So last night my boyfriend informed me that one of my girlfriends has come on to him twice when she was drunk. And that's all he'll tell me! He wont say who/when it was or what exactly happened.

What am I supposed to do now? I really don't think it's a huge deal, I'm just dying of curiosity. I only have like 5 girlfriends and I really can't think of who it could be.

What would you do? Would you just let it go? I don't think he's being fair to me, because now I'm suspicious of my friends. I wish he would just tell me.

Find the alcoholic of your group.

I'd probably les out with all my girlfriends and record & post it.

take condolence in the fact that since he told you, there is a very good chance that he did not act and did not want to act upon the drunk ones offer?

Let it go.

He turned her down, I assume. If he cares about you, then no offer is going to entice.

Edit: Poke him in the eye for being childish and not giving you a name, assuming that you've asked.

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 03-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Euda:



Edit: Poke him in the eye for being childish and not giving you a name, assuming that you've asked.



Haha! I like this idea. And yes, he did turn her down.

It's just driving me crazy trying to figure this out. Because we're always together! And we don't drink with our friends that often...The only time I think it could have happened is the last time I got drunk. Because I was puking for like 2 hours. But there were other people there, and I can't see any of my friends hitting on my boyfriend in front of my other friends! Fuck!

Don't ask you boyfriend.

That's silly.

Ask your other grilfriends.

I'm sure they'd like to gossip about it.

It's a bit weird that he won't tell you who it was, that would make me a little suspicious of both parties, even if he did turn her down.

But then again I'm not really the trusting type.

I think asking your girlfriends rather than him is a good idea.

EDIT: I'd probably let it go though. It's good that he even told you.

[This message has been edited by Indulgence (edited 03-27-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Poke him in the eye for being childish

Agreed. And not just because he's not giving you a name, but because he told you in the first place, without intending you tell you who it was. That's extremely childish, don't you think? If he's going to keep that last bit of information from you, why tell you at all? To drive you crazy?



Seems pretty dumb to me. Especially because it's making you suspicious.

quote:Originally posted by MandatorySuicide:

Seems pretty dumb to me.

Dude, this is a sick_boy post.

Duuuuuuh!

Arrange a 'girls night' and turn up red eyed and weeping.

Keep refusing to say why you're crying until finally you let slip that your boyfriend has given you HIV.

The 'friend' who turns a deathly shade of pale is the guilty party.

Easy.

Make him tell you! That's like saying to someone, omg I got something about so and so, but I can't tell you cause they made me promise I wouldn't tell - pathetic.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

That's like saying to someone, omg I got something about so and so, but I can't tell you cause they made me promise I wouldn't tell - pathetic.

Yet more proof that women = gossip machines.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Make him tell you!

Not all men are emasculated, Amazon

Tell him you can't arrange a threesome if you don't know who it is.

He'll buckle...oh yeah. Very nicely.

Buy yourself a nice new watch, then tell him you met this guy on the street who told you he'd give you a new watch if you sucked his dick, and of course, don't tell whether or not you did.

Hmm...what would I do?

Where was he when it happened? How did it occur? How did he deal with it?

I might get all my friends together and then mention that your boyfriend told you one of them came on to him. (don't say he didn't tell you who, just that you know)

That might be enough to make her squirm in her seat...if she remembers at all.

Why do you think he told you? Heading off gossip about them, maybe?

quote:Originally posted by imoan backwards:

Tell him you can't arrange a threesome if you don't know who it is.

He'll buckle...oh yeah. Very nicely.

Quoted FTW!

Yea...boyfriend seems like an ass. If he turned her down, there is no reason to tell you, because it is going to make you suspicious of your friends.

On top of that, if he had turned her down there is no reason to bring it up again. There is also a chance that the girl was just drunk and talking non-sense and this jackoff got an ego boost in the process.

Just forget about it.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Duuuuuuh!

Arrange a 'girls night' and turn up red eyed and weeping.

Keep refusing to say why you're crying until finally you let slip that your boyfriend has given you HIV.

The 'friend' who turns a deathly shade of pale is the guilty party.

Easy.



ftw

I pestered him for like an hour. There was lots of biting and eye poking involved...lol

He still hasn't told me but he's promised to tell me by the end of the week. Which is gay but atleast he's going to tell me now.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

I pestered him for like an hour. There was lots of biting and eye poking involved...lol

Quit being such a bitch.

Biting? Oh, maaaan! I missed out on that?!

