I know I seem to post about a different girl in S&A about once a month, but this is a different situation.

Okay, I was at a party at Trisha's(22) house, and this fat bitch Jamie Paris comes over. Well I get kinda drunk, and Jamie and I go to Trisha's room and start making out, and are about to fuck (which looking back on it would have been the biggest mistake of my life). All of the sudden Tiffany(21) this really awesome chick, walks in, grabs my hand, and brings me up stairs to fuck. Her exact words were "Lets go upstairs and we can do anything you want just to piss off Jamie".

SO we go up there, and instead of fucking I say "I don't want to fuck you this way. I respect you too much, and I love you, and care too much about you to take advantage. Maybe we will fuck some day, but tonight isn't that time."

Tell me I fucked up

You.....FUCKED UP!

That's sweet.

Whether or not you fucked up depends on what she's like. Totse can't tell you that, babe.

Wait and see.

Jx

You've got some slutty friends...Anyway, I don't think you fucked up, but how does Tiffany feel about the situation?

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

You've got some slutty friends...Anyway, I don't think you fucked up, but how does Tiffany feel about the situation?

Tiff is a sweetheart. She liked the fact that I have enough heart not to take advantage of people (people being her). And yes, I have some VERY VERY slutty friends. Yet I never seem to get a lot . Tiff strait up said a few times the things she likes the most about me is my hearts in the right place.

quote:Originally posted by Jessic:

That's sweet.

Whether or not you fucked up depends on what she's like. Totse can't tell you that, babe.

Wait and see.

Jx

I know

If Tiffany appreciates the fact that you didn't sleep with her then why are you thinking you messed up? I don't get it.

Ask her out on a date.

Yeah only time will tell on that one.

Personally, I would have just had sex with her, because not to pass judgement on people I'm only getting a few details about, she sounds like the girl you'll end up in the lets just be friends zone, or at best we can go out for a few weeks, but then I'll only be leading you on and I'll tell you I just want to be friends at the end of it again.

Watch out if the fat girl is going to take revenge.

olololololol

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

If Tiffany appreciates the fact that you didn't sleep with her then why are you thinking you messed up? I don't get it.

Ask her out on a date.



I mean I had the chance to sleep with a VERY attractive girl (in my eyes anyway. I'll try to get a pic), who is constantly flirting with me by sitting with me, and putting her head on my shoulder, and she even wrote a love note on my arm the other day.

quote:Originally posted by ZeroMalarki:

Yeah only time will tell on that one.

Personally, I would have just had sex with her, because not to pass judgement on people I'm only getting a few details about, she sounds like the girl you'll end up in the lets just be friends zone, or at best we can go out for a few weeks, but then I'll only be leading you on and I'll tell you I just want to be friends at the end of it again.

Watch out if the fat girl is going to take revenge.

Hard to tell. Are you saying she just flirts with me now because I really don't flirt back, and her and I going out would make her think differently of me and ruin it all because she is the kind of girl that doesn't like possitive attention?

quote:Originally posted by helladamnleet:

"Lets go upstairs and we can do anything you want just to piss off Jamie".

That's the only she wanted you?

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Originally posted by helladamnleet:

"Lets go upstairs and we can do anything you want just to piss off Jamie".

That's the only she wanted you?

thats what induced the possible sex

dude, if a was you i might of fuck her but the good thing is you didn't fuck that fact bitch jaime so it all good

quote:Originally posted by murderman143:

dude, if a was you i might of fuck her but the good thing is you didn't fuck that fact bitch jaime so it all good



ROFL. Come to that party tonight, I just might do it. That night wasn't the night was all.

dude, i just might come to that Party just hit me up when ya needs me to be there.

quote:Originally posted by murderman143:

dude, i just might come to that Party just hit me up when ya needs me to be there.

aight

sure you dont have a vagina?

quote:Originally posted by Macdaddy4738:

sure you dont have a vagina?

No. This has to be the 18th thread in S&A that involved me sticking my dick in a female's vagina.

I, too, think that's really decent of you, and I'd say it was the right thing to have done, considering the depth of your relationship (as you have described it). If you really do love her, as you said, then this will probably make her want you even more, leading to repeated sex later on instead of one off sex now.

quote:Originally posted by aluminium_jackets:

I, too, think that's really decent of you, and I'd say it was the right thing to have done, considering the depth of your relationship (as you have described it). If you really do love her, as you said, then this will probably make her want you even more, leading to repeated sex later on instead of one off sex now.

So your saying by not one-night-standing her to please myself, I may have increased her feelings towards me, causing her to have sex multipull times?

