Well i'm not really sure if I have a psychological disorder as Nymphomania or Hypersexuality, but I think my extreme sex drive is driving me insane.

All fucking day long I think about sex and is really starting to be an issue since I can't concentrate in class or even talk to people or driving my car.

I just want to FUCK!!!!!!! But not with any random hot bitch. I'm obsessed with her, with my exgirlfriend.

Fuck I don't know what to do anymore, masturbation is not helping to ease my urges any longer.

I know she wants me as badly as I want her. Today she fucking hugged me and stuck her lolipop in my mouth and then took it to hers. She was being very physical and she wants me I know it.

But there's a big fucking trouble in this situation: She is/was a goddamned stripper/prostitute and that's the reason why I dumped her.

I'm afraid to fuck her one day or many days and get HIV or herpes. Fuck !!! I just don't trust her anymore and condoms suck they are not 100% secure and I know that if I fuck her at least once then I'm destined to have unprotected sex with her...

I just need a fucked up BRAKE !!!!!!

Murder/suicide.

Or dope yourself up on anti depressents.

Yeah this is fucking stupid.. you really don't need any help, at all.

You're an idiot. USE A CONDOM. It's that fucking simple. You're going to break up with someone over HER LIFE CHOICES? It's her decision what she does, just like it's yours if you decide you want to be in the military.

Jesus...

Ok... stripping/prostitution is an exceptional life choice... i mean, it's not like she's a fucking drapery salesperson or lawyer

quote:Originally posted by H4T3:

You're an idiot. USE A CONDOM. It's that fucking simple. You're going to break up with someone over HER LIFE CHOICES? It's her decision what she does, just like it's yours if you decide you want to be in the military.

Jesus...

Stupidest thing all week. And I honestly mean it.

If your girlfriend went out and started fucking random dudes behind your back, would you honestly be able to say 'its her body, so she can do what she wants'?

In most relationships, sleeping with other people is a fairly large issue.

I cant get over how stupid that comment of yours was. Are you a troll? I think you are just an absolute idiot who wanted to say something cool.

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

If your girlfriend went out and started fucking random dudes behind your back, would you honestly be able to say 'its her body, so she can do what she wants'?I can't remember the whole story, but was she a prostitute before, during, or after their relationship? Yes, it is one thing if she was doing it on the sly, but I don't remember if it even was. And "stripper/prostitute" is vague. Does the OP mean she was both, or one or the other?

She was a stripper who had sex with random men, so that makes her a whore and I didn't realize it until 2 months of relationship.



This is a complete bitch. She thinks she's the most beautiful creature in this nasty wolrd. She told me there is no other chick as hot as her in college and that I should feel glad that she even speaks to me.

The funny thing is that she's got no friends because of her bitchness and She's not even hot, she is fuckable and that's all...

stop being a pussy go drink until you can't remember your name and hope you end up in some half-way decent looking chicks bed. Your just acting like a mamma's boy faggot cryin about your urges and how your obsessed with a prostitute stripper. Jesus man grow some balls.

quote:Originally posted by Nereth

Stupidest thing all week. And I honestly mean it.

If your girlfriend went out and started fucking random dudes behind your back, would you honestly be able to say 'its her body, so she can do what she wants'?

In most relationships, sleeping with other people is a fairly large issue.

I cant get over how stupid that comment of yours was. Are you a troll? I think you are just an absolute idiot who wanted to say something cool.

It may sound stupid to you, but I've come to believe you're a relatively stupid and closed minded person. From what he's saying he's into this girl. In India, members of the Nayar caste are actually encouraged to sleep with as many partners as possible. Infidelity is a relative thing, a product of society. It bugs the shit out of me when people do things simply to appease some patental figure they've developed in their mind. Even when it ruins a perfectly good relationship.

This could be an amazing thing, sex without the commitment. She could do her thing and you could do yours.

