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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-03-22, 07:19
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Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Girls, What emotions do you go through when you hear a guy does drugs?
Ive herd from a buddies girlfriend that occasionally girls find the men Mysterious. I have also herd the opposite however.
Im not talking about a guy you walk into a conversation with and hes saying..."OOO YA MAN!! I JUST RAILED 5 FATTY LINES and GET THE NEEDLE READY FOR SOME SPEED!!!"
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Im talking more along the lines of if you find out the guy takes psychedelics such as mushrooms....or E...Or something. How do you view a man after you know hes done or tried drugs?
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#2
 2007-03-22, 07:29
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
My perception of him would not be altered, and I hope any guy would extend me the same kind of attitude.
So long as I or the guy wasn't addicted and suffering as a result. At that point, relationships can struggle.
[This message has been edited by Flock (edited 03-22-2007).]
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#3
 2007-03-22, 09:51
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Call me narrow minded, but I would never date a girl who does drugs.
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#4
 2007-03-22, 09:56
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Ouster:
Call me narrow minded, but I would never date a girl who does drugs.
why?
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#5
 2007-03-22, 09:57
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I have nothing against drugs and I've dated people who've been on them but if any guy would let it take over his life and ruin the relationship, he's got a pretty weak will. Reliance on any substance generally shows people's weaknesses.
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#6
 2007-03-22, 10:01
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Relax-Tonight:
why?
Because druggie bitches stab you in the back.
I've done my fair share of drugs and probably will continue to do so, but I've met very few druggie bitches that wouldn't sell you out of fuck another fella for either more drugs or because he has a higher status than you, like a dealer.
They're just very fickle and have no conviction, which is probably why they get into drugs in the first place.
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#7
 2007-03-22, 11:32
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:
Because druggie bitches stab you in the back.
I've done my fair share of drugs and probably will continue to do so, but I've met very few druggie bitches that wouldn't sell you out of fuck another fella for either more drugs or because he has a higher status than you, like a dealer.
They're just very fickle and have no conviction, which is probably why they get into drugs in the first place.
well me and my girlfriend both do drugs. i'm more into the hallucinogens/entheogens, while she's more into stuff like coke. the coke bugs me kinda, just because we both know she's addicted, but it's not really having a negative effect on her, so it's not a big deal. she's also interested in hallucinogens to some extent, so i've introduced her to some things, and we're planning on doing acid together when i visit her in a few weeks.
i'd have a hard time dating someone who didn't do drugs. what's the point if you can't chill together with a big blunt?
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#8
 2007-03-22, 11:37
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Doesn't bother me, as long as they're not a junkie, their priorities are messed up.
I bet I know what Euda will say to this post.. 
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#9
 2007-03-22, 11:44
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:
Because druggie bitches stab you in the back.
This is true. Not quite how I would have stated it, but it's true.
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#10
 2007-03-22, 12:02
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Relax-Tonight:
why?
I...don't really know. Maybe because it goes against my morals, or because where I used to live nobody ever did drugs.
I guess I'd rather have a clean girl who spent the money on me 
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#11
 2007-03-22, 12:54
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:
Because druggie bitches stab you in the back.
I've done my fair share of drugs and probably will continue to do so, but I've met very few druggie bitches that wouldn't sell you out of fuck another fella for either more drugs or because he has a higher status than you, like a dealer.
They're just very fickle and have no conviction, which is probably why they get into drugs in the first place.
So true. I know a girl who was going out with a comparitively ugly guy with no prospects, for the simple reason that he provided her with lots of drugs. She is the fussiest bitch around but she went out with him for years. Way to long.
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#12
 2007-03-22, 13:47
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I like girls I can get high with.
They'e keepers.
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#13
 2007-03-22, 13:52
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I like to be the guy
that takes a girls virginity
the first time shes high.
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#14
 2007-03-22, 15:26
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:
what's the point if you can't chill together with a big blunt?
True. But a big blunt once in a while is quite a bit different that snuffing down lines of coke.