Possibly, yes. Since you say she makes it plain not only that she has something going for you, but also that she thinks that one of your greatest assets is your decency, I think you should play that card as much as you can, as it may end up with her asking you out (or the other way round, successfully), leading, as most relationships inevitably do, to repeated sex. Either way, everybody likes to feel respected, and that would certainly have boosted her feelings for you.

[This message has been edited by aluminium_jackets (edited 04-02-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by aluminium_jackets:

Possibly, yes. Since you say she makes it plain not only that she has something going for you, but also that she thinks that one of your greatest assets is your decency, I think you should play that card as much as you can, as it may end up with her asking you out (or the other way round, successfully), leading, as most relationships inevitably do, to repeated sex. Either way, everybody likes to feel respected, and that would certainly have boosted her feelings for you.



Cool. Really in this situation I'm trying to be careful, and letting her make the first move for the most part, but it's good that most people think it was a smart move not to take advantage of her and that people think that since I DIDN'T take advantage of her, and I explained I have more respect for her than that, she has bigger feelings for me, and verified her main reason for liking me.

Loser.

Loser.

shut up.

^^Seconded.

Well, you chose being a nice person over immediate gratification, so I would say you didn't fuck up at all.

Thanx =D

Here's how I took it: She already liked you and wanted to have sex with you because you were a good guy. She knew you were about to sex Jabba the Hut and it hurt her knowing you were about to sex some one. So she worked up the nerve, took you aside and offered her self to you, to kill two birds with one stone: 1. she liked you. 2. She didn't want you sexing the fatty Mc fat fat. You rejected her, but in a nice way that reconfirms why she initially liked you, and she got to get you away from the walrus like thing.

So all in all, you've done your self a favor, if this doesn't get you into bed with her in a more sincere and respectful way, then really is just a plain old slut. Cross your fingers.

She'll respect you more, fuck you sober, often. Good job.

Lol Funny !

Thanks for that. You had intense insight, and many lulz. I like the re-assurance that I did the right thing by rejecting her, but with the reason that I respect her too much for a one night stander.

Well, as of Saturday afternoon, she is no longer walking the streets. Goodbye Tiff:(

|Wait, wtf?
You fucked up because you didnt treat a girl like a tissue?

how is that possibly a fuckup?

Did someone claim a person in this story was 21? You all sound kinda 12ish or less maybe, perhaps Americans! or maybe Irish Americans.

But whatever, yes you are a total loser

your a mod? Congrats.

well it was a fuckup NOW because shes in jail now

This is awesome, she got 30 days, minus two weeks for time served.:D
God bless America.

You did the nice guy thing. Nice guys have no sex appeal. You should have asked yourself "WWAPD" (what would a pirate do?)

You fucked up. She already likes ya man, knows you are decent and didn't want you to be with someone else. Hard part was over. All you had to do was fuck her and make it good. Keep playing that nice guy shit over and over and you are going to lose your chance because she she will end up thinking you aren't interested or possibly gay or into fat chicks. Doesn't matter which because they all lead down the same road, you not getting anything.

Next chance you get(if you get another chance), hit that shit until she is retarded. She will come back for more. Good fuck...err luck...whatever

SO we go up there, and instead of fucking I say "I don't want to fuck you this way. I respect you too much, and I love you, and care too much about you to take advantage. Maybe we will fuck some day, but tonight isn't that time."



HAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAH...damn thats a good one....you get some slutbag to drag you upstairs and fuck, and in the same breath you tell her you love her but wont sleep with her......BWAHAHAHAHAAHHA!!!


1) you don't love girls like that. They aren't looking for love, they are looking for dick.
2) you're a pussy
3) thats just some of the lamest shit i've heard in a while....

no fucking way....according to one of his other posts above, this girl had been flirting with him a lot in other situations....she see's hes about about to hook up with another chick, takes the initiative and drags him away and make her move on him....and then he completely rejects her with a sappy nice guy line she probably doesn't believe.... assuming he was just trying to reject her nicely. On top of that, she got him when he was just about to fuck a much less attractive girl than her (meaning he's obviously horny), and put him in a position where he could fuck her instead, but he says "NO."

She's going to take that as a complete rejection.

did she remember you said that the next morning? if yes, you did the right thing. if not, you fucked up.

Actually we just talked about it the other day when I was on my way out the door, and we kissed.

In fact, she just called about an hour ago and wanted to hang out, and I gotta call her back pretty quick

Be careful, or it is friend zone FO SHO!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

this is too funny... you were gonne fuck some fat bitch, but not the really cute girl that WANTED you to fuck her? are you fucked in the head or something?

:( I must be.

Just remember women love guys in touch with their emotional side, but hate a pussy. You still have to be a man and have strong opinions and not be afraid to tell her 'no' and 'you're wrong, bitch'

but that's just my opinion.

trust me, when it comes to telling a bitch she's wrong, I don't hold back