, 23:12
Grab Grab is offline
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Default Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Not too hard of a question...

How often do you talk to them? Everyday? Once a day? Twice a day? Once a week?

Discuss!

I'm interested to see what's too much/too little.

How often do you want to talk to your S/O?
 #2 
Old 2007-04-03, 23:27
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

^^^ Disturbing thought...

I call my girl all the time. About twice a night when I'm at work...To say have a chat and say goodnight.

If she's at work, she'll call me.

We spend a lot of time on the phone to each other.
 #3 
Old 2007-04-03, 23:43
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I rarely talk on the phone with my girlfriend for more than five minutes, seeing as she lives in the same dormitory is me, five floors up. I probably talk to her on the phone around 2 or 3 times a day to meet up after classes, for dinner, or whatever.
 #4 
Old 2007-04-04, 00:37
TruthWielder TruthWielder is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I had school but no classes with my ex, spent at least an hour with her a day, and talked to her on the phone (whether a couple minutes or hours) at least once a day. Thats because she was badass though.
 #5 
Old 2007-04-04, 00:39
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Every night, most of the time any way.

Conversations go for maybe, anywhere from two to seven hours.

*shrugs*

We're good communicators.
 #6 
Old 2007-04-04, 01:10
origamimavin origamimavin is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

we talk on the phone maybe 3 or 4 times every day, plus for at least an hour every night (after it's free talk time). i've even gone over by about $400. we also talk online. but then again, i'm 350 miles away at college.

EDIT: spelling

[This message has been edited by origamimavin (edited 04-04-2007).]
 #7 
Old 2007-04-04, 01:12
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Well we live together so I never call him just to talk. But I'd say I call him atleast once a day, but it's usually just to confirm when to pick him up from work or to see if he needs me to bring him some food or whatever.
 #8 
Old 2007-04-04, 03:14
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Once a day just to make plans, once or twice more if we're not doing something that day.
 #9 
Old 2007-04-04, 03:18
darksidez4 darksidez4 is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

usually never.

see each other practically every day, and live in her room during week ends...
 #10 
Old 2007-04-04, 03:22
star-lit star-lit is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

2-3 times a week, because that's as often as we see each other usually. Neither of us like the phone very much. We talk on MSN around 4 times a week I guess? Something like that.

We're both still only 17, we don't really feel the need to talk EVERY day... I guess we don't depend on each other a lot. We've each got our own group of friends, and pretty much totally separate lives that happen to cross paths for a couple days each week.
 #11 
Old 2007-04-04, 03:25
pulsera pulsera is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I call my girlfriend or she calls me every morning, and then we tlak about 3 times during the day, we generally spend everynight together, and always call just before bed...



So to answer your questions, obssesively.
 #12 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:20
robyextreme robyextreme is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Week lol?

Probably once a month, not even. The hoes call me.



quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Well we live together so I never call him just to talk. But I'd say I call him atleast once a day, but it's usually just to confirm when to pick him up from work or to see if he needs me to make him some food or whatever.

Fixed.



[This message has been edited by robyextreme (edited 04-04-2007).]
 #13 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:46
throopguy21 throopguy21 is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

I call my girl all the time. About twice a night when I'm at work...To say have a chat and say goodnight.

If she's at work, she'll call me.

We spend a lot of time on the phone to each other.

same with me.
 #14 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:50
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

Every night, most of the time any way.

Conversations go for maybe, anywhere from two to seven hours.

*shrugs*

We're good communicators.

Same here. We talked 5 the other night. about two hours of it was all phone sex. That was a fun night, and the next day was even better because I went over and we fucked all day after that.
 #15 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:54
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quote:Originally posted by star-lit:

We've each got our own group of friends, and pretty much totally separate lives that happen to cross paths for a couple days each week.

That's fucking hot. I'd want a relationship like that.
 #16 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:19
thendoftheline thendoftheline is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

however much you want to is enough.. but you got to respect the other person or it aint gonna last.. two of my goddam buddies have phone convos all the damned time with their girls.. i on the other hand would want to hang out with a girl and have phone calls strictly for business: go here? cool ill be there..

dont worry about what other people do thats a shitty way to live.. i know me.. and you should know you..
 #17 
Old 2007-04-04, 05:44
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

When I was with her, once a night usually, a few hours, but then, that was when I was with her...
 #18 
Old 2007-04-04, 20:08
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I don't really call (she'll call every other day, or so)...but we stay together for weeks at a time. I'm on one of my little 'me-time' vacations (masturbation, video-games, good food, and writing/reading).

Both of us are pretty much bums, too...so plenty of free time when we're together to just relax, idly chat, fuck, watch movies, and so on.

Man...I love my girl. :)
 #19 
Old 2007-04-05, 04:27
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I almost never called her.
i probably should have and maybe she wouldnt have broken up with me just now.
 #20 
Old 2007-04-05, 13:50
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

We're both at Uni, and I try to phone her most nights for an hour to talk about our days - although, usually we're quite busy so it averages out to about 5 hours a week.
 #21 
Old 2007-04-05, 14:45
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I don't really call her, but we stay with each other every night.
 #22 
Old 2007-04-05, 16:00
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

text everday, msn rarely, calls like once a week but not much at all. it'd be nice if he called more often, but my house is small and there's nowhere to talk on the phone in private unless it's pretty late and everyone's in bed
 #23 
Old 2007-04-05, 16:41
RoAcH_420 RoAcH_420 is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I live with my Partner.
 #24 
Old 2007-04-05, 16:53
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Who the fuck can talk on the phone for 5 hours!? The phone is fucking boring and akward, i can barely manage ten minutes.

P.S Vbulletin is gay
 #25 
Old 2007-04-05, 18:04
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

It's very far away,
Takes about a half a day to get there
If we travel by my dragonfly.
Though it's not in spain
It's all the same
& the wind is just right.
 #26 
Old 2007-04-05, 20:57
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Every day, for 2-6 hours. :)
 #27 
Old 2007-04-05, 21:19
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

The only time my girlfriend and I are apart is while either one of us are at work, or doing something with our own mates.

Excluding work, though, we're together 99% of the time.

I still spend upwards of £15 per month on sms messages, after my 1000 free, which 75% of are to her.
 #28 
Old 2007-04-05, 23:51
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

At least once a day... you'll get bitched out otherwise.
 #29 
Old 2007-04-06, 03:25
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

I am currently single, my last girlfriend I dated for a month and she didn't even get my phone number. The one before that we were almost always on the phone or on msn together, that or with each other, we were both obsessive, that or just too wrapped up in fighting with each other.
 #30 
Old 2007-04-07, 01:19
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

hours a day. i miss her constantly.
 #31 
Old 2007-04-07, 01:37
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Every night for about a 5 hour convo, but ever since she got grounded recently we have only been talking for like 2 hours a night :(
 #32 
Old 2007-04-07, 02:45
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

Anywhere from 30 minutes to 2-3 hours a day. He lives an hour 1/2 away, and I see him about twice a week.. He's busy a lot with work and what not. *sigh* It's the biggest problem of our relationship (though I'm alone in that opinion, he thinks it's fine.)
 #33 
Old 2007-04-07, 09:20
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Default Re: Totse... how often do you call your boyfriend/girlfriend in a week?

If she has a question, concern, problem, or needs something. And it can and needs to be communicated over the phone. Fine.

She wants to shoot the shit, she can see me in person.

Almost never call, and rarely speak on the phone, except to arrange things.
 
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