Yet...the 'substances' are well know for the causing of inappropriate behavior? Have you, liddle lady, ever done the badzorszss while intoxxed?

you realize he's doing this to make you jealous / attract more attention to himself...right?

you should bend his dick for this

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

He still hasn't told me but he's promised to tell me by the end of the week.

How old is he? :P

quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

you realize he's doing this to make you jealous / attract more attention to himself...right?

you should bend his dick for this

Has he got hisself a passle of girl relatives or just studied girl-behavior? The jealousy making by using others as tools to that end is a very girl thing.

Girls are well known for completely using other guys to make their own men jealous. Where they wouldn't piss on the useee if he was on fire? Just slimy behavior. All an act.

A whole bloody thread about your boyfriend!

he probably doesn't wanna get your friend in trouble, cuz he believes she was only acting in intoxication.

Polygraph testing FTW!

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

I pestered him for like an hour. There was lots of biting and eye poking involved...lol

He still hasn't told me but he's promised to tell me by the end of the week. Which is gay but atleast he's going to tell me now.

Yeah well, I'm sure you have some secrets you wouldn't tell him, no matter how long.

quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:

Yet more proof that women = gossip machines.

And how!

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Not all men are emasculated, Amazon

Not yet...

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

Not yet...

Is it a bad thing that I don't even know what emasculated means?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Yea...boyfriend seems like an ass. If he turned her down, there is no reason to tell you, because it is going to make you suspicious of your friends.

On top of that, if he had turned her down there is no reason to bring it up again. There is also a chance that the girl was just drunk and talking non-sense and this jackoff got an ego boost in the process.

Just forget about it.

Exactly. I can't believe you're actually playing his stupid little highschool games. If I were you, I would have simply punched him in the stomach and told him to stop acting like a child way before it got to the point where I needed to make a thread about it.



Seriously, I don't see why your main concern is still figuring out who was 'hitting on him' (If anyone was even hitting on him at all), and not figuring out why you're with a guy who would be such a tool.

I hate that! My boyfriend does the same bullshit all the time. For instance he'll tell me someone is talking shit about me but wont tell me who and wont tell me what they said. It's like "Why did you tell me anything in the fucking first place?"

Frankly, I'd be more annoyed with your boyfriend if I were you. I'd tell him straight up, "Why are you telling me this if you wont tell me who? Clearly you think there's a problem I need to know about, but you wont tell me how to deal with it."

Then, I wouldn't get too pissed at your "friend". I'd probably just chalk is up to yea, she's drunk, and just know this about her and keep an eye on her. And don't be surprised if she does it again. Don't get too close to her. But, all you can do now is trust that your boyfriend wont fall for it because you're way awesomer.

Cheers,

Lost

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

He still hasn't told me but he's promised to tell me by the end of the week.

This all seems very childish. What difference does it make if he tells you now or at the end of the week? Why even bring it up, if he isn't going to tell you?

If you haven't guessed by now... it is your sister.

It sounds to me like he's planning on breaking up with you for your friend.

Why else would he not tell you now, but be willing to tell you in a week?

Unless he's trying to teach you patience.

Or he's a control freak and is on a power trip.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Duuuuuuh!

Arrange a 'girls night' and turn up red eyed and weeping.

Keep refusing to say why you're crying until finally you let slip that your boyfriend has given you HIV.

The 'friend' who turns a deathly shade of pale is the guilty party.

Easy.







I loev you!



Sickboy: do that.

Also, why the fuck wont he tell you anymore? That sounds pretty fucknig suspicious.

I cant be bothered with that sort of shite anymore. If someone I'm with starts to mess about, tells me that someone hit on him but he wont tell me who, I'm going to assume that he wont tell me because he's protecting the skank and that he kinda likes it.



Life is too long to deal with shit like that.

I can't believe everyone thinks ratting someone out is a good thing.

quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:

I can't believe everyone thinks ratting someone out is a good thing.

The point is, if he was going to tell her it happened at all then he should have told her who it was.

It's not about whether he should have told her or not, it sounds like it would have been better for him to keep his mouth shut, since he's not going to elaborate.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Duuuuuuh!

Arrange a 'girls night' and turn up red eyed and weeping.

Keep refusing to say why you're crying until finally you let slip that your boyfriend has given you HIV.

The 'friend' who turns a deathly shade of pale is the guilty party.

Easy.



And suddenly my morning didn't suck.