Well this topic bought up some good and funny conversation on the totse militia website I posted it at so i'll post it here aswell because I see alot of threads and real life situations on this.
Now this is common sense, but we know common sense is VERY rare in society today.
I know we've all fancied our "best friend" or someone closer than most, and they all come out with the same bullshit excuse quote: I prefer you as a mate, your like a brother to me
Well if they say the brother part then you can just tell her incest turns you on....lol nah j/k, she'll be using her hands to slap you instead of wanking you off.
Well being honest it isn't bullshit, they genuinely feel that way, nothing will change it so get the fuck over it and stay her mate; but not as close anymore. The more apart you are, the more she'll miss you unless you just fucking stalked her when you did fancy her.
Now back to a more realist view, let it blow over once she's said her piece and stay mates but not as close, but 1 day ask her round or if a party's on then ask her to go with you. And obviously get drunk together
Alcohol makes you see everything differently, so let the booze do it's thing. Do not bring up what you discussed the other day it will spoil the mood and remind her(even though she's drunk). And when it seems right after you've just made her laugh look into her eyes for a bit and slowly advance for a kiss and follow from what happens next.
Then in the morning discuss it, and she might see you differently(all of the gals I have did
Basically I'm trying to say alcohol solves alot of bitchy problems in life.
Girls also like the arrogant cocky assholes, so if you can, try to prevent from being their shoulder to cry on, don't change yourself at all. Be your manish self and be proud of it. So just be yourself from the start and stay that way and you won't get in this situation in the 1st place.
And yes I was really bored to tell you guys this lol.
2007-03-28, 15:37
My opinion on the friend trap