One of my cocktease girl friend calls me up and asks me if I wanted to hook up with one of her friends. I say yeah and give it a try. We went out to eat a bunch of times and saw a movie.

This girl never had a boyfriend of even kissed a guy before, shes 18, I'm 22. Shes as socially awkward as I am. We connect well, very friendly, very easy going not selfish at all. Kinda tomboyish, but not a nympho, like all the other tomboyish girls I know.

The girl that hooked us up acts like her mentor. The girl calls her up all the time just to ask what happened. That's ok I know girls call their friends like that all the time. But the other girl then calls me and asks me what happened, what to do and what to say and shit like that. She does the same to her, she tells her when to call and what to say. I tell her to not tell the other girl anything about what to do and not tell me what I should do.

Before this the older girl was pretty friendly but a real bitch if you were on her bad side because she is a control freak.

I already have a self destructive personality, but I really don't want to fuck this up.

So basically in my view I want this relationship untainted and as naturally occuring as possible.

Whereas this girl wants me to do everything like she wants because shes a control freak and loves to be as much of a factor in this as she can because shes the one that hooked us up.

One of my friends suggested to tell the older girl that I'm going to break up with the girl I'm going out with if she doesn't stop telling us what to do. But I don't really want to threaten shit like that.

I'm afraid this girl is never going to leave us alone.

Murder/necro/suicide?

why not just tell her thanks but but out now please. if she doesnt get it be a bit harsher each time till she does.

Maybe she wants a threesome but i doubt that.

perhaps the control freak should be a dominatrix.

Just be truthful about it.

Tell her what's up, that she is sort of being too big of a factor in what seems to be already working and her hookup was nice, but it's your turn to run game, so if she doesn't back out, you will shoot her, or something like that.

i bet the bitch is of the negro species

quote:Originally posted by oinkthepig:

i bet the bitch is of the negro species

fucking racist bitch

Just tell her that her job's done and you can take it from here.

Or just a simple "fuck off and I'll take care of this"

Like you said, she is a control freak and by the looks of it you are going to have to step in and tell her that you know how to handle a relationship without her advice. I had something similar to this but at the end I had to eventually break up with the girl because I couldn't stand to be around her best friend (aka, the love expert

You need to tell her although you appreciate her hooking you up with her friend, that does not give her the right to have any control over the relationship you and the other girl share. Tell her she is not a relationships expert and that you will not take her suggestions on what to do since it is You who is the one in the relationship, Not her.



[This message has been edited by mr.4our2wenty (edited 03-30-2007).]