Perhaps Everlast said it best, "man the hell with the cash cause that ain't the point. We used to sit around and laugh after smoking a joint. We used to watch TV, and eat chicken wings, we had tickle fights, we did the wild thing. Now I'm all alone, up in my room, this house is feeling empty. We used to talk about being bride and groom, now we ain't even friendly."
Alright, maybe it doesn't apply after all, but I've been waiting for yearsto bust out those lyrics.
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#15
 2007-03-22, 18:16
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I find men who do drugs more attractive than those who don't. Drug users are usually way more open minded than non drug users. There's so many fuckers out there who drink and smoke, but then claim that all drugs are evil...
I actually wish my boyfriend did more drugs. He's just a stoner though. But when I think of all the crazy coke sex we could have...But he wont do coke. I would also really like to do E with him, but he wont do that either. And we did mushrooms together recently, but he said it was his last time. So I'll never get to experience mushroom sex either. 
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#16
 2007-03-22, 19:16
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
mushroom sex
sounds... interesting.
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#17
 2007-03-22, 19:22
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Quote:
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
mushroom sex
sounds... interesting.
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#18
 2007-03-22, 20:16
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Lazarus:
sounds... interesting.
I know, hey? What would an orgasm feel like if you were on mushrooms or acid? I imagine it could be very intense...
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#19
 2007-03-22, 20:20
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
It doesn't bother me. My boyfriend and I both smoke pot and he's done a few other things besides. I don't have a problem with it, though he's promised me he'll never do Ecstasy because of a heart condition he has.
Of course it depends on the way they present their drug use. Guys that brag about it or do it for attention aren't attractive. I find guys that know what they're doing and are low-key about it much more interesting.
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#20
 2007-03-22, 20:45
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Don't even get me fucking started.
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#21
 2007-03-22, 21:01
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
I find men who do drugs more attractive than those who don't.
Agreed.
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#22
 2007-03-22, 22:12
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
a while ago a chick left me because i called her when i was on a shit ton of benzos, and the next day she was all distant and shit, and then we broke up. it was ghey and she saw my dug use as a flaw.
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#23
 2007-03-22, 22:23
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I constantly talk\think about drugs. Its my life. If a girl doesn't want to be with me because of that then I would be wasting my time with her anyway. We just wouldn't be compatible.
[This message has been edited by grungekid (edited 03-22-2007).]
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#24
 2007-03-23, 03:23
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
^^ grungekid has a point. While I wouldn't say drugs are my life(they definitely aren't) they are definitely part of my lifestyle and if a girl I'm with can't handle that then things just aren't going to work out.
Additionally, I would want a girl I could roll with. Rolling with people you care about like good friends, girlfriends, etc is just amazing and I would want someone I'm with to be apart of that amazing time
And hey sickboy, I do coke, E, and acid and I've been meaning to try shrooms. And I live in South Florida, it's a great vacation spot  (I had too, I know I'm not gonna score with this I just wanted to have some fun with it)
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#25
 2007-03-23, 03:27
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Cloaked Dagger:
Additionally, I would want a girl I could roll with. Rolling with people you care about like good friends, girlfriends, etc is just amazing and I would want someone I'm with to be apart of that amazing time
duuude the only time i've done E was with my girlfriend, about a week after we met, way before we started going out. we had been making out for pretty much 24 hours straight, then we stopped to get the E, then spent the whole day rolling together and talking and shit.
i would have to call that the best day i've had so far.
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#26
 2007-03-23, 04:14
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:
duuude the only time i've done E was with my girlfriend, about a week after we met, way before we started going out. we had been making out for pretty much 24 hours straight, then we stopped to get the E, then spent the whole day rolling together and talking and shit.
i would have to call that the best day i've had so far.
Nice. I couldn't imagine a better first experiance with MDMA. Just be careful about falling for someone on the stuff because you can fall for nearly anyone. Not saying don't do it, just be careful to make sure that you still feel the same way after you both sober up.
