Let me start out by saying that im 17 and a virgin. The girl i'm with is also a virgin, and we were planning on having sex after prom this year (how cliche). i'm positive she's all for it, and i nevered pressured her for it, so there aren't too many complications.

I was just wondering what would be appropriate for the first time. Should i eat her out, or would that be going too far. I understand getting her wet is important, but how far should i go to do it?

The furthest we've gone is a little dry humping.

Thanks in advance.

get her wet and/or use water-based lube

fuck her... if your penis can't finish the job, use your tongue

Just go with the flow. If you try and plan too much, it won't work out at all.

Find a private place you won't be disturbed for a few hours, have some condoms and lube, then just keep escalating until one of you says stop.

Thats about all the advice I can offer...

quote:Originally posted by Hiatus227:



The furthest we've gone is a little dry humping.



Buy some condoms, find a place where you don't feel rushed to time, take it slow, talk to each other, and be pleasently suprised if you last longer than 2 minutes. Use fingers/ toungue to help her come after your pitufull attampt, cuddle afterwards, thank her for sharing this moment with you or some other sappy thing related to the event. Call her the next day just to make sure she's doing all right and hasn't freaked out. Oh yes, and expect either one on you to be in a complete daze for a bout a week, most likley it'l be you from the sound of your post.

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

Just go with the flow. If you try and plan too much, it won't work out at all.

Find a private place you won't be disturbed for a few hours, have some condoms and lube, then just keep escalating until one of you says stop.

Thats about all the advice I can offer...

For once this knob talks sense and sounds halfway intelligent...Yay!

But yeah...Just go with the flow mate...There's no use overthinking or planning. It just doesn't work.

Lay her down, use your hands for a bit while kissing her/sucking tits/whatever. When she's wet enough, rubber up and get in there!

Be careful with the speed and depth as it may be uncomfortable for her and take your time...It ain't a race.

Have fun mate.

Wtf? Find a quiet place with condoms and lube for a few hours?

Find one of your rooms. Dont stop at a park and fuck. Anyway, if she's at all interested in you she'll be so wet you won't need lube. If she's not, she's not enjoying it. In which case you just need to thrust deeper until she squeels like a pig.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

For once this knob talks sense and sounds halfway intelligent...Yay!

This is the second thread you have called me a knob in. Either explain why I am a knob like I asked in the other thread, or back the fuck off.

And yes - I know you are a mod.

Get in enough tongue action, and she'll practically beg you to fuck her. Especially if she's never had that either.

If you haven't went down on her before, you might as well do that now rather than wait until then. No harm in learning how to do something right and having a little fun in advance.

Get comfortable with everything BUT sex first.

You guys might get the scary, moving-too-fast vibe if you have a bunch of 'firsts' all at once.

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

This is the second thread you have called me a knob in. Either explain why I am a knob like I asked in the other thread, or back the fuck off.

And yes - I know you are a mod.

It just seems that every other post you've made that I've read has been piss taking horse shit. This one broke the cycle and kinda made me feel like river dancing.

I was thinking the same thing Rivo Bravo. What if she gets taht vibe, and says something to contradict me going down on her?