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote

She was a stripper who had sex with random men, so that makes her a whore and I didn't realize it until 2 months of relationship.

This is a complete bitch. She thinks she's the most beautiful creature in this nasty wolrd. She told me there is no other chick as hot as her in college and that I should feel glad that she even speaks to me.

The funny thing is that she's got no friends because of her bitchness and She's not even hot, she is fuckable and that's all...

Well, perhaps it's the smell.

quote:Originally posted by H4T3:

(I forgot to think this argument through!)

- We are not in India

- He (and the other 98% of dudes) doesn't appreciate his girlfriend sleeping with someone else, thus it doesn't matter what people in India think.

-'Infidelity is a relative thing, a product of society.'

He and his ex are also products of that society in which fidelity is valued, and thus fidelity applies to them. If they were India I would be saying different.

-'It bugs the shit out of me when people do things simply to appease some patental (http://tinyurl.com/22llrr) figure they've developed in their mind.'

I cant assume you mean parental because I'm pretty sure it doesn't work in this context.

-'Even when it ruins a perfectly good relationship.'

When she cheats on you, its a hint that the relationship isn't that great. In his society, anyway.

-'This could be an amazing thing, sex without the commitment. She could do her thing and you could do yours.'

I don't think he wanted a fuck buddy. This guy wanted a relationship where intellectual company meant something, mutual love meant something, and people were more than just bags of flesh to get you off. I think that's even more beautiful and amazing than being fuck Buddys.

I'm not closed minded, I think you are. Didn't you just project your values on him, and decide he was wrong? Doesnt he have the right to not want his partner fucking other dudes?

Also, this is the first time someone has ever recognised me from another post. I'm proud.



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Don't worry about it dude, you already got mouth-herpes from that lollipop anyway.

quote:Originally posted by ComeHere:

Don't worry about it dude, you already got mouth-herpes from that lollipop anyway.

QFT

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

pwnage

You said what I wanted to say but wasn't coherent enough to do. +1.

- We are not in India

He (and the other 98% of dudes) doesn't appreciate his girlfriend sleeping with someone else, thus it doesn't matter what people in India think.

- I was using that point to let you know where I'm coming from. There are other societies with other values that differ from yours. Because I disagree it isn't stupid. It seems to fit this situation.

Take a sociology class, guy.

-'Infidelity is a relative thing, a product of society.'

He and his ex are also products of that society in which fidelity is valued, and thus fidelity applies to them. If they were India I would be saying different.

Well, when one is a stripper/prostitute, that kind of shit goes out the window. Sorry! You forget the TOTSE is comprised largely of drug users, psychopaths, bomb-makers, combat enthusiasts, and lawbreakers in a society where that kind of behavior is discouraged.

-'It bugs the shit out of me when people do things simply to appease some patental figure they've developed in their mind.'

I cant assume you mean parental because I'm pretty sure it doesn't work in this context.

Yeah, paternal, some father-figure albeit god or society. Take an anthropology class.

-'Even when it ruins a perfectly good relationship.'

When she cheats on you, its a hint that the relationship isn't that great. In his society, anyway.

It was fine with that out of the equasion. If he wanted commitment then he'd be concerned with more than just his urges to fuck, wouldn't he?

-'This could be an amazing thing, sex without the commitment. She could do her thing and you could do yours.'

I don't think he wanted a fuck buddy. This guy wanted a relationship where intellectual company meant something, mutual love meant something, and people were more than just bags of flesh to get you off. I think that's even more beautiful and amazing than being fuck Buddys.

You're totally right to assume that... except of course for:

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote

I just want to FUCK!!!!!!! But not with any random hot bitch. I'm obsessed with her, with my exgirlfriend.

Fuck I don't know what to do anymore, masturbation is not helping to ease my urges any longer.



I'm not closed minded, I think you are. Didn't you just project your values on him, and decide he was wrong? Doesnt he have the right to not want his partner fucking other dudes?

