Just here to offer some tips to anybody who has trouble conversing with the opposite sex. Im not some sexual guru but I found that little things can be quite important.

opposites attract: i find this to be untrue in most cases. Most of the time, people are attracted to each other because of their common interests. Even one interest you both deem important can push aside all the differences between the two of you.

Also, i found that if you pay attention to people, most are attracted to others who are like them. If they they talk in a loud tone, you should talk loudly. If the person is soft spoken and has a low voice, they will definitely be more comfortable if you talk in a low tone.

I guess people subconsciously observe gestures, tone, and body language and thats why you find yourself more comfortable speaking to particular people. What im basically saying is that if you want to make the opposite sex (or the same sex..wtver) comfortable or even attracted to you, match their body language and tone.

Ask questions,,most of the time, to keep a conversation going for me i ask questions and talk the least(for guys btw) and don't be afraid to tease or joke around

Although it is important to be yourself, there is some situations where this info can help you out. But if not or heard all this shit already.

forget all i said

Also if you have any advice/observations, share them with me or flame me whatever im high and drunk

quote:Originally posted by mr.4our2wenty:

whatever im high and drunk

I hate people that put that at the end of their posts. You're obviously not very drunk if you can write that coherently. I can't even hit the right keys when I'm drunk.

Also giving advice when it hasn't been requested will not win you any friends.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I hate people that put that at the end of their posts. You're obviously not very drunk if you can write that coherently. I can't even hit the right keys when I'm drunk.

Also giving advice when it hasn't been requested will not win you any friends.

You just must not be a very function drunk. I type pretty well.

But I agree. It is sort of a cop out. Like, hey, I'm not responsible for my stupid comments, I'm drunk!

-F☺rd

I can summarise

"Have balls"

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

You just must not be a very function drunk. I type pretty well.

But I agree. It is sort of a cop out. Like, hey, I'm not responsible for my stupid comments, I'm drunk!

-F☺rd

Yeah, that's what I meant. But as for not being a functional drunk, I'm one of those people that only count legless as drunk. Everything else is tipsy.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I hate people that put that at the end of their posts. You're obviously not very drunk if you can write that coherently. I can't even hit the right keys when I'm drunk.

Also giving advice when it hasn't been requested will not win you any friends.

well i have firefox spellcheck, and i know if i would have in an incoherent way you would have said fucking paragraphs bitch/tldr/stfu etc...

And well im not drunk off my ass, if i was i would probably not be on the internet.

quote:Originally posted by mr.4our2wenty:



And well im not drunk off my ass, if i was i would probably not be on the internet.

i'd like to venture a guess that if you were that drunk, you'd be curled up in a corner sobbing.

you seem like that kind of guy, MISTER four twenty.

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

i'd like to venture a guess that if you were that drunk, you'd be curled up in a corner sobbing.

you seem like that kind of guy, MISTER four twenty.

ahhaha.... i dont know what you mean but you just gave me a mental image of me actually doing that

There's already an article here on &totse (not the community) that says the same exact thing.

I approve this massage.

Yes, I typed that correctly.

quote:Originally posted by mr.4our2wenty:

Also if you have any advice/observations, share them with me or flame me whatever im high and drunk

Hi I'm too much of a unconfident pussy to stand behind the guide I just wrote, please take my words seriously though

What are you so fucking afraid of? Being wrong? Ha, good opinions are formed by challenging them

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

Hi I'm too much of a unconfident pussy to stand behind the guide I just wrote, please take my words seriously though

What are you so fucking afraid of? Being wrong? Ha, good opinions are formed by challenging them

Haha i know what you mean but in all seriousness it wasn't really my intention to come out sounding this way. It would be pretty ironic and silly to think a person giving advice on this topic would be an little pussy shit, don't you think..

quote:Originally posted by mr.4our2wenty:

Haha i know what you mean but in all seriousness it wasn't really my intention to come out sounding this way. It would be pretty ironic and silly to think a person giving advice on this topic would be an little pussy shit, don't you think..

Good guide though. Nice job.

-F☺rd

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

Good guide though. Nice job.

-F☺rd

Why thank you Ford