Okay, so life has decided to possibly blindside me and I'm having some trouble sort of emotion identification issues.

So emotionally, whats the difference between having a crush and a really good friend??

I hate this shit.

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Okay, so life has decided to possibly blindside me and I'm having some trouble sort of emotion identification issues.

So emotionally, whats the difference between having a crush and a really good friend??

I hate this shit.

that's a difficult question. i dunno how to answer it really, except that there's not necessarily a clear cut line between the two.

Pretty sure you could tell if it was a crush

It's a crush if you wanna bang them.

quote:Originally posted by rio bravo:

It's a crush if you wanna bang them.

so you dont have any really good friends that you find hot enough to fuck, that you dont have a "crush" on?

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

so you dont have any really good friends that you find hot enough to fuck, that you dont have a "crush" on?

I have some good female friends who I think are hot, and I would fuck given the opportunity. But I don't ever really think about them in that way. Then there's girls who I think about wanting to fuck often, those are girls I have a crush on.

Yeah, that's always confused me; how do you tell if you're actually attracted to someone?

quote:Originally posted by ChickenOfDoom:

Yeah, that's always confused me; how do you tell if you're actually attracted to someone?

this question, unlike the OP's, is retarded.

that could go into a whole debate on what the rules of attraction are and I'm sure as hell not going to go there

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Okay, so life has decided to possibly blindside me and I'm having some trouble sort of emotion identification issues.

So emotionally, whats the difference between having a crush and a really good friend??

I hate this shit.

that has got to be the single most retarded question i've ever heard. No offence, OP but COME ON!! What do YOU think is the difference?

quote:Originally posted by clockwork_genius:

that has got to be the single most retarded question i've ever heard. No offence, OP but COME ON!! What do YOU think is the difference?

oh come on you've never found yourself in a position of "oh damn i think i'm starting to like this chick who is my good friend"? where you're really not sure if you like her, but you're kinda feelin something?

Yes, i have, actually. But then i think logically and that if i'm thinking those thoughts i've clearly got a crush. like someone else said, it's a better question to ask exactly where the line is, but you can find within yourself what you really think if you're honest. The original question is answerable only with self honesty and introspection which i thought was a natural process, hence my cynicism at it.