make a story short. i really cant cum. my girl gives me head nothin, she isnt horrible at it either she is pretty good at it. she can yank me all she wants and still nothing. i tried fucking her to a cum and still nothing, she came twice and i still didnt.

quote:Originally posted by shaggy2dope:

make a story short. i really cant cum. my girl gives me head nothin, she isnt horrible at it either she is pretty good at it. she can yank me all she wants and still nothing. i tried fucking her to a cum and still nothing, she came twice and i still didnt.

Taking any meds that lower your blood pressure? Or is it higher?

Eitherway I just got a cold and I'm on meds that fuck with my blood pressure and I have a problem getting off to. But once Im done with these meds ill be fine agian.

that happened to me...but only for like a day...nothing worked...eventually i just went ot sleep...the next day i was fine...

how long has it been going on for you?

im on no meds. and its been going on for liek a week. and she is getting a little pissed. my blood pressure was normal last time i was at the doctor like 1 month ago. i have never cum for this girl. and she is my first girl friend. i think it might be nervousness

Dude, tell her to open her legs and do her.

You'll have no problem then.

The only girl I've ever met who can make me blow a ball with her mouth or her hand is the girl I'm with now. No other girl could do it.

With other girls it was sex or blue balls!

i said i tryed fucking her so i could cum and she came twice before i gave up.

Ok so you're on the net, why don't you google this shit.

http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1608/is_10_17/ai_80309839

I dunno dude - I fucked her and came fine.... must just be you...

Seriously, shit happens sometimes. If she is your first girlfriend, I bet in your mind you have made sex into this almighty thing to be both feared and revered. You just need to go with the flow, and build up to it.

Dude - sex is usually just like masturbation, only different. It's the hours of talking and laughing and cuddling and kissing and touching and groping and licking and biting and fingering before hand that make sex great.

My guess is the two of you are just chatting, then she says "want head?", and you say "sure", whip it out, and find you can't cum. If it's like that, just masturbate dude - it's better, and less risky.

Well at least you can get hard man. Just be thankful ok and dont take that for granted.

It's psychological. It'll probably last throughout your entire life. Feel blessed, it usually happens to women.

I used to have the same problem, and still do sometimes. I guess its better than being a premature ejaculator.

Carry on going, eventually you'll come..she'll be red raw from hours of fucking but really really pleasured because you have lasted ages and given her multiple orgasms. It's all good!

that shit happened to me the first couple of times I fucked, every now and then it starts again I usually just crank it out to blow...

quote:Originally posted by Alypal:

Carry on going, eventually you'll come..she'll be red raw from hours of fucking but really really pleasured because you have lasted ages and given her multiple orgasms. It's all good!

that one made me lol. yeah she is pleased that i can go for longer than her last boyfriend. metter of fact i have timed my self and when i hit the 30 minute mark i quit she was happy as hell thogh. i dont mind either i love it when my girl cums.

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quote:Originally posted by scjones:

Ok so you're on the net, why don't you google this shit.

http:/ /www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1608/is_10_17/ai_80309839 (http: //www.find articles.c om/p/artic les/mi_m16 08/is_10_1 7/ai_80309 839)



yep, i was going to ask him if he's taken zoloft because its not just for depression its for premature ejaculation too