I didn't project. I assumed from context his point of veiws. He does NOT want a meaningful relationship with the girl. Of course your point of veiw and argument against me is assuming his ideals match yours. That's just as ignorant as my assumption.

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote

She was a stripper who had sex with random men, so that makes her a whore and I didn't realize it until 2 months of relationship.

This is a complete bitch. She thinks she's the most beautiful creature in this nasty wolrd. She told me there is no other chick as hot as her in college and that I should feel glad that she even speaks to me.

The funny thing is that she's got no friends because of her bitchness and She's not even hot, she is fuckable and that's all...

FTW!

Also, this is the first time someone has ever recognised me from another post. I'm proud.

I'm proud of you, too, guy.

Sorry about dragging on this whole argument. I just really don't like the whole condescending thing you tried.

[This message has been edited by H4T3 (edited 03-28-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

- We are not in India

He (and the other 98% of dudes) doesn't appreciate his girlfriend sleeping with someone else.

I don't think he wanted a fuck buddy. This guy wanted a relationship where intellectual company meant something, mutual love meant something, and people were more than just bags of flesh to get you off. I think that's even more beautiful and amazing than being fuck Buddys.





Bullseye !!!! He's absolutely right. I dated her because I felt something for her not just the fucking. We had a lot of chemistry despite the relatively great difference of age (she's 10 years older than me).

After I found out about all of her dirty lies, I just dumped her and a few months have gone by since then. Now I just see her as a disposable sexual instrument and she is no longer important in my life.

And yes I want to FUCK HER!!!!!!

[This message has been edited by Maggotote (edited 03-29-2007).]

^^^^???

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote

I just want to FUCK!!!!!!! But not with any random hot bitch. I'm obsessed with her, with my exgirlfriend.

Fuck I don't know what to do anymore, masturbation is not helping to ease my urges any longer.



You didn't seem like you wanted a relationship. If you do, then tell her about it and stop asking people in forums for advice. I'm telling you, though: She's not going to change for you. I'd suggest just fucking the bitch and finding someone else for your crybaby assed needs.

I assumed that he thought the same way as I did (didn't like polygamy), because he broke up with his girlfriend because she was polygamous. Seems pretty rational to me.

Your India statement was stupid because yes, while other people may value things differently, he still broke up with his girlfriend due to his values, and other cultures dont apply. What applies is his beliefs.

-'Well, when one is a stripper/prostitute, that kind of shit goes out the window.'

When he found out she was a stripper, the relationship itself went out the window. Because he isn't a stripper, and his societies dominant values still apply to him, even if they dont apply to her.

Oh and I think I just checkmated you when he agreed with my reading of his values.

-'You didn't seem like you wanted a relationship.'

Pretty sure he doesnt any more. He did before, when, as far as he was concerned, he wasn't dating a whore. Now, apparently, he just wants to fuck her. Assumably because an emotional attachment makes it that much better. (And I assume there still would be an emotional attachment.)

Sorry for disjointed sentences and the like, you didnt say anything that pissed me off in the last post, so my mind didnt metaphorically spin up to speed, and I had to run it at half power.



[This message has been edited by Nereth (edited 03-29-2007).]

Lol.

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote:

Well i'm not really sure if I have a psychological disorder as Nymphomania or Hypersexuality, but I think my extreme sex drive is driving me insane.

All fucking day long I think about sex and is really starting to be an issue since I can't concentrate in class or even talk to people or driving my car.

I just want to FUCK!!!!!!! But not with any random hot bitch. I'm obsessed with her, with my exgirlfriend.

Fuck I don't know what to do anymore, masturbation is not helping to ease my urges any longer.

I know she wants me as badly as I want her. Today she fucking hugged me and stuck her lolipop in my mouth and then took it to hers. She was being very physical and she wants me I know it.

But there's a big fucking trouble in this situation: She is/was a goddamned stripper/prostitute and that's the reason why I dumped her.

