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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-04-03, 04:19
Slow down Gandhi Slow down Gandhi is offline
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The girl im currently interested in is the ex girlfriend of one of my best friends. Sometimes when im with the same friend and his new girlfriend they make fun of his last girlfriend and im just like errr. Im wondering what advice you can give me to help ease the tension if i was to ever date this girl. And how to manage my time with both my friends and this girl so either one doesnt get annoyed. Oh and another thing is the girl is hot as shit. Shes like 5'2" tight little body, tight ass, and huge boobs.
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Old 2007-04-03, 04:25
mike jones mike jones is offline
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i know exactly who your talking about
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Old 2007-04-03, 04:26
ShootingStar ShootingStar is offline
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Dont.Do.It
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Old 2007-04-03, 04:33
MadIndustries MadIndustries is offline
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Back the fuck off and don't do it, you'll loose your best friend, possibly even all the friends he's friends with, and more than likely some teeth. It's not worth it. It doesn't matter how long ago they dated, he still dated her 1st, leave her along, I can't stress this enough, just leave her alone!
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Old 2007-04-03, 04:37
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quote:Originally posted by MadIndustries:

Back the fuck off and don't do it, you'll loose your best friend, possibly even all the friends he's friends with, and more than likely some teeth. It's not worth it. It doesn't matter how long ago they dated, he still dated her 1st, leave her along, I can't stress this enough, just leave her alone!



Not true dude. There are a few variables that need to be taken into consideration:

1. How long were they going out?

2. How serious was it?

3. How much did he like her?

4. How much did she like him?

5. Who ended it.



4. Matters because she might only go for you to get revenge on her ex.
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Old 2007-04-03, 04:55
Slow down Gandhi Slow down Gandhi is offline
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Well they didnt date too long like a month. He didnt really like her too much and he said she was over obsessive. And he ended it with her.
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Old 2007-04-03, 05:07
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quote:Originally posted by Slow down Gandhi:

Well they didnt date too long like a month. He didnt really like her too much and he said she was over obsessive. And he ended it with her.

Cool. That changes a lot. Now you go to him, tell him something like this:

"Dude, you've got a cool girlfriend now. You didn't really like *** that much any way. I've really fallen for her. Would it be cool with you if I went for her?"

Get his blessings.

His answer isn't as important as the fact that you asked. Even if he says no, fuck him. That's called being "a selfish cunt". If he says no, ask him "Why? Do you still like her? That's cool, but then you should probably break up with your current girlfriend".

Fucking selfish fuckers.
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Old 2007-04-03, 05:09
Slow down Gandhi Slow down Gandhi is offline
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Thanks that sounds decent.
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Old 2007-04-03, 05:19
diffview4290 diffview4290 is offline
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agreed. get his word on it, if he isn't cool wit it go for it anyway,

plus he should totally be cool with it, you guys can even crack jokes bout it later on.
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Old 2007-04-03, 05:26
MrFishHat MrFishHat is offline
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Hit that shit fewl!



btw.....(pix)?
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Old 2007-04-03, 05:32
XHippie HunterX XHippie HunterX is offline
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quote:Originally posted by ShootingStar:

Dont.Do.It

Do.It.Now.
 #12 
Old 2007-04-03, 05:45
Slow down Gandhi Slow down Gandhi is offline
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I think i will
 #13 
Old 2007-04-03, 10:17
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Default Re: My situation...

If it's a friend's ex, she has to have been an ex for at least a year, and you have to ask your friend if it's cool with him. If he says no, you've got to back off.

Additional personal rule. Your sibling's exes are off limits permanently, though you may be friends with them.

One last piece of advice. Never trust a girl who is under 5'4". Especially if she's real skinny. If she has German heritage, run away like she's trying to set you on fire. Because if you stick around, she will do exactly that sooner or later.
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Old 2007-04-04, 01:33
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No offence intended, Prometheus but I disagree.

If the "relationship" was just under a month and the guy didn't really like her then I'd say pretty much the same as Arquin. Get his blessing and go for it.

The whole point of the rule is to not try to step in and make a girl forget about your buddy or compare you to him, which can lead to shit between friends. Also because it's unfair to have intimate fun with someone who your friend has feelings for.

In this situation, the friend has no feelings for the girl and openly makes fun of her.

Loophole right there.

Go for it OP.
 #15 
Old 2007-04-04, 01:52
GHS ANARCHIST GHS ANARCHIST is offline
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put it in her butt
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Old 2007-04-04, 03:16
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My ex fucked my best friend, and now after a 7 year friendship I never want to see him again. If I seen either of them right now I would probably start puking. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Nothing can fuck up a friendship like a woman can
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Old 2007-04-04, 03:20
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you should ask him before pursuing it, just to get some that out of the way.

it may ruin your friendship with your friend tho, so be cautious, she better be worth the risk
 #18 
Old 2007-04-04, 03:46
Slow down Gandhi Slow down Gandhi is offline
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Thanks, all these ideas sound pretty good
 #19 
Old 2007-04-04, 04:15
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quote:Originally posted by mike jones:

i know exactly who your talking about



call me a nigger but ill be the first to murder mike jones for the poser ass he is.

um what are you guys talking about? sorry i live in the wonderful world of unmedicated a.d.d.
 
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