so my girlfriend and i were talking about her flying up here for my prom and chilling up here for a few days. seemed like the plan was all good, our parents are fine with it, and all that remained to work out was getting the money together, which shouldn't be hard at all since we only need about $550 between the two of us, and we have almost a month to get that money together.

but then i see in her myspace comments that she's planning on going out today, buying a bunch of coke, and partying it up. coke, being expensive, could easily use up all the money we need.

is it wrong that i expected her to hold off on buying for a while until she got enough money for the flight? it's not like she doesnt get enough free shit from our dealer friends.

ugh.

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1. She's getting free shit because she's giving sexual favours. No coke dealers gonna give away free coke to anyone for nothing. Maybe if it was free weed, gram or two, but coke? Nah. Ask her how she gets it.

2. Tell her if she wants to spend 200+ on one fucking night of partying than be with you for a few days, you can tell her to fuck off and make the decision here and now (here and now being the time of confrontation between you and her).

Personally, I think thats fucking retarded. If I were able to see my girl within a month I'd save every scrap of money there is, fuck buying shit, I get to be with her!

*snickers*

You're expecting a woman not to buy things!?!

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

*snickers*

You're expecting a woman not to buy things!?!



exactly... they are always buying shit...

Expecting a coke head to hold off for your prom?!

Great feckin' eejit!

Never trust myspace.

Ever.

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

1. She's getting free shit because she's giving sexual favours. No coke dealers gonna give away free coke to anyone for nothing. Maybe if it was free weed, gram or two, but coke? Nah. Ask her how she gets it.



I know exactly how she gets it, douchebag, and it isnt sexual favors. notice how i said "OUR" dealer friend? yeah, the guy gives free coke to all his friends. Why? because he's making thousands of bucks a day, and he's like 19.

Where in my original post did i say "call my girlfriend a coke whore"? If i remember correctly, NOWHERE, so fuck off.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

*snickers*

You're expecting a woman not to buy things!?!

true... but still, she's the one who was all excited about getting to come up here, and we werent even sure we'd be able to come up with all the money.

Ask her what's more important, her drug habits or you and don't take any bullshit excuses or beating around the bush. Get straight to the point and tell her that if she's willing to risk missing the prom for one night partying she isn't worth being with.

I don't know about you but personally i wouldn't take dumb shit like that from anyone, if seeing my girlfriend meant saving any money i could then i'd do that and i'd expect the same from her if she had agreed to do so before hand.

she needs to sort her priorities out.

does she want to do some shitty durgs, or see you + go to your prom?

If you're dating a coke head, you should expect shit like this...

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

If you're dating a coke head, you should expect shit like this...

And if I have my facts straight (correct me if I'm wrong) Sicky knows what she's talking about, just ask how.

If it's drugs/similar vs. a boyfriend or girlfriend, you have zero chance of coming first, 99.99% of the time, that's something you'll have to accept/work through or leave.

quote:Originally posted by Orange_Crusader:

If it's drugs/similar vs. a boyfriend or girlfriend, you have zero chance of coming first, 99.99% of the time, that's something you'll have to accept/work through or leave.



It's all about the will of the user.

I ended up being caught with a bit of coke and my girlfriend flipped. I told her she was more important than some powder and "flushed" it. By "flushed," I mean tossed on a high shelf and flushed an empty toilet. Then I ended up overdosing and called it quits. She really is worth more to me though.

Cocaine won't make you happy.

this is kind of like lending money and then studying how the person spends their money until they pay you back.

as long as she's committed to saving money and will have it by the deadline, is it so bad that she goes out?

you should each agree to come up with half the money. if she doesn't make it, it's her own fault. yes, you suffer because of it, but so will she.

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

1. She's getting free shit because she's giving sexual favours. No coke dealers gonna give away free coke to anyone for nothing. Maybe if it was free weed, gram or two, but coke? Nah. Ask her how she gets it.

2. Tell her if she wants to spend 200+ on one fucking night of partying than be with you for a few days, you can tell her to fuck off and make the decision here and now (here and now being the time of confrontation between you and her).

Personally, I think thats fucking retarded. If I were able to see my girl within a month I'd save every scrap of money there is, fuck buying shit, I get to be with her!



QFMUTHAFUCKINTRUTH

your girlfriend is no good. coke is no different from crack really. smoking coke feels the same as snorting it, smoking coke feels like smoking crack (actually coke is better to smoke imo). i started doing it at 15, but i've never had a problem with it because im a strong minded person. i havnt done it in like 6 months. but i've seen plenty of coke addicts that act no better than crackheads, and any girl on coke i'v met will fuck for money.

lol, i say you go to church and find a girl there.

quote:Originally posted by Orange_Crusader:



If it's drugs/similar vs. a boyfriend or girlfriend, you have zero chance of coming first, 99.99% of the time, that's something you'll have to accept/work through or leave.



i do drugs. but i havent bought any in a longass time so that i'll have money to take her out while i'm visiting her, and have money for part of her ticket out here.

way too many of the people in this thread are overgeneralizing douchebags.

quote:Originally posted by NoSkills:

this is kind of like lending money and then studying how the person spends their money until they pay you back.

as long as she's committed to saving money and will have it by the deadline, is it so bad that she goes out?

you should each agree to come up with half the money. if she doesn't make it, it's her own fault. yes, you suffer because of it, but so will she.

this, on the other hand, is a helpful reply with good advice and a point. thanks!

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

1. She's getting free shit because she's giving sexual favours. No coke dealers gonna give away free coke to anyone for nothing. Maybe if it was free weed, gram or two, but coke? Nah. Ask her how she gets it.

2. Tell her if she wants to spend 200+ on one fucking night of partying than be with you for a few days, you can tell her to fuck off and make the decision here and now (here and now being the time of confrontation between you and her).

Personally, I think thats fucking retarded. If I were able to see my girl within a month I'd save every scrap of money there is, fuck buying shit, I get to be with her!

enough said

I don't see what the problem is. She still has a month to come up with $225. That's plenty of time.

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

this, on the other hand, is a helpful reply with good advice and a point. thanks!

Keep dreaming idiot, your bitch is nothing but a snowbunny and theres no way she isn't letting SOMEONE hit it while shes geeking, and chances are it being the dealer as he has the most coke.

Lol @ paying for her prom ticket in the first place, if she loved you she'd come up with the money all on her own because it'd be important to her to come to your prom.

You're an idiot, your girlfriends a whore. Move on.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Rider:

Keep dreaming idiot, your bitch is nothing but a snowbunny and theres no way she isn't letting SOMEONE hit it while shes geeking, and chances are it being the dealer as he has the most coke.

Lol @ paying for her prom ticket in the first place, if she loved you she'd come up with the money all on her own because it'd be important to her to come to your prom.

You're an idiot, your girlfriends a whore. Move on.

whatever you say, "Easy Rider".

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

whatever you say, "Easy Rider".

I'm dead serious, I know grown men that will let you hit it for coke.

This bitch isn't that cool, find another one. She should be buying YOU shit for your prom, since I'm assuming shes too old/young to go to her own. Or some shit. Girls aren't that hard to find.

Alternatively, if I'm wrong and you cut her off, she'll try and get you back. If shes a cokewhore leech, she'll just move on to the next idiot.

Edit:

You do get props for recognizing my name.

[This message has been edited by Easy Rider (edited 04-01-2007).]