A girl, that I have liked for pretty much the past year (and she's known), and I hooked up on St. Patty's Day and then a couple days after... but now she's being really distant... any ideas as to what the problem may be, or am I just being over sensative and paranoid?

Thanks.

Was I the only one hoping for some H4Wt Necro sex?!

yes Jack..you were/are.

If she is being cold..say fuck here and find another chick that ain't cold

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Was I the only one hoping for some H4Wt Necro sex?!

not gonna lie, I was disappointed by the distinct lack of maggots, ribs and formaldehyde.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Was I the only one hoping for some H4Wt Necro sex?!

No.

Give it a while. Don't be overly attentive but show you're still interested. I have a feeling though that maybe she might've gotten caught up in the excitement of hooking up but has now talked to her friends/thought more about it/something and has decided that she's really not interested. I don't know though, that was just my first thought.

Good luck with her though

she probably just feels kind of bad about doing it just keep talking to her let her know that you still want to talk

quote:Originally posted by prettypoems:

Give it a while. Don't be overly attentive but show you're still interested. I have a feeling though that maybe she might've gotten caught up in the excitement of hooking up but has now talked to her friends/thought more about it/something and has decided that she's really not interested. I don't know though, that was just my first thought.

Good luck with her though

Thanks I'm giving space... but maybe too much?? I call maybe once a day max.

We used to text a lot, but stopped b/c of phone bills. We'll just make plans when we chill at night, and I'll call her to meet up, and she doesn't answer... it confuses me.

I think I maybe got it all worked out

Calling once a day is probably too much. Space it out a little.

Realistically, though, two things stop a relationship from happening.

- The boy doesn't like the girl.

- The girl doesn't like the boy.

And that's pretty much it. So if she KNOWS you like her, and is being cold, you might wanna start looking around for something else.

usually paranoia man.

actually thats always the case, because it takes quite some time for a girl to lose interest if she likes you.. (around a week or two)

it usually takes the same time for a girl to get a hint that you dont like her anymore.

just DON'T swarm her.. give it a few days or wait till next weekend and see if she wants to chill, but offer something GOOD that she cant turn down.

Best of luck to you my friend, I am unfortunately going thought the exact same thing now.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Was I the only one hoping for some H4Wt Necro sex?!

This thread sucks without it.

quote:Originally posted by Wandering:

Best of luck to you my friend, I am unfortunately going thought the exact same thing now.

Bum town sorry dude. It sucks hard.

It's possible, despite your feelings, that she was just in it for a hookup.

Just throwing it out there.