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#27
 2007-03-23, 04:18
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
It depends. I wouldn't let it alter my opinion of a girl. I've done my fair share of drugs... but I'd prefer to be without them for now.
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#28
 2007-03-23, 04:23
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
i probably wouldn't date a guy who did, but that's just me. i have a completely different perception of and opposition to drugs than most people i know.
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#29
 2007-03-23, 04:48
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:
i probably wouldn't date a guy who did, but that's just me. i have a completely different perception of and opposition to drugs than most people i know.
Which is why i pitty you. You will never get to experiance the lands i go to. The people I meet. The Feelings that exist only in the world of drugs. And you will NEVER experiance them and for all you know......You are loosing the best husband of your life.
Im not talking about how your missing out on a meth addicted husband. However if you find yourself a man/girl who occasionally uses E. Or drugs like Mushrooms, You might just have the most interesting partner you will ever have.
Now go back to dare rookie
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#30
 2007-03-23, 04:56
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Relax-Tonight:
Which is why i pitty you. You will never get to experiance the lands i go to. The people I meet. The Feelings that exist only in the world of drugs. And you will NEVER experiance them and for all you know......You are loosing the best husband of your life.
Im not talking about how your missing out on a meth addicted husband. However if you find yourself a man/girl who occasionally uses E. Or drugs like Mushrooms, You might just have the most interesting partner you will ever have.
Now go back to dare rookie
why would i date someone only to constantly be on their case about something? why would i choose to be with someone knowing that there would always be that issue for us to fight about over and over and over again? i can't help the way i am. i honestly can't help feeling this way. so why would i choose to put both of us through that? i highly doubt i'm missing out. i don't look at drugs the same way you do, so how am i missing out on anything? i have a fine time with my sober life, thanks. i don't believe i said anything derogatory towards users, i didn't even say that many people agreed with me. in fact i'd say the majority don't. but that's the way it is.
what are you, 12? if you come at someone all defensive and "go back to dare" because they state their opinion without accusing anyone of anything...maybe you need to go smoke up and chill out.
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#31
 2007-03-23, 05:39
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
I find men who do drugs more attractive
You must be out of your fucking mind. Drugs FAIL. People who do drugs FAIL. Ive seen it so many fucking times, time and time again, and people who do drugs never seem to understand.. THEY ARE ILLEGAL FOR GOOD REASONS.
Todays fucked up society can barely handle relationships in a clean mind, let alone a mind influenced by narcotics.
I grew up with drugs in my house. I have a major in drug psychology. I will never do drugs. I will never date a girl who does or ever has done drugs. And I die a little inside whenever I hear a drugged up little cocksucker flapping his trap about how theres nothing wrong with drugs.
You people make me want to vomit.
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#32
 2007-03-23, 07:22
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
You'd have to hold a gun to my head to make me do E. I like not being depressed for the rest of my life, thank you very much.
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#33
 2007-03-23, 07:40
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by pyroman5000:
You must be out of your fucking mind. Drugs FAIL. People who do drugs FAIL. Ive seen it so many fucking times, time and time again, and people who do drugs never seem to understand.. THEY ARE ILLEGAL FOR GOOD REASONS.
Todays fucked up society can barely handle relationships in a clean mind, let alone a mind influenced by narcotics.
I grew up with drugs in my house. I have a major in drug psychology. I will never do drugs. I will never date a girl who does or ever has done drugs. And I die a little inside whenever I hear a drugged up little cocksucker flapping his trap about how theres nothing wrong with drugs.
You people make me want to vomit.
1) What have you accomplished in your life?
2) What has the famous brewer of hemp beer, George Washington accomplished in his life?
Now... I'll gladly give you credit that one can find the opposite. It's pretty easy to find one person who used some substance once and failed, and one person who's straightedge and is successful.
It's also possible to find a mob of straightedges who failed in life, and a wealth of occasional drug users who are quite successful.
