So Im fifteen and I'm Indian in an all white community. I have yet to kiss a girl although I've gone out kinda with one, one date and I didn't really like her, and another girl used to really like me. So im kind of worried about my social life. On friday there's a party at this girl's house who I barely know.Im unsure whether I should even consider going? I feel if I go im afraid to be embarassed. I consider myself ugly, a little overweight not fat though. And Im worried others few me as that too, although nobody has ever commented obviously. Once and a while girls talk to me but im shy and its rare. Im not a complete loner I have friends but not many. What should I do to improve my social life?

Throw yourself headlong into these situations that make you scared.

It's only scary because it's new, after a few times, you'll be a seasoned pro.

Get a mail order bride from India.

Well if you stay home from the party that wont help your social life. Even if you're nervous just suck it up and go, you'll probably have a good time. Do you drink? If you do, have a few to mellow out.

And hey, at least you're being invited to parties! I never even got invited to parties in high school.

Also, brown guys are hot so don't worry about that. You're exotic to all the white chicas, so have confidence in your heritage.