So, my girlfriend and I love each other very much. We have fucked twice now, and I finger her while she rubs me regularily.

However, neither of us have done oral to each other. She personally finds cocksucking gross.

Now before you all tell me that my girlfriend is broken and I need a new one, keep in mind that if I asked her she would definitely do it for me as a personal favour. But I don't even find blowjobs that hot. Don't get me wrong, I would enjoy one, but it's not something that I demand or expect from a girl. I am definitely OK with the fact that she doesn't blow me.

However, I would definitely eat her out if she wanted. I actually really enjoy pleasing her.

Should I just ask her while we are fooling around, like:

Me: "Do you want me to eat you out?"

Her: "It doesn't matter."

Me: "I will if you want."

Her: "Only if you want."

Would it be best just to bring it up when we talk about sex like, "Hey, would you want me to eat you out sometime?" or should I just go for it in the middle of fooling around?

I want to do this for her. I think it would be a nice thing for me to do for her.

Girls, what are your thoughts on this matter?

[This message has been edited by pepper23 (edited 03-31-2007).]

It's not a big deal. Just go for it while you're fooling around. If she doesn't want you to, it'll be obvious.

most women enjoy it

you should just bring up the topic and see what she has to say about

You don't have to ask. Just go down, if you ask it will ruin the suprise for her. Next time during forplay go down.

While your fingering her and kissing her, start kissing her neck very sensually and get her really into it. the start kissing and licking your way down very slowly and if you pass then belly button on your journey down then you should be good to go.

She'll let you know if she doesn't want it.

my ex was the same way. just go for it if it seems to flow naturally with whatever you two are doing. you'll know if she doesn't want you to.

Don't be a little bitch.

Don't go down on her unless you know she'll return the favor. And why would you have to ask permission? This isn't the 1870s.

quote:Originally posted by Pinball Mgruff:

Don't be a little bitch.

Don't go down on her unless you know she'll return the favor. And why would you have to ask permission? This isn't the 1870s.

I explained this in my original post:

She finds giving head gross, and I understand that. I for one am NOT a selfish lover, and I enjoy pleasing my girl. I want the best for her.

I dont even mind not getting head. I am perfectly OK with it, but I would like to do something nice for my girlfriend of 7 months.

And I didnt mention asking permission, but asking if she even wanted me to. It is not a question of whether I am allowed or not, but a question of whether she would enjoy or want it.

No need to be a smartass about it...

I don't care if you enjoy pleasing her. If she's not willing to do the same for you, forget about her.

She sounds like a dead fuck anyway.

You guys are putting the pussy on a pedestal. If she doesn't want to give you a good blowjob, and you're eating out her nasty cooter - you are whipped.

quote:Originally posted by Pinball Mgruff:

You guys are putting the pussy on a pedestal. If she doesn't want to give you a good blowjob, and you're eating out her nasty cooter - you are whipped.

The maturity is shining through in this one.

I love licking out my girlfriend. I just kiss down to her stomach, then sit back and grab one of her legs and kiss up it while getting comfortable. Do this, and as said before a few times, you will know if she doesnt want you to.

quote:Originally posted by Pinball Mgruff:

I don't care if you enjoy pleasing her. If she's not willing to do the same for you, forget about her.

She sounds like a dead fuck anyway.

You guys are putting the pussy on a pedestal. If she doesn't want to give you a good blowjob, and you're eating out her nasty cooter - you are whipped.

Ok, so who says licking pussy has to be a chore in the first place.

And why should I "forget about her" just because she doesn't like giving head.

She would give me a blow if I asked her as a favor, but I don't even care about it enough to make her do something that she's uncomfortable with. I'm not that selfish.

And it's not like she's a cold, hard bitch or anything. We have fucked, and she will give me a nice rub/feel/handjob on a regular basis.

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

The maturity is shining through in this one.

I love licking out my girlfriend. I just kiss down to her stomach, then sit back and grab one of her legs and kiss up it while getting comfortable. Do this, and as said before a few times, you will know if she doesnt want you to.



OK virgin. Just eat out your girlfriend every day and not ask for the favor back. Lick her asshole too.

Like i always says, it takes work to receive work, but if theres no receving, cut back..and if it becomes a problem cut out!

