For the women, if you were going out with a guy and you had been having unprotected sex(without him cumming in you) with him, would you happily take a pregnancy test without getting all hysterical? Would you take it as a 'just incase', or a 'you fucking came in me didnt you!!!'

I don't think a pregnancy test is something you take happily under any circumstances.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

I don't think a pregnancy test is something you take happily under any circumstances.

Unless of course you're hoping to have a ba.

I wouldn't take one unless I was late.

Should have sussed that out before having unprotected sex with her, dude. If your gunna play the game, you both need to be able to deal with the consequences....

What do they teach kids in sex ed these days?

I am in this situation, we are not completly stupid, even though it may look that way.

I just want to be sure, there havent been and mishaps or anything.

but you are right about something that cant really be taken happily.

We have spoken before, and she would definatly have an abortion if it came down to that. I just dont know how she would react if i asked her to take one...

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I wouldn't take one unless I was late.





Ok so you would definatly know if something was up??

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

Unless of course you're hoping to have a ba.

Now who would want one of those?

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:



Ok so you would definatly know if something was up??



Yes. I would.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Yes. I would.

If you dont mind me asking, is that because you have been there before, or is it something that as a woman you just know?

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

If you dont mind me asking, is that because you have been there before, or is it something that as a woman you just know?



well my oc6 is a bit special when it comes to knowledge of her body. She's a bit more intuitive than many women.

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

If you dont mind me asking, is that because you have been there before, or is it something that as a woman you just know?



If it's a normal period, then probably. No guarantees though.

final question, if we had sex without any contraception and she had her period a week later i am safe to assume that all is good(her not being pregnant)?

Thank you very much for all the help. I think i will go educate myself in other forms of contraception other than condoms...

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

final question, if we had sex without any contraception and she had her period a week later i am safe to assume that all is good(her not being pregnant)?




Why isn't she on the pill?

I am at uni in glasgow, she is in aberdeen(3hours drive), we see each other at the weekends every 2 weeks on average. She said, "i cant be bothered getting fat and hormonal when the sex is infrequent"

I just take what she says as fact(which is unusual for me, i noramlly question everything anyone tells me), is this a genuine reason?

I really do NOT want to be a dad... I think i deserve a slap for being this stupid...

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quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

What do they teach kids in sex ed these days?

Abstinence. As you can see, those millions of dollars go to a good use

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

I am at uni in glasgow, she is in aberdeen(3hours drive), we see each other at the weekends every 2 weeks on average. She said, "i cant be bothered getting fat and hormonal when the sex is infrequent"

I just take what she says as fact(which is unusual for me, i noramlly question everything anyone tells me), is this a genuine reason?

I really do NOT want to be a dad... I think i deserve a slap for being this stupid...

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If you are that bothered/worried about her being pregnant than why were you having penetrative vaginal sex in the first place?

I hate to say it but it's still a fact that 99.9% of pregnancies are caused by having sex.

Just stick to bj/hj's and anal.

You'll both get off just as well ...if not better, you won't have to worry about pregnancy, you'll save some money and she won't get cervical cancer.

Sex is like Iraq : even if you pull out, a bunch of your soldiers are already splattered all over the place.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

If you are that bothered/worried about her being pregnant than why were you having penetrative vaginal sex in the first place?

I hate to say it but it's still a fact that 99.9% of pregnancies are caused by having sex.

Just stick to bj/hj's and anal.

You'll both get off just as well ...if not better, you won't have to worry about pregnancy, you'll save some money and she won't get cervical cancer.



Because it is fucking amazing! We know each other so well, it is just fucking amazing... i can't describe the feeling.

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

Because it is fucking amazing! We know each other so well, it is just fucking amazing... i can't describe the feeling.

It sounds like abortion is her preferred method for birth control.

Some day you'll realize that "just fucking amazing" can quickly turn into "just fucking awful". It will be just as difficult to describe that feeling too.

I can only imagine.

I think i will pursue getting her on the pill.

Thank you very much oc6.

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:



We have spoken before, and she would definatly have an abortion if it came down to that. I just dont know how she would react if i asked her to take one...

Baby killer.

Don't try and make her go on the pill... she will blame and most probably hate you when it makes her fat.

Why can't you use condoms? are you allergic?

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

'you fucking came in me didnt you!!!'

How the fuck would you not know if a guy came in you? It's obvious when he's just cum and starts leaking out...

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quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:

How the fuck would you not know if a guy came in you? It's obvious when he's just cum and starts leaking out...



I don't know when a guy is cumming in me unless he says he is.. It's really wet anyway.. I don't notice any cum leaking out of me due to me already being very wet..

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

I am in this situation, we are not completly stupid, even though it may look that way.

You're using the pull-out method as contraception, and you're trying to claim you're not completely stupid?