Ok...Her vagina is too loose for me to have an orgasm.

Not every time we have sex, about half of the time, noticeably about ten minutes ago. We tried it, she orgasmed I didn't.

WTF am I supposed to tell her? Tighten that shit up?! Honestly. I really, really like this girl. I want our relationship to last.

But she's loose. Period. No way around it.

Advice please?

How do you know she's loose? Does her vagina look like the sleeve of a wizard? I remember with my ex, sometimes I'd have little to no sensation at all, and it would feel like, infact she was loose. But I know she wasn't.

Was she a slut in the past?

^^^Her vagina is "looser" than my past girlfriends', to the point that I'm having a hard tome feeling physical sensation.

She was not a "slut" in the past, but she has had several boyfriends whom she had lots of sex with.

Tilt her hips and legs to the side, one atop the other or crossed (Her upper body should still lie flat). It'll make her far tighter. Another option, try missionary style but hook her legs over your shoulders, keep her legs within shoulder width.

These two positions give a lot more friction and should make her tighter for you.

quote:Originally posted by Durell:



Tilt her hips and legs to the side, one atop the other or crossed (Her upper body should still lie flat). It'll make her far tighter. Another option, try missionary style but hook her legs over your shoulders, keep her legs within shoulder width.

These two positions give a lot more friction and should make her tighter for you.

OK thank you, those where good tips. Any other advice??

The greatest online sexual position guide of all time -- is now yours (http://www.fhm.com/kamasutra/).

There's more specific shit, but I don't have the time to write a short novel on tantra. The above link is rocking.

grow a bigger dick.

quote:Originally posted by Piggy:

grow a bigger dick.

LOL i was gonna post something like this but worded nicer.

How big are you? Are you sure its her?

I know what you mean though. Im pretty huge and there was times where my last girlfriend felt extreamly loose. HOWEVER that was just after i was slamming into her for a long ass time. The longer you go....The looser it gets.

Think about someone else when doing it.

I highly doubt it's her fault. Unless she's had children, it's unlikely she's loose.

quote:Originally posted by Kimness:

I highly doubt it's her fault. Unless she's had children, it's unlikely she's loose.

What makes you think that. Many girls are looser than average and many girls are tighter than average. If he says his girlfriend is loose, there's a good chance she actually is loose.

quote:Originally posted by Basik:

What makes you think that. Many girls are looser than average and many girls are tighter than average. If he says his girlfriend is loose, there's a good chance she actually is loose.

Do you have a vagina?!

I went through a slut stage, and I slept with this one guy and it scared the crap out of me because I could barely feel him inside me, even though his penis looked average sized. I thought I'd gotten loose and freaked out (And stopped slutting after that). One of his loser friends called me about a month afterwards making silly remarks about the size of the guy's penis and was telling me another girl said the same thing, it was just really long and thin.

The point is, of course vaginas vary, but it could just be him. Or maybe she's just so aroused and lubricated it's creating no friction and he just can't feel it. But vaginas don't get loose and floppy dammit. (Except of course after the hymen breaks, but that's only because it's covering the entrance, making it feel tighter...)

Okay I've just been told off for saying that girls can't have loose vaginas. It's just such an awful word. BIGGER THAN NORMAL vaginas!

Why don't you ask her to give you blowjobs. Try different positions. Etc etc.

Keegles

ftw

Stop using socks instead of a condoms.

Nah, more seriously, try different condoms and see which one doesn't kill your pleasure.

she's probably fucking some guy with a bigger dick behind your back.

quote:Originally posted by Kimness:

Do you have a vagina?!

Do you have more than one vagina out of the three billion or so on this planet? Some vaginas can be looser than others and there's plenty of testimony from plenty of guys who have experienced loose vaginas in girls who haven't given birth. It could be the guy, but it sounds like he's slept with girls before with no problem at all.

quote:Originally posted by Piggy:

grow a bigger dick.

I was thinking the same thing. Anyway, if she's too loose for you, maybe anal will do the trick.

Are you certain that she's "loose"? Could it be that she get more wet than what you're used to and is too slippery?

I remember a guy telling that once. We just stopped, I dried myself off a little bit, then carried on just fine after that.

Of course, he also wasn't the largest man I had ever been with either.

quote:Originally posted by Father Time:

I was thinking the same thing. Anyway, if she's too loose for you, maybe anal will do the trick.

It's about damn time.

I can't believe it took everyone so long to come to the obvious answer.

-Angus

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Some vaginas can be looser than others and there's plenty of testimony from plenty of guys who have experienced loose vaginas in girls who haven't given birth. It could be the guy, but it sounds like he's slept with girls before with no problem at all.