I'm afraid to fuck her one day or many days and get HIV or herpes. Fuck !!! I just don't trust her anymore and condoms suck they are not 100% secure and I know that if I fuck her at least once then I'm destined to have unprotected sex with her...

I just need a fucked up BRAKE !!!!!!

You're not a nympho...

Even if you were, you can't because a nympho is a woman...

quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

I assumed that he thought the same way as I did (didn't like polygamy), because he broke up with his girlfriend because she was polygamous. Seems pretty rational to me.

Your India statement was stupid because yes, while other people may value things differently, he still broke up with his girlfriend due to his values, and other cultures dont apply. What applies is his beliefs.

-'Well, when one is a stripper/prostitute, that kind of shit goes out the window.'

When he found out she was a stripper, the relationship itself went out the window. Because he isn't a stripper, and his societies dominant values still apply to him, even if they dont apply to her.

Oh and I think I just checkmated you when he agreed with my reading of his values.

-'You didn't seem like you wanted a relationship.'

Pretty sure he doesnt any more. He did before, when, as far as he was concerned, he wasn't dating a whore. Now, apparently, he just wants to fuck her. Assumably because an emotional attachment makes it that much better. (And I assume there still would be an emotional attachment.)

Sorry for disjointed sentences and the like, you didnt say anything that pissed me off in the last post, so my mind didnt metaphorically spin up to speed, and I had to run it at half power.



Yeah, I guess you're right.

I bet you don't get that one, much!

I always advocate with the swinger side of the argument. It's stupid in lieu of all the AIDSES that are everywhere. Fucking christ, you can't eat a bowl of cereal without getting AIDS anymore.

OP: It's probably best that you don't pursue a serious relationship with this girl. In truth: the only way to stop the urges is to fuck her until she can't feel her toes. Just wear a condom, shave your pubes, and don't fuck her if she's having any kind of outbreak and it's pretty much guaranteed that you wont get anything.

Nereth: Don't worry about your mind not "keeping up to speed," it's a stupid thing to argue about anyways. The polygamy/monogamy argument is as pointless as theistic quabbling. I never told OP to pursue a relationship, it's all just sabatage. The point I was trying to get across was: "we wont think less of you if you fuck a stripper/prostitute, worse happens in other countries."

OPIATES

ftw

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quote:Originally posted by Nereth:

- We are not in India

- He (and the other 98% of dudes) doesn't appreciate his girlfriend sleeping with someone else, thus it doesn't matter what people in India think.

-'Infidelity is a relative thing, a product of society.'

He and his ex are also products of that society in which fidelity is valued, and thus fidelity applies to them. If they were India I would be saying different.

-'It bugs the shit out of me when people do things simply to appease some patental (http://tinyurl.com/22llrr) figure they've developed in their mind.'

I cant assume you mean parental because I'm pretty sure it doesn't work in this context.

-'Even when it ruins a perfectly good relationship.'

When she cheats on you, its a hint that the relationship isn't that great. In his society, anyway.

-'This could be an amazing thing, sex without the commitment. She could do her thing and you could do yours.'

I don't think he wanted a fuck buddy. This guy wanted a relationship where intellectual company meant something, mutual love meant something, and people were more than just bags of flesh to get you off. I think that's even more beautiful and amazing than being fuck Buddys.

I'm not closed minded, I think you are. Didn't you just project your values on him, and decide he was wrong? Doesnt he have the right to not want his partner fucking other dudes?

Also, this is the first time someone has ever recognised me from another post. I'm proud.



Yeah exactly, that other guys sounds to me like a commie bitch.

youz gonna gets tha aids!!!

Testicles in a vice.

Use brass soft jaws, though. You wouldn't want to mar the surface of the scrotum.

And my shop teacher says I don't listen....

"It is called satyriasis in men, nymphomania in women--who engage in it compulsively and without joy."

2 words FUCK BUDDIES.