On a larger scale, the largest and most technologically advanced empire in the new world - the combined mazatec nations of the incan, mayan, and aztec empires - tended to have a history and theology which revolved around cocaine, psilocybin, salvia, and various lysergic acid derivatives. They seemed to outpace their sober neighbors quite well.
Meanwhile, the "straightedge" US-dominated ruling class you seem to worship regularly consumes a wide array of bizzare narcotics, stimulants, cannabinoids, and the like. GABA antagonists I wouldn't touch (again) with a ten foot pole. Propenylbenzene-derived stimulants are just "a light snack." Tight-conformation CB1/CB2 agonists are just a garnish or an afternoon pick-me-up in this supposedly "drug-free" society you worship.
When is a drug not an "evil drug" - when one eats it for deliberate effect, having studied its actions, on rare occasions... or when one just shovels it down one's throat without even thinking about it?
Perhaps you should consider that there is at least a greater possibility than you had prior acknowledged that everything you know is wrong. 'n incidentally, I'm guessing that, like most "straightedge" types... you do a *lot* of drugs I wouldn't touch.
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#34
 2007-03-23, 07:47
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
The real "straightedge" types here in the US despise the ruling class just as much as the druggies. If not more so.
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#35
 2007-03-23, 07:59
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Ive never done drugs.
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#36
 2007-03-23, 08:03
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Don't even get me fucking started.
I see what u mean there o_o
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#37
 2007-03-23, 08:04
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
well, I'm a guy but I'm answering this thread anyway, you pricks.
If a girl wants to smoke up or even do shit like shrooms or acid in a safe environment with people she trusts (ie not in nightclubs full of dodgy guys) I'm not bothered.
Drinking though...I dunno...I won't lie, I definitely have issues with drunk girls due to growing up with a very alcoholic mother. I suppose I wouldn't mind if she drinks away from me and doesn't talk to me. Same rules as above apply though.
I dunno. Girls and any drugs (alcohol included) and certain social situations is bad news to me.
Oh and as for tobacco, fuck no. I have (usually dormant), and I don't want to have it triggered everytime I kiss a girl.
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#38
 2007-03-23, 08:55
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I smoke weed and very occasionally take E, but my boyfriend does neither, and I kind of like it this way. Although I really would like to get stoned with him, I understand it doesn't do anything for him, and he doesn't mind me being stoned around him, so it's not a problem for us. He's already got too mellow of a personality to take drugs as well I think, he'd probably just fall asleep. Most of my past boyfriends have all smoked up with me, and that was cool too, but I like what I've got going now.
We've got our own separate ways to get wasted, but we still have fun together.
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#39
 2007-03-23, 11:16
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
People who smoke drugs are weak. Pure and simple. If you take drugs at least admit that you are too weak to deal with life.
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#40
 2007-03-23, 11:19
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
^ I'm too weak to deal with what my life has become.
...Hmm. I don't feel any better.
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#41
 2007-03-23, 11:32
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Garrett:
People who smoke drugs are weak. Pure and simple. If you take drugs at least admit that you are too weak to deal with life.
at times, i dont feel like dealing with whatever is going on in my life. if you wish, i will say it's because i'm "too weak." On the other hand, I have a way to relax for a few hours before i face my problems, while you just stress out and bother those around you.
I'm assuming on that last point, you just seem like the kind of uptight little bitch who would bother people.
Man, i had the best LSA trip last saturday. Went snowboarding, tripped hard on the bus ride up there, had the best conversation with one of my friends, who was sober at the time.
btw: "smoke drugs" hahahaha
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#42
 2007-03-23, 11:46
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I'd flip out and open a can of crazy on a girl who does coke, meth or speed.
All other drugs it depends on who she's with and her setting.
She can do absolutely ANY drug, providing it's with me  . But I can do any drug I want, any time, any where. Why? Because I have more self control than most chicks when it comes to fucking up with the opposite sex. Girls suck teh nutz at self control.