He also said:

quote:Not every time we have sex, about half of the time, noticeably about ten minutes ago. We tried it, she orgasmed I didn't.

Might that be influenced by hormones in a woman's cycle? I have noticed that sometimes I'm a little tighter than normal...which actually, I don't prefer because I do get a bit tender.

quote:Originally posted by Relax-Tonight:

I know what you mean though. Im pretty huge and there was times where my last girlfriend felt extreamly loose. HOWEVER that was just after i was slamming into her for a long ass time. The longer you go....The looser it gets.

If "The longer you go....The looser it gets" was true, then women would not get sore after long periods of sex. It's more likely that you decrease your sensitivity by being so aggressive.

quote:Originally posted by Basik:

What makes you think that. Many girls are looser than average and many girls are tighter than average. If he says his girlfriend is loose, there's a good chance she actually is loose.

I believe this statement to be erroneous.

I don't know but has anyone ever done a study to find the average tightness of a womans vagina? I don't know if using the terms "looser than average or tighter than average" is fair. You might mean looser than your previous fuck, or whatever. Vaginas don't come as a standard "this wide this tall this colour" kind of deal that boys seem to think. Every one is different just like your penises have different angles, and sizes.

Let's see...

1) Do her from behind while she has her legs crossed. I hear it tightens up after-birth sex pretty well.

2) Click every "increase your penis size" email you get.

3) Rectal birth control : choice of champions.

4) Leave her for her 2yo sister. You'll feel like a well-hung man all over again.

5) Workout sessions - when she can crush an unopened pop can with her PC, you'll feel that shit.

6) Fist her while you beat off.

7) Fist her, and beat off inside her.

8) Have her sit on you without going in and go clit-to-dick. Her body weight will keep the external vulvar tissue putting pressure on your dick. Rock back and forth a bit.

9) More rectal birth control.

10) Bring someone into the relationship. Bone her (or him) while she (or he) eats her out.

11) Go without 'till you spooge from the thought, even if you can't feel it.

...just a few thoughts.

quote:Originally posted by JoePedo:

Rectal birth control



Surely that's rather unnecessary...

when number 6) came along it just started becoming... excessive

Shove it up her ass, that'll be plenty tight.

quote:Originally posted by Durell:

The greatest online sexual position guide of all time -- is now yours (http://www.fhm.com/kamasutra/).

There's more specific shit, but I don't have the time to write a short novel on tantra. The above link is rocking.

i'm not sure that would help him, but daaaamnn fhm. way to put out something even a girl can agree is useful.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:



Surely that's rather unnecessary...



Damn. technicalvirgin.com has died, which just *ruined* my response... "I learned about it in school!"

Sodomy - God's plan for birth control!

quote:when number 6) came along it just started becoming... excessive

Yeah, sorry 'bout that. Should've probably moved 8 to 6 and cut it off there...

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[This message has been edited by clockwork_genius (edited 03-24-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by clockwork_genius:

in the event of a 'gusher' to suggest you broke her hymen. Again.



this may be the only funny thing you said but goddamn if it didn't conjure up images haha

Buttsecks.

/END THREAD

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Do you have more than one vagina out of the three billion or so on this planet? Some vaginas can be looser than others and there's plenty of testimony from plenty of guys who have experienced loose vaginas in girls who haven't given birth. It could be the guy, but it sounds like he's slept with girls before with no problem at all.

Yeah, but on the same note.. most people in this world believe in a god of some sort.. does that make them right? No.

Not saying there ISN'T a god.. just pointing out that 3 billion men claiming a chick is or isn't loose doesn't make them right.. they just have more people to back their claim.

quote:Originally posted by phmeworp:

Keegles

ftw

QFT Google keegles and get her to do that shit 24/7.



[This message has been edited by GrimNocturnal (edited 03-25-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by outcast234:

Yeah, but on the same note.. most people in this world believe in a god of some sort.. does that make them right? No.

Not saying there ISN'T a god.. just pointing out that 3 billion men claiming a chick is or isn't loose doesn't make them right.. they just have more people to back their claim.

I think we hit a sensitive note. The pussy can get stretched out. You use it alot its going to get worn out. I've banged girls that have caverns and some girls so tight i could barley get it in.

I don't understand why you people are debated on whether or not girls' vaginas can "loosen up". I told you guys that it is loose, looser than most girls I've fucked. Why can't you just believe me?

So, you only orgasm half the time. What's the difference between those times and the times you can't? Are you doing something differently? Drinking? Drugs? Fucking too vigorously?

Think about what makes that difference for you.