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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-03-25, 14:00
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Default Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

I'm not going into detail.. but put it this way - a girl flirts constantly with you, more than she does with any other guy.. a lot more.. but is never available to hang out with outside of school, and tells people she doesnt like you.. and then those people think she's lying because of how she acts.

Either A) she likes me but is lying about it, God knows why.. or B) I'm a sucker

thoughts on this situation?
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:12
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She wants the cock duh.
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:22
NoSkills NoSkills is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

she likes you, but she is unsure if you like her back.
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:24
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quote:Originally posted by NoSkills:

she likes you, but she is scared of getting a reputation for strongly desiring the cock.
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:26
Ballin Ballin is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

happens a lot

don't think too much of it, just play the "game" with them.. cuz you dont wanna be grimey back

usually nothing comes of these type of things, but i find them cute when they happen

btw... whores like that are dirty and you should stray away
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:31
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

Are you a scumbag? Do you have a bad reputation?

She could just be looking to slum it.

Are you sure it's flirting?

Some people just have that type of personality; the type where they simply flirt without thinking about it.

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 03-25-2007).]
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:47
jmpaintball jmpaintball is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

I would agree with the poster who said "She likes you, but she isn't sure if you like her back."

Except you say, "she never has time to hang out." Does this mean you have asked her to hang out and she has said no a few times? If so, she probably just likes to flirt. If you haven't asked her, what the fuck are you waiting for?
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Old 2007-03-25, 14:58
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

I have asked and she's like 'I dotn know' and then her sister gives me a look like 'why the fuck is she saying no?'

I think I know what I'm gonna do..

just play it with her, and if nothing happens then.. oh well, I'll become distant and not accept the flirtation invitations,

and if something does happen - well then I'll have nothing to complain about now will I?

I just wish she'd make it clear to me.

And no - my reputation is quite good.. but thanks for your advice
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Old 2007-03-25, 15:06
Mr.Happy Mr.Happy is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

A psychological reason for a girl leading a guy on?

Femaleness.
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Old 2007-03-25, 15:09
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^ Ooh er.
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Old 2007-03-25, 18:27
rio bravo rio bravo is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

I have a friend who leads guy on REALLY badly. She just likes attention and feeling like she's desired.
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Old 2007-03-25, 18:50
smallpox champion smallpox champion is offline
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You're not returning any affection are you? Hence the shit talking.
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Old 2007-03-25, 21:16
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Be a man, confront her about it, have hawt sex.
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:04
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Are you a scumbag? Do you have a bad reputation?

She could just be looking to slum it.

Are you sure it's flirting?

Some people just have that type of personality; the type where they simply flirt without thinking about it.



So you are telling me people are born whores? :P
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:05
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

Sometimes men think I'm leading them on simply because I'm being nice to them. Are you sure she's not just being friendly?
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:07
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Sometimes men think I'm leading them on simply because I'm being nice to them. Are you sure she's not just being friendly?

If I thought everytime a girl was being friendly with me they liked me; I'd think of myself as cassanova.

Yea, I'm sure.
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:14
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Emperor:

If I thought everytime a girl was being friendly with me they liked me; I'd think of myself as cassanova.

Yea, I'm sure.

Fair enough. She probably is just a natural flirt. And no CarbonB, that does not make a person a whore.
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:44
StillArmedStillAngry StillArmedStillAngry is offline
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quote:Originally posted by rio bravo:

I have a friend who leads guy on REALLY badly. She just likes attention and feeling like she's desired.

This far more common than anyone is willing to admit. Among girls AND guys.

The great thing being that ignoring such an attention whore might get you a surprising amount of attention from her. She might end up fucking you out of sheer momentum, lol.
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:52
Tesla Tesla is offline
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Default Re: Psychological reasons for a girl leading you on

she could be leading you on to boast her ego to theres always that possibility.
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Old 2007-03-25, 22:55
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quote:Originally posted by Tesla:

she could be leading you on to boast her ego to theres always that possibility.

I did that one time, it felt fucking ace.
 
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