I love getting fucked up with my girl, she can do any drug she wants around me.
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#43
 2007-03-23, 12:06
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by arquin:
I'd flip out and open a can of crazy on a girl who does coke, meth or speed.
All other drugs it depends on who she's with and her setting.
She can do absolutely ANY drug, providing it's with me  . But I can do any drug I want, any time, any where. Why? Because I have more self control than most chicks when it comes to fucking up with the opposite sex. Girls suck teh nutz at self control.
I love getting fucked up with my girl, she can do any drug she wants around me.
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#44
 2007-03-23, 14:49
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quote:Originally posted by Garrett:
People who smoke drugs are weak. Pure and simple. If you take drugs at least admit that you are too weak to deal with life.
Couldnt have said it better myself. This is why the human race fails. Perpetually searching for the easy way out of things.
And that assclown above who asked me 'what did you accomplish in your life' before going off on some random bullshit that doesnt matter, it would take all day to explain how I made something of myself after rebuilding the shattered life I grew up with. So fuck you.
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#45
 2007-03-23, 15:06
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by shiva:
I see what u mean there o_o
Heh, I think you're the only one that does.
quote:You must be out of your fucking mind.
Sounds like somebody has some issues.
quote:Drugs FAIL. People who do drugs FAIL.
Which ones? All of them?
quote:Ive seen it so many fucking times, time and time again, and people who do drugs never seem to understand.. THEY ARE ILLEGAL FOR GOOD REASONS.
No, actually, they're not. (http://nihilizo.blogspot.com/2006/09/drug-war-and-its-roots-in-american.html)
quote:Todays fucked up society can barely handle relationships in a clean mind, let alone a mind influenced by narcotics.
What is a "clean mind"? Your brain is constantly under the influence of chemicals. By controlling your own brain chemistry, you can gain further control over yourself.
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I grew up with drugs in my house.
Oh, boo-fucking-hoo. My Dad was a meth addict(and bipolar) and could rarely hold down a job, became homeless, went to jail, apparently ODed and died. My Mom was an alcoholic throughout most of my early childhood and a lot of fucked up shit happened. Same thing with my Grandpa, who also lived with me.
So fucking WHAT? I've been in car accidents before, but I still drive a car. I'm just that much more careful because I've seen how things can end up. Drugs are merely tools.
quote:I have a major in drug psychology.
WTF is "drug psychology"? Do you ask how heroin is feeling today?
quote:I will never do drugs.
Heh, newsflash, kid, YOU ALREADY HAVE.
quote:I will never date a girl who does or ever has done drugs.
More for me.
quote:And I die a little inside whenever I hear a drugged up little cocksucker flapping his trap about how theres nothing wrong with drugs.
I suggest you leave &T before your family and friends have to put you six feet under.
quote:You people make me want to vomit.
You might want to get that checked out. Sounds like an eating disorder to me.
quote:You'd have to hold a gun to my head to make me do E. I like not being depressed for the rest of my life, thank you very much.
Someone is a bit ignorant...
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#46
 2007-03-23, 16:30
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
^^Haha!
I was going to rip into him too, but it looks like you got to it before me. And did a much better job than I would have, lol.
Alcohol and cigarettes kill like a million times more people a year than all other illicit substances put together. I hate how people just ignore this fact, and just go along with everything the government says.
Government: "All drugs are bad, except of course for alcohol and cigarettes because we like these."
Idiot: "Duh, okay!"
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#47
 2007-03-23, 17:23
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
"Drug use" isn't an absolute value. And really, you can't even go by what drugs they do.
I used to date a chick who smoked a ton of pot. Daily smoker, definitely. She was cool and all, and we had a lot of fun, but she was completely indecisive and would rather simply avoid a problem than deal with it. And when "a problem" = "your relationship," there's a storm brewin'. I just don't want to put up with that shit.
