Alright, I've been dating this guy for a couple months now, we've had sex once, and I've given him a couple blowjobs. But last night I went down on him for... wow it must have been 30 minutes. LONG time. And for some reason he just couldn't cum. Eventually I just gave up. I asked him if I was doing anything wrong... but all he would say was, "don't worry about it," in that way that means the conversation is over.

What went wrong here? I've never been with a guy who had any problems like this, and it makes me feel as if I'm not attractive enough for him or something. The past blowjobs I've given him, nothing like this happened. I didn't scrape with my teeth or anything like that either. And he's definitely not the first guy I've given a blowjob to, so I've had some practice and feedback, so I couldn't be that awful, could I? Something just wasn't working, and I can't tell if it was because of something I did or if something's up with him.

Any similar experiences? Help? How would you feel if you were him/me?

Sounds like he had something on his mind.

Has he been stressed out lately?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Have you never had a problem getting off?

Sometimes, it just ain't gonna happen.

Pressuring someone as to why is very annoying too. Just pay no mind to it unless it begins to happen every time. Harping on it can also make that happen more often too.

Yeah, that's why I just asked if I was doing anything wrong, and dropped it right away when he didn't want to talk about it.

Like the other posters said, he could just be stressed about something or whatever.

Also, some guys just aren't all about blowjobs. I guess it's not that common for a guy to not like blowjobs, but it's not unheard of...

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Like the other posters said, he could just be stressed about something or whatever.

Also, some guys just aren't all about blowjobs. I guess it's not that common for a guy to not like blowjobs, but it's not unheard of...

Jesus Christ you're a dumb cunt. Every fucking post made by you is idiotic.

She has given him bj's before, he has gotten off. Christ, read what the fucking OP says before opening you're gaping cock maw.

Hey chill out. Its not untrue. If i don't get a certain kind of blowjob (slow, wet, lots of suction... loving for lack of a better word), then i can actually just lose wood while it happens.

quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:

Jesus Christ you're a dumb cunt. Every fucking post made by you is idiotic.

She has given him bj's before, he has gotten off. Christ, read what the fucking OP says before opening you're gaping cock maw.

Atleast I'm trying to help her instead of attacking someone else in the thread for no reason...

She said she's given him a couple blowjobs, that's hardly enough to be sure about what he likes and what he doesn't...

Anyway, OP, I don't think you should give it much thought, unless it keeps happening.

He had probably masturbated earlier that day and tapped himself out. Seriously, don't worry about it. My husband tells me there's no way to give a bad blowjob, unless you use teeth.

Was he giving good feedback? Moaning and all the rest?

I'd stop viewing it as a "fault" or a "problem" first off. I've never come from a blowjob before, doesn't mean I haven't had some damn good ones.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Atleast I'm trying to help her instead of attacking someone else in the thread for no reason...

She said she's given him a couple blowjobs, that's hardly enough to be sure about what he likes and what he doesn't...

Anyway, OP, I don't think you should give it much thought, unless it keeps happening.

No, it's true. You're a dumbshit.

quote:Originally posted by Atticus_Ellis:

No, it's true. You're a dumbshit.

Thank you. At least someone shares my opinion of this pot smoking cum dumpster of a Totsean.

I wouldn't worry about it either. It's almost certainly not anything to do with you, and I guess it's just one of those problems some guys have. Unfortunate, but there we go. The best you can do for him is not to ask about it, because he'll just be embarrassed and stuff.

quote:Originally posted by star-lit:

Alright, I've been dating this guy for a couple months now, we've had sex once, and I've given him a couple blowjobs. But last night I went down on him for... wow it must have been 30 minutes. LONG time. And for some reason he just couldn't cum. Eventually I just gave up. I asked him if I was doing anything wrong... but all he would say was, "don't worry about it," in that way that means the conversation is over.

What went wrong here? I've never been with a guy who had any problems like this, and it makes me feel as if I'm not attractive enough for him or something. The past blowjobs I've given him, nothing like this happened. I didn't scrape with my teeth or anything like that either. And he's definitely not the first guy I've given a blowjob to, so I've had some practice and feedback, so I couldn't be that awful, could I? Something just wasn't working, and I can't tell if it was because of something I did or if something's up with him.

Any similar experiences? Help? How would you feel if you were him/me?

Ok here goes a tip which might probably sound a little gay but read it anyway:

Let him lie on the bed and be comfortable then suck his dick as usual but this time you are going to stick about an inch of your index finger inside of his asshole with no previous suggestion about it.

Trust me he will love it I did it when my exgirl tried that on me.. I had a delicious orgasm...

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote:

Ok here goes a tip which might probably sound a little gay but read it anyway:

Let him lie on the bed and be comfortable then suck his dick as usual but this time you are going to stick about an inch of your index finger inside of his asshole with no previous suggestion about it.

Trust me he will love it I did it when my exgirl tried that on me.. I had a delicious orgasm...

While you're at it, get out the anal lube and the strap on. Just go to town, because all teenage boys love getting fucked in the ass.

Shit happens sometimes - a one off failure could mean nothing at all.

Next time, try a 69er. I'm sure he won't mind that... or have trouble cumming!