I've been recently talking this girl I met a week ago, and it's apparent that she's interested in me but has a boyfriend. Whenever she brings up the fact that she has a boyfriend, she's either unsatisfied or uncertain what do do with him.

I didn't know she had a boyfriend until a certain point after I showed interested in her, and obviously I think she should leave a relationship that isn't working out. I don't want to seem cocky about it, but I'm somewhat sure she's ready to break up with him.

The problem is, if this subject ever arises again (and it will), how am I going to talk to her about it? I can't just say, "Yeah... you should just dump him and be with me." or anything that hints a new relationship between me and her.

How can I tell her straight up without being cocky about it? I don't want to seem selfish or anything about this subject, but I do just want her to make whatever the right choice is.

Knock his face off and steal the girl.

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This thread is getting me so hot. There's nothing more attractive than flakey women who try and find back up guys while they still have a boyfriend, oh man. HAWT

I've said it before, and this won't be the last time:

If she would leave her current boyfriend for you, then why the fuck would she stick around with you once she meets some other guy?!

Do you really want to date a fickle, cheating whore?

You damn people need to stop thinking with your dicks.

quote:Originally posted by pepper23:

I've said it before, and this won't be the last time:

If she would leave her current boyfriend for you, then why the fuck would she stick around with you once she meets some other guy?!

Do you really want to date a fickle, cheating whore?

You damn people need to stop thinking with your dicks.

You seriously need help if you need to put people down like this to get off.

Anyway, she's BEEN having problems with her boyfriend and it's almost certain that she's ready to leave him but haven't done it yet. How is this cheating? We haven't even gone out on a date or anything yet.

its not a matter of a cheating its respect, she has a guy back off until she leaves him, would you want some guy moving in on your girl?

I know, but she already wants to break up with him. She's breaking up not because of me, but because their relationship isn't working.

So how am I going to tell her that:

a) she should tell her bf how she feels

b) she shouldn't be going out with me while she has a bf

a) tell her she should tell her bf how she feels

b) tell her she shouldn't be going out with me while she has a bf

Make it clear to her that if she didn't have a boyfriend you'd be on her like shit on velcro. Don't touch her until he's gone.

I agree with the majority of the posters.

You shouldn't fuck around with her until she's single.

It's pretty shitty treating another guy like that. Imagine yourself in the same situation, which you very likely could be if you pursue this girl.

To summarise, let her break the "shitty relationship" off with the other guy, THEN get with her and see how things go.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

This thread is getting me so hot. There's nothing more attractive than flakey women who try and find back up guys while they still have a boyfriend, oh man. HAWT

Nothing wrong with having them lined up.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Nothing wrong with having them lined up.



Expected better from you.

You guys are such pussies. If your girl is messing around with other guys, then there is obviously something that you aren't giving her that everyone else is.

I assume you're going to be looking to lose this boyfriend fella'. All you have to do is ignore it. Pretend like he isn't there. Act hurt in situations where she chooses to do something with him instead of you, but don't appear jealous. It's a turn-off.

In no-time she'll get into a fight with him and you'll be right there, waiting.

Word of advice though, ho's who mess around with other dudes tend to not continue doing so.

=CK=

If she is willing to cheat on him with you, well when she is bored with you she is just going to fuck another guy.

Don't date cheating sluts its just going to kick you in the face.

As already said she will keep cheating so just fuck. Send her back to her man after you make her squeal like a little school girl.

I think its great to fuck someone elses girlfriend although wives are better. There is something kinda hot about fuckin someone elses girl.

Wait until she dumps him before you make a move. Any other action makes you a degenerate.

Although it's been pretty much already said, why would she stay with you after meeting another guy? Plus considering my situation- would you even want to be her boyfriend?

I'm currently banging a girl whos boyfriend goes to school 3 states away... I get all the ass, he has to pay for teddy bears and valentines and shit.

me>him

Fucking hell.

Say this, next time she asks:

"Just do what you feel "

TRUST me on this one.

quote:Originally posted by Fascismo:

Wait until she dumps him before you make a move. Any other action makes you a degenerate.

THEN A DEGENERATE I AM !

I got the exact same problem going on right now. On the good side she's breaking up with her boyfriend as soon as he gets back from NY. Bad side is I made out with her today and I can't look at her w/o feeling guilty.

This type of situation seems pretty common.

quote:Originally posted by Overcast:

Although it's been pretty much already said, why would she stay with you after meeting another guy? Plus considering my situation- would you even want to be her boyfriend?