And before anybody gets on my nuts about how pot is harmless and actually beneficial and will make you a better, nicer person - fuck off. In my experience, anybody who couldn't turn down a blunt ended up being so lazy as to be discourteous, disrespectful, and ultimately hurtful. I don't take that shit from friends OR girlfriends, end of story.
On the other hand, I've got a date with a cool chick tonight who's cute, fun, funny, and smart as a whip - but what really made me sit up and take notice is when we were chilling and somebody passed her the J, and she said "Naw, I gotta drive later." Girls with self-control have a lot less trouble earning my respect.
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#48
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
It doesn't worry me if a girl takes drugs or not. In the end it kinda takes a weight off my shoulders, because I do and it doesn't make it awkward when you tell her that "you and the boys are going out on the meth one night".
Drug usage aside, I'm more worried about a chick finding me more unattractive because I'm a smoker.
I guess the positive is if they can put up with constant smoking they can put up with occasional drug use.
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#49
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
My boyfriend and I have quite a mutual understanding of what would happen if either of us did aanything "harder" than a little pot:
I'd kill him, or vice versa :]
i just don't liiiike it, i don't care if people think that's closed minded or whatever
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#50
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by StillArmedStillAngry:
On the other hand, I've got a date with a cool chick tonight who's cute, fun, funny, and smart as a whip - but what really made me sit up and take notice is when we were chilling and somebody passed her the J, and she said "Naw, I gotta drive later." Girls with self-control have a lot less trouble earning my respect.
heh... i tried to pass up the bowl cause i knew i had to pick up my friend in like 20 minutes, and then after that i was free to get stoned as hell all day... my girlfriend wouldn't let me pass it on... so i hit it the next 5 or 6 rounds and thats when i learned how to drive stickshift stoned.
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#51
 2007-03-23, 19:05
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
More and more I'm feeling myself slip into a stoner lifestyle. And I don't like it. But I don't know how to stop.
So, yeah, I'm weak. I don't like it. But I feel a little better knowing that very few things actually matter, and I can accept my fate, whatever that may be.
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#52
 2007-03-23, 19:12
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quote:Originally posted by ApocalypsePlease:
More and more I'm feeling myself slip into a stoner lifestyle. And I don't like it. But I don't know how to stop.
So, yeah, I'm weak. I don't like it. But I feel a little better knowing that very few things actually matter, and I can accept my fate, whatever that may be.
I've been there. I didn't think i'd ever stop. And then one day i didn't feel like smoking for a while, so i stopped for about 6 months. then one day i wanted to smoke, so i smoked. stopped for a few more months. now i smoke occasionally, and i'm planning on going back to that stoner lifestyle you speak of when i move back to hawaii.
basically, it's not that bad a thing, and if you really wanted to stop, you'd have no problem.
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#53
 2007-03-23, 21:13
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Isobutane:
i just don't liiiike it, i don't care if people think that's closed minded or whatever
Did that make anyone else cringe?
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#54
 2007-03-23, 22:11
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by ApocalypsePlease:
More and more I'm feeling myself slip into a stoner lifestyle. And I don't like it. But I don't know how to stop.
Just put the pipe down, dude. In a day or so you'll be so bored that books look like a riot.
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Fucking sterotypes, government propaganda, close minded people(on both sides though honestly I'm seeing a lot more closed mindedness on the "drugs are bad" side, unsurprisingly), can't we all just get along?
I don't have a problem with people who choose not to use certain(read illegal) drugs for whatever reason. I don't have a problem with people who choose not to use any drugs for whatever reason, and actually would have a lot of respect for them if I could actually think of one of said people but that is near impossible so I can't think of anyone who's never even had so much of a cup of coffee(because caffine is in fact a drug any way you cut it) before. I don't have a problem with people who use every drug under the sun either as long as they maintain some self-control. What I do have a problem with is when people look down on somebody based soley on the fact of weither or not that have/do use drugs.
