Ok, my friend broke up with his girlfriend (who happens to also be my ex) on Monday of this week. Saturday she came over to my house where 6 or 7 of my friends and me were on ecstasy. I ended up making out with her for a little while. Long story short, he found out and he's pissed. So my question is, does he have a right to be pissed off at that?

Who broke up with who?

If he got dumped then I think you shouldn't have went for it. If he dumped her then by all means go for it..

The way I see it she's the village bike...Everyone's had a ride.

Fuck it mate...Tell your friend to get over it and realise that she's probably had a load more guys between the time she broke up with him and you kissed her.

The break up was apparently mutual, and to the village bike thing - both of us know it isn't true. I'm thinking of playing the "would you rather have it be your friend, or some fucker you hate" card. Any advice?

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:

The break up was apparently mutual, and to the village bike thing - both of us know it isn't true. I'm thinking of playing the "would you rather have it be your friend, or some fucker you hate" card. Any advice?

No that really wont lead to anything positive, I say you should apoligize and hopefully he will understand and forgive you, if not you need to get true friends..

He called me about 10 minutes ago, and he's all pissed off. I told him to just chill, and I did apologize even though I don't really think I did anything that wrong. I'm pretty sure it's because he lost his virginity to her though, I was kinda the same way about the girl I lost my virginity to.

Well if you were with this girl before him then shouldn't you be pissed at him?

Dude...If she's gonna go out with you...Then your best friend, that's kinda wrong.

If it's okay for him to get on this chick after you got on her, why not vice versa?

If the break up was mutual, he can't say shit...He agreed to go seperate ways.

If I broke up with a girl and my best mate got hold of her, I'd be a little iffy on it and let my friend know if it bothered me that much I'd but keep in mind that I broke up with her and that puts her on the market again.

Tell him to stop being a bitch.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Dude...If she's gonna go out with you...Then your best friend, that's kinda wrong.

If it's okay for him to get on this chick after you got on her, why not vice versa?

If the break up was mutual, he can't say shit...He agreed to go seperate ways.

If I broke up with a girl and my best mate got hold of her, I'd be a little iffy on it and let my friend know if it bothered me that much I'd but keep in mind that I broke up with her and that puts her on the market again.

Tell him to stop being a bitch.





I dated her for close to 2 months, which really isn't that long, and it was about 7 months after her and I broke up that they started going out.

Flip him over, and hit the weak spot for massive damage

Why do i feel like no one here has ever had this happen to them? 'Cuz fuck man. "mutual breakup" usually means he got dumped or rather she wanted to get out and he complied. If he cared for her at all.. his friend and his ex is gonna stir up a lot of negative emotions. thank god you didn't fuck her. for his sake

quote:Originally posted by genericwittyusername:

Why do i feel like no one here has ever had this happen to them? 'Cuz fuck man. "mutual breakup" usually means he got dumped or rather she wanted to get out and he complied. If he cared for her at all.. his friend and his ex is gonna stir up a lot of negative emotions. thank god you didn't fuck her. for his sake



Yea, I had more sense than to fuck her. It was just like playful ecstasy making out bullshit.

I'm in sort of a similar situation, where my friend and his girlfriend broke up. She asked me too our Winter Formal, we went as friends, then decided to date. And now he is kind of pissed at me for it. I'm not sure of their break up, it was apparently very complicated. But you know, I sort of feel like fuck him. He is leaving me as a debate partner for another friend of ours, so whatever. Just my 2 cents, not even sure if this is very relevant.

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:

Yea, I had more sense than to fuck her. It was just like playful ecstasy making out bullshit.

Ah the adventures you have on E. But would he understand this?

Just apologize man. If he still flips out about it you need to get better friends, it was just kissing nothing to get that pissed about.

It's fucked up that he dated her. If any chick has done anything with someone I know (doesn't even have to be a friend) then I consider her off limits. Not out of respect, just the way I think, "That guy's dick has been here" or, "The guy lips were on her's before". Granted, I developed that mind set out of respect for my friends, but it has evolved since then.

To sum it up, you should have been pissed when he went out with her, and he's just being a little bitch about it now.

Now a question for you. Why did you ask about it on totse? Are you going to show him the website to prove that he shouldn't be mad?

People now adays need to stand up for themselves. If you think his anger is uncalled for, confront him on it. Everyone has different opinions, and they should be openly shared, not hidden because you think your opinion might be wrong...

[This message has been edited by NewRage (edited 03-28-2007).]