I'm currently banging a girl whos boyfriend goes to school 3 states away... I get all the ass, he has to pay for teddy bears and valentines and shit.

me>him

Not really. When he finds out he will go through alot of shit, grow up a hell of alot, and learn from it. You however will still be a loser having sex with slutty girls.

invite her over finger her and the rest will play out

First of all, make sure you can kick the guy's ass if the situation arises where it is necessary. If you can kick his ass, then take her. This will probably piss him off, and if he's hostile about it, then fuck him up.

Odd, I'm in about the same situation.

There's this chick in my PE class that I don't really like, but keeps following me around and shit. She and her boyfriend don't get along, and I know it's ending soon. So, I'm just being nice to her so I can get laid when they break up. Yes, I know that just makes me a tool, but I don't care anymore. This isn't a great situation though, since she won't do anal or oral. And of course she isn't the greatest looking chick, or the most fun to be around. But, I can't really lose. I get laid, and continue to just keep her around for sex. Or I can piss her off and just get laid once, and she leaves me alone after that.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Expected better from you.

quote:Originally posted by Zippo:

First of all, make sure you can kick the guy's ass if the situation arises where it is necessary. If you can kick his ass, then take her. This will probably piss him off, and if he's hostile about it, then fuck him up.

I did this once and she felt sorry for him and it really sucked. Just be subtle, but make sure she knows you wish she didn't have the bf

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

"quote:

Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Expected better from you."

Are you saying you expected better from me, arquin?

Let me just put it this way. There are a couple other girls I'd be hitting on if this bitch wasn't always bothering me. So, because of her being such a cock block, I'm just getting what I want afterall. Yes, it makes me a tool, yes it's a horrible thing to use a chick just for sex. But, let's be honest here. I'm fucking horny and need to get laid, and her bugging me isn't exactly helping matters.

[This message has been edited by pyrogeek (edited 04-02-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by pyrogeek:

This isn't a great situation though, since she won't do anal or oral.

Did she say that? Sounds like a challenge my good man. NEVER believe a chick when she says she won't do something, especially if you aren't in a relationship with her.

What she is really saying is she's never let a guy go down on her, or fuck her in the arse. Get her horney enough, and she'll be up for it - especially cause it has already been brought up...

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

Did she say that? Sounds like a challenge my good man. NEVER believe a chick when she says she won't do something, especially if you aren't in a relationship with her.

What she is really saying is she's never let a guy go down on her, or fuck her in the ass. Get her horney enough, and she'll be up for it - especially cause it has already been brought up...

Well, she said she wouldn't give oral. I brought up the subject of her getting oral, and she didnt seem to care either way. Hey, if I actually wanted to go out with her and liked her, it would probably be different. But maybe by giving her oral she would do it for me? Or maybe if she liked oral I could use that to help me get anal.

And yeah, she said she didn't want to try anal since she thought it was "dirty". Whatever, I'm still going to try to get her to try it, since you say there is a chance. Any suggestions how to do this? Just ease into it? (no pun intended)

quote:Originally posted by Tokolosh:

Fucking hell.

Say this, next time she asks:

"Just do what you feel "

TRUST me on this one.

I'm gonna try that shit.

=CK=

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Nothing wrong with having them lined up.



Only if you're not fucking around with either of the guy's happiness that you couldn't otherwise prevent to yourself.

To the OP: Don'tget too caught up in this girl.

Ignore her for a while and see what happens.

If she breaks up with her boyfriend of her own accord, hover the descend upon your victim, ala vulture.

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

Did she say that? Sounds like a challenge my good man. NEVER believe a chick when she says she won't do something, especially if you aren't in a relationship with her.

What she is really saying is she's never let a guy go down on her, or fuck her in the arse. Get her horney enough, and she'll be up for it - especially cause it has already been brought up...

This man speaks the truth. Once the idea is there, if you want it to be, it's now on the table for discussion and convincing. Ask me how I know.

quote:Originally posted by Orange_Crusader:

This man speaks the truth. Once the idea is there, if you want it to be, it's now on the table for discussion and convincing. Ask me how I know.

Ok, how do you know?

quote:Originally posted by Kyoki:

Make it clear to her that if she didn't have a boyfriend you'd be on her like shit on velcro. Don't touch her until he's gone.



Fuck man, that's hilarious. Then I realised it was you who wrote it, nice one.

I agree with most of you that I shouldn't make any moves with her until he's gone, but I don't want to seem uninterested in her while they're together, you know?

I really like this girl and I can tell she doesn't want to break up with this guy because she doesn't want to hurt this guy's feelings or doens't know how to tell him.

I really need to tell her though to do whatever she needs and feels to do, so just wish this whole thing luck.