And pyroman5000 people like you make me want to vomit so the feeling is mutual. How about we just agree to disagree and let each other go our seprate ways? Of course I don't exactly have that option since your kind try to force their opinion on me at gunpoint! Oh, you've never pointed a gun at me before? Well the cops hired by the politicians that made drugs laws trying to gain the votes of your kind have! Rest assured I don't intend to allow a second time to go unresponded to as the deadly threat it is, if there's a next time I intend to respond in kind.
And to all of you: FUCK OFF! I'm going to live free weither you like it or not!
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I am done with this thread now that it has degernated to the point that is has. This thread wasn't supposed to be an arguement about weither or not "drugs are bad."
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#56
 2007-03-23, 22:39
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I extremely rarely even drink coffee or alcohol, and I've never smoked a cigarette.
COULD I BE ANY LESS HYPOCRITICAL!??! 
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 2007-03-23, 22:56
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I tell all my girlfriends before we get serious: If I ever hurt you in any way or do something wrong to you in any way as a direct result of drug use, tell me, and I will quit.
They just *love* that, and since I'm such a responsible user, it never comes back to bite me in the ass.
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 2007-03-24, 01:52
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Its so funny when people think doing drugs is 'living free'
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#59
 2007-03-24, 04:11
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quote:Originally posted by pyroman5000:
Its so funny when people think doing drugs is 'living free'
says "pyroman5000"
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#60
 2007-03-24, 05:08
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by pyroman5000:
Its so funny when people think doing drugs is 'living free'
In and of itself it isn't, however no single thing in and of itself is "living free." Look at the wording, "living free" it's your entire life you must be free in or you aren't really living free.
I apply the same ideas to all other aspects of my life. Don't like me having guns? Tough, deal with it or try to force your views on me and be shot at. Don't like me saying that controversial thing? Deal with it or be shot at. Don't like me believing that religion(if I actually had one, I'm undecided atm)? Deal with it or be shot at. Don't like me being in that relationship? Deal with it or be shot at. Don't like me doing whatever it is I'm doing that you don't want me to do? Deal with it or be shot at.
I don't force my views on anyone else, I let everyone live the way they want. That doesn't mean I have to agree with it, doesn't mean I have to like it, but as long as they aren't hurting anyone else I realize it isn't my place to force them to do otherwise. I expect the same though, if I'm not hurting anyone else you have no right to try and force your views on me. I'm not saying you have to agree with my views, I'm not saying you have to like what I'm doing, and I'm not even saying you don't have a right to speak your mind reguarding your disapproval and advice me otherwise, but ultimately it is my choice to make and my right to do so and you have no right to attempt to use force to get me to do otherwise.
These are my views, deal with them. Or you could try and force a different set of views on me with threats of violence or imprisonment and be shot at.
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#61
 2007-03-24, 08:57
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
I agree with such views.
"Live and let live"
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#62
 2007-03-24, 11:44
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
As an ex-junky I can tell you that selling coke gets tons of hot chicks to drop their pants. I'm away from that now and tons of hot chicks will drop their pants if you have a good job, nice car and domicile. Coke girls are sluts so I stay away from them.
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#63
 2007-03-24, 12:03
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
"Live and let die"
is a good motto for those of us who live the lifestyle however free we may be.
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#64
 2007-03-24, 16:19
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Hey, Cloaked Dagger - get fucked. Whiny, self-serving pricks like you are why I hesitate to mention my weekend marijuana use in polite company. Look at this bullshit, fer crissakes:
quote:Fucking sterotypes, government propaganda, close minded people(on both sides though honestly I'm seeing a lot more closed mindedness on the "drugs are bad" side, unsurprisingly), can't we all just get along?
I like how your mouthy little rant ends with "can't we all get along?" - that pretty much sums up everything wrong with youth culture in the west today.
"Stereotypes, government propaganda" - what the fuck are you talking about? Every stereotype holds a grain of truth to it, and if you haven't known quite a few lazy-bitch stoners of psychotic tweakers in your day, you're either a liar or not paying attention. As to "government propaganda," thanks for trotting out the same bullshit excuse that's always kicked around in BLTC. The biggest negative effect of government drug propaganda (which is, in fact, startlingly inaccurate and even mendacious) is that it gives people an out. You get this train of thought:
1) The government lies.