You gotta make friends with the pussy, talk to the pussy,

quote:Originally posted by gam3r_with_revenge:

You gotta make friends with the pussy, talk to the pussy,



LOL

When in fore play, just move down and do it, she'll stop you if anything is up.

im going to agree with the work your way down approach

and what's up with people saying you aren't a man if you don't mentally abuse women and force them to do shit they don't want to?

quote:Originally posted by Pinball Mgruff:

OK virgin. Just eat out your girlfriend every day and not ask for the favor back. Lick her asshole too.



man, you got some fucked up ideas in that head of yours. hell, id rather pleasure my girl and go without sex than to have sex and have my girl never be happy.

plus id rather me be whipped than have her be in a slave position.

quote:Originally posted by gam3r_with_revenge:

You gotta make friends with the pussy, talk to the pussy,



Only in Amerika

I dont see people's problems with it.

I agree with beer boy.

lol, i just did it out of the blue..her reaction was hilarious

*goes down*

her: HEY what are you doing?!?!?//1/1

me: easting you out lol, y u ask?

her: *sigh*

..the relationship didn't last much longer after that

Wtf?

quote:Originally posted by Pinball Mgruff:

nasty cooter.



Someone's GAY.

when you are kissing her and all, just slowly kiss her on the neck, collarbone, breasts, belly button, and just keep on going lower.

chances are, she won't object, and if she does, it'll be along the lines of "Are you sure?"

All you have to do is hide he lube. Say a natural lube is actually saliva and just go from there.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:



Girls, what are your thoughts on this matter?



Well, i'm not a girl but i'm gonna tell you something they like as well as pussy eating and that is asshole sucking.

Trust me even if they refuse the idea of letting someone lick their assholes they are gonna love it the first time they experience a wet tongue on their bums.

quote:Originally posted by MyExcuse:

hell, id rather pleasure my girl and go without sex than to have sex and have my girl never be happy.

QFT...

'Nuff said.

quote:Originally posted by MyExcuse:

man, you got some fucked up ideas in that head of yours. hell, id rather pleasure my girl and go without sex than to have sex and have my girl never be happy.

plus id rather me be whipped than have her be in a slave position.

Welcome to doormatville, population you and pepper23

So you've had sex twice in 7 months? Wow dude, you've got more problems than working out how to ask her if you can go down on her....

Seriously, theres some good advice up above. I can only add things like looking at porn that involves oral and 69ing with her. If she gets hot looking at that sort of stuff, you'll be home and hosed.

Once she's had it a couple of times, she won't be saying no too often, unless you use your teeth too much or something...lol. And you'll find once she loves it, she'll start loving the cocky cocky sucky sucky.

Give her some nerve gas and she'll let you have your way with her.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

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But I don't even find blowjobs that hot. Don't get me wrong, I would enjoy one, but it's not something that I demand or expect from a girl. I am definitely OK with the fact that she doesn't blow me.

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fucking gay

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You can't just bash this guy because he cares about his girlfriend's feelings on the matter. For a relationship to really work, it has to be bilateral, and that means taking into account the feelings of the other half. After all, this is Sex and Affection.

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

So you've had sex twice in 7 months? Wow dude, you've got more problems than working out how to ask her if you can go down on her....

Hey, she's only 15 (I am 16) and we don't usually have a whole lot of opportunity to fuck (her dad is usually home, and I don't even have my driver's license yet, so...)

And we do plenty other than fucking.

ie. making out, groping, fondling, handjobs, fingering, ass-grabbing, etc.

quote:Originally posted by aluminium_jackets:

You can't just bash this guy because he cares about his girlfriend's feelings on the matter. For a relationship to really work, it has to be bilateral, and that means taking into account the feelings of the other half. After all, this is Sex and Affection.

Thank you! So many people these days are sexually selfish.

It's people like that that make people think that all teen relationships are loveless and meaningless.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

It's people like that that make people think that all teen relationships are loveless and meaningless.

I can say that is complete BS. Looking at the couples at my HS prove that.

quote:Originally posted by Star Wars Fan:

I can say that is complete BS. Looking at the couples at my HS prove that.

Uh, what?

Are you saying that you DO think teen relationships are loveless and meaningless, or the other way around?

Becuase I was saying that a lot of teen relationships are meaningful and involve love.

To all the people giving the OP a hard time about want to please his girl, you all must absolutely suck in bed. Don't be surprised when your girl goes somewhere else to get good sex.

I agree with the work your way down approach as well, it's just the most natural and you'll get her all excited along the way.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

Uh, what?

Are you saying that you DO think teen relationships are loveless and meaningless, or the other way around?

Becuase I was saying that a lot of teen relationships are meaningful and involve love.

the other way around, that teen relationships are meaningful

quote:Originally posted by Star Wars Fan:

the other way around, that teen relationships are meaningful

nup, they're not.

quote:Originally posted by NoSkills:

nup, they're not.

If you think that relationships somehow magically can have meaning when you're older, and can't have them when you're under twenty- you don't understand what a relationship is. You don't know what meaningful means. So don't even bother talking about it.