Sorry for the grammatical errors in my other post, bear with me. Well for those who haven't read my previous post I have somewhat of a dilema.



I finally hooked up with this girl I've really liked for a long time. She finally realized how much I care about her and wants a serious relationship as much as I do.



She wants me basically fuck my brains out plain and simple. I know what you are maybe thinking ; ''Why the fuck do you need assistance for get off totse and go tap that!''. Thats very true, but I dont have anywhere I could of taken her. Ive read the suggestion some of you gave in the other post about locking the door to room or going to her house, but those two are out of the question.



She wants to cut school and spend the day with me, and basically fuck me the whole day.

I've talked to my older cousin and he agreed to let me use his apartment this wednesday. She originally wanted it to be Monday, but he's waiting for a FedEx delivery he cant miss.



I've chosen not try to sneak around and try not to get caught cutting school, I figured 7 hours of carnal pleasure is way worth any punishment. Plus if my mother finds out i cut school I would just be honest with her and tell her I was getting some poon.Its about time I manned up to her.



Now this is where I need serious assistance with, She doesnt know Im a virgin.

Im 17 and shes 15 and Im actually quite embarrased by that fact. So I've gave her the impression Ive done this before. I know the basics of what to do, and we have even discussed about what things she likes to do.



She has told me she likes it fast and from behind. And likes felacio and more then willing to recipricate. Ive read some of the archives about sex to get a better idea of how to please her.



Can any of you give me some tips on how I could please her to the fullest extent with any of your knowledge or past experiences?



I would gladly appreciate the advice.

P.S I tried to write in the most grammatical and coherent form I could muster up while at work. Excuse any errors you may find.





[This message has been edited by Lobo (edited 03-24-2007).]

You say she likes to receive fellatio?

IT'S A FUCKING TRAP.

Is this going to be screwing, or love-making?

There is such a huge difference.

I think it's important to know the mindset behind the act.

btw...I can't imagine a girl being bothered by the fact that a guy is a virgin. I don't know why you hide that fact. I think it would be rather nice to be a guy's first...and having had enough experience to make it the best thing he's ever known.

Just tell her, if she really likes you she won't care

quote:She finally realized how much I care about her and wants a serious relationship as much as I do.

Well, I asked her If she wanted me to make love to her or fuck her. She told me once before she wanted a guy to make love to her and just not fuck her. She told me this a couple of months ago and it's stayed in my head. Her only response was ''I dont know, as long as you do it how I like it.''



I might be making her come across to totse like a whore, but she really isnt she's a nice genuwine girl.



I cant tell her Im a virgin not because of the fact that Im embarrased, more for the fact that she'll realized i lied to her. And all her other boyfreinds have done the same and i dont want to come across as that.



I genuwinely care about her you know? I even wake up at 6 in the morning to get ready to ride the subway with her.

It's too bad you lied.

But...there's a chance you will be splendid too. Especially if your heart is there.

Did she not ask you what you like? It seems odd to me if she didn't. Did you invent an answer for that too...with things you think you might like, but don't actually know for certain?

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 03-24-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Lobo:

I cant tell her Im a virgin not because of the fact that Im embarrased, more for the fact that she'll realize i lied to her

If she won't understand lying about that, you shouldn't bother anyway

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

It's too bad you lied.

But...there's a chance you will be splendid too. Especially if your heart is there.

Did she not ask you what you like? It seems odd to me if she didn't. Did you invent an answer for that too...with things you think you might like, but don't actually know for certain?



Well, I told her I like to give it from the back, which is not totally a lie because I would love doing that, because she has a tatoo on her lower back that really turns me on. She asked me If I want to be given head first, I said no because I wanted her body first. I said this because since Im a virgin I dont want to blow my first real load in that manner, you know?

My heart is really there, thats one of the reasons I think she's so turned on by it. She's felt most other guys only want her for her superficial reasons and Im not like that.

She's been with about 4 other guys before sexually, and I would just like to fuck her so good she'll literally be like ''WHOA, where have you been all my life.'' Those expectations might be high but I do have literally 7-8 hours to accomplish that.

And she doesnt mind doing it for that long either. My main objective is her pleasure then mine would come second. I want to give a good first sexual impression. Then she'll realize Im not only great in bed but also a great guy.

By the way when the day comes I'll keep totse updated on how things went.



[This message has been edited by Lobo (edited 03-24-2007).]

You are way overthinking things. Skipping school isn't that big of a deal.

Be honest with her about your being a virgin; many girls find that to be a challenge. Also, you're looking to start a relationship; don't start it with lies.

It will do you no good to hold expectations. There's nothing for you to benchmark.

1) Man up and addmit that she's your first.

2) There's this little thing called the clit. Find it, play with it, lick it for the first five hours, fuck for... oh, let's be realistic, five seconds 'till ya blow, virgin-boy, cuddle and talk for the last three.

3) Any time she shouts "OH GOD YES!" and slams your head painfully into whatever part of her you were nibbling, keep doing whatever the hell you just did.

4) If you can do it naturally, paying attention to parts of her body not between her legs or drooping from her chest oftentimes sets an enticing mood.

...and... uhh... most of the girls I've known really get off on horsie rides, but it could just be that we've been dating different girls. Bounce high, bounce fast...