The situations so shit, theres this girl i know and she is perfect. I've always imagined a girl ho was into the same stuff as me and as nerdy as me (manga, videogames etc.) I've never met a girl that was closer to my imagined perfect girl, and I really like her.

But the problem is she is going out with this guy who is good friends with all the people i hang out with.

shes in the year below me and we click I talk to her alot and we're friends, but I leave school in about a month and a half, so I don't know what to do.

Ask her out even though she is already going out with this guy, but that is so bang out of order.......

my plan is that if she hasn't broken up with this guy by the ned of the year i'm just gonna ask her out anyway.

Don't do a single thing. Don't ask her out while she's going out with him, you'll get rejected, maybe laughed at, and maybe have the crap kicked out of you.

Wait, that's about it right now, you'll have to deal with that, you've got no place butting into their relationship (happy or not, that's their/her choice) because you happen to like her.

yeah I know,I wuld never want to do something like that but I'm gonna have to ask her out within the next month and a half if I'll ever have a chance....

It's such a lame situation

If she was perfect for you, and you two are already friendly towards eachother, you would be dating currently instead of talking about it to totse.

Your plan is shit. Unless you KNOW she likes you, dont make things awkward for her, possibly ruining her current relationship.

quote:Originally posted by Stiffmajj The Giant:

we're friends

Youre fucked

Is it hard to figure out?

If you're already friends, get her MSN/phone no. whatever, occasionally keep in touch, and keep updated on her relationship. If she breaks up, then you can ask her out later.

Dude, move on, although it doesn't seem like it, there are other girls like that, don't break your heart over something you haven't got.

quote:Originally posted by glutamate antagonist:

Is it hard to figure out?

If you're already friends, get her MSN/phone no. whatever, occasionally keep in touch, and keep updated on her relationship. If she breaks up, then you can ask her out later.

Yeap.

Don't be her shoulder to cry on or let her whine about her boyfriend though.

Wait, I was friends with my my last two girlfriends when they had boyfriends. and they talked to me about them. yet I still went out with them later. Ha! proof the ladder theory is shit.

you're in the friend zone, just fuck off she's taken

keep walking, nothing to see here

There's nothing wrong with the "friend zone."

At least in my experiences, I've been able to go out with chicks, even after I become her close friend.

But seriously, don't be a cheating asshole. What kind of girlfriend-stealing bitch are you?

Think about it:

If she would leave her current boyfriend for you (and that's a big 'if'), then what makes you think she wouldn't dump you in a heartbeat for some other dude.

Save your breath, and don't wreck people's relationships!

Only one idea.... It involves baseball and a ski-mask

quote:Originally posted by Astralis:

Only one idea.... It involves baseball and a ski-mask

Edit: Basball BAT

quote:Originally posted by Astralis:

Edit: Basball BAT



LOL, you're a tech support agent and you can't figure out how to edit your post?

quote:Originally posted by streetjusticeforall:

Your plan is shit.

Old school served. Bammm.

Not worth the effort.

If and when she breaks up with this guy, go and do something. Not until then though.

quote:Originally posted by Astralis:

Only one idea.... It involves baseball and a ski-mask

What's he supposed to do? Put the ski mask on, hit the girl with the baseball, then rape her? I think he wants to date her, not just sex...

She sounds like the perfect chick to a lot of guys, not just you.

Yeah it would be really innapropriate to ask her now, but the waiting is killing me...

I don't know why I even bothered making a thread about it.

I was really drunk on friday night and the situation was pre-occupying me.

[This message has been edited by Stiffmajj The Giant (edited 04-01-2007).]