Okay, so the other week I was playing pool with a girl at this bar, she lost without sinking any balls, so, as the rule goes, she has to drop her pants and do a lap of the table, so we were teasing each other, getting along etc. Then I get the massive cock block from her friend, and before I realise I should have asked for her number they leave.

Fast forward to today, I walk into this music store and she's there, at this stage she was only a familiar face, and I talk to her for a bit, enquiring about some music, then leave, as I'm leaving I realised who she was. Should I go back and ask for her number? How should I lead into it without sounding creepy?

quote:Originally posted by MadIndustries:

Okay, so the other week I was playing pool with a girl at this bar, she lost without sinking any balls, so, as the rule goes, she has to drop her pants and do a lap of the table, so we were teasing each other, getting along etc. Then I get the massive cock block from her friend, and before I realise I should have asked for her number they leave.

Fast forward to today, I walk into this music store and she's there, at this stage she was only a familiar face, and I talk to her for a bit, enquiring about some music, then leave, as I'm leaving I realised who she was. Should I go back and ask for her number? How should I lead into it without sounding creepy?



go back to the music store and ask her?

Go in there every day and pretend to not notice her.

In the music store, did she say anything that implied she remembered you?

quote:Originally posted by fallinghouse:

In the music store, did she say anything that implied she remembered you?

Well, it's a store that has music, dvd's cameras, ipods, and all that shit. Her section was the camera section and she came over and talked to me asking if I needed help when I was in the dvd's? She kinda looked at me like she remembered me, The same way I was looking at her I guess.

I'm thinking I go there feigning interest in buying something, get her talking to me about stuff, then kind of be like "you know you look familiar...Oh! I know, were you the girl bla bla bla" then go on to tell her how she'd dissapeared before I could ask for her number and whether or not she would be interested in getting to know each other over a coffee or beer or something similiar?

Someone reply to this please, I'm trying to pick up a librarian, and I think similar methods can be applied.

I wish I could give you some good advice, but all I can really say is that seems a bit cliche

How is it cliche? Give me an alternative if it's so cliche to say that? Don't just mock the approach, make a comment!

Just say you remember her from the bar and how you forgot to ask her number back then and ask of she'd want to do whatever later? I really don't see what's the problem

Go into her place of work and slap her in the face with your engorged phallus and say "how about that for a whopper". Fucking GUARANTEED shag mate.

I think you're supposed to act like you know what the fuck you're doing.

Here's the inside scoop though: you don't.

What do you have to lose? A bit of pride, but you have a date to gain.

I always err on the side of caution, though, which is a mistake.

quote:Originally posted by Prometheus:

Someone reply to this please, I'm trying to pick up a librarian, and I think similar methods can be applied.

Just check her out.

quote:Originally posted by Drox:

Just check her out.



oh *snap*

First off... if you met over a game of strip pool, you've probably got a biiiiit of leeway on the tastefulness thing. I mean, duh, don't just buttfuck her in the store without letting her know you're there first or anything stupid like that, but it's a pretty safe bet that "You are the most amazing person I have ever encountered, and I would be honored if you would accept my number" wouldn't be met with "SATAN! AWAY IN THE NAME OF JEEEH-ZUS!" by the time you're, well... meeting people over strip pool.

As to how? Well, you grow a pair and do it. 'n try to be at least slightly charming. She'll probably understand if you're just as mortal as she is; she might not understand if your pickup line is "bitch, gimmie yo number so I can hit that shit on demand!"

Now... grow a pair and hop to it.

I'm a salesperson at an electronics/random junk store. I'll randomly hit on and/or get hit on by some girls, but only ones who have the confidence to.

Make small talk, something maybe a bit related to her job/etc. or maybe not, whatever seems good at the time.

If they have any interest/etc. in you at all, they'll respond with something more than the usual replies/small talk needed in their job, maybe flirt some/etc. I know I put some flirting in with the small talk if I see a response.

Just go back and talk, chances are her day isn't that interesting and she wouldn't mind a chat or a bit of catching up with you, just go for it.

Tell her you'll buy a camera, but only if she supplies the pictures.

Ask her if she wants to get together to shoot pool again dumbass.

How about you march back in there, be a man, and say "I remember you from t'other night, can I have your number?"