2) The government says drugs are bad.
3) Ergo, drugs must not be bad. Let's snort coke.
I mean, what the fuck? You've never noticed any negative side effects from drug use? EVER? Hilarious bullshit denial, you ask me.
"Dude, drugs don't affect me. That's government propaganda."
"Okay... well, are you moving out of your mom's basement any time soon?"
"Shh, Aqua Teen Hunger Force is on."
Keep fiddling while Rome burns, R-tards.
I caution against overindulgence in pot and coke and shit for the same reason I caution against overindulgence in television, iPods, World of Warcraft and so on. Reality is actually a lot of fun, if you stop trying to avoid it. Everyone in this country, from the stoners to the meth-heads to the douchebag rich kids with $40,000 gaming rigs, is terrified of getting bored - not realizing that being bored is a good sign you should probably be doing something to somehow better yourself.
Way to "live free," douche. Cut your little Renegade-of-Funk spiel - it's the same bullshit defense mechanism as every other punkass.
quote:I am done with this thread now that it has degernated to the point that is has.
First of all, it's "degenerated." Second of all, I love how that lasted less than a day. Way to take the high road.
quote:This thread wasn't supposed to be an arguement about weither or not "drugs are bad.
Oh, shut the fuck up. The thread is about "girls and drugs." That obviously depends on whether or not drugs are generally good or generally bad.
And I just love how you have to play strictly with discrete categories. Wise up - drugs are neither good nor bad. They, like all things, have good effects and bad effects. Weed makes everything funny and kinda intense, but it also leaves me with a bored feeling the next day. Coffee wakes me up and gets me moving, but it also makes me jittery if I have too much. Booze had the power to make me "three-drink charming," but it also took me along to "twelve-drink retarded." You look at the good, you look at the bad, and you find what offers you the best quality of life. And if you think being fucked up all the time genuinely offers you the best quality of life, then your Actual Reality must be pretty fucking terrifying - and whatever you use becomes a crutch.
Lastly, drop the "forcing me around at gunpoint" bullshit, yet another example of how government tyranny has given people an unexpected chance to get pissy and self-righteous. The government points the gun at you, dumbass, not me. I didn't point a gun at you, or threaten imprisonment, or even vote for any politicians who'd like to do the above. Everyone in this thread did one thing - offered their opinion.
But that, of course, really sticks in your ass. Way to "live free," tough guy - offer others the same courtesy you expect.
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#65
 2007-03-24, 16:49
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by StillArmedStillAngry:
<intelligent thought out post saving me alot of typing>
Thank you. And thanks rizzo from page 1. There are way too many dumasses in this thread. BTW, that whole drug users are weak argument is retarded. Your thinking of the borederline suicidal lazy pathetic druggies that live with their parents. Not every drug user is like that. Drugs users are a very diverse group.
Sigmund Freud, the most influential psychologist in Western history loved cocaine. Even wrote a book on it. Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, author of Sherlock Holmes, used cocaine as well. Edgar Allen Poe used opium. Alexandar Shulgin, a world renowned chemist has had over 10,000 psychadellic experiences with a plethora of drugs. Even Jesus drank and made wine for other people. That was his first miracle.
Not all drug users are idiots who cant deal with life. So fuck you Garratt and everyone else who disgraced my time with ignorant post.
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#66
 2007-03-24, 17:31
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
My, the endless wisdom of a "grunge kid." Did you even read my post, dumbass? I'm not against drug use, I'm against self-righteous drug users who feel that any attempt to question their drugs-are-all-good delusions amounts to Nazi jackboots on their throat. For the last time, guys, I like to smoke a fucking joint when I've got nothing to do in the morning.
"Not all drug users are like that?" No shit, sherlock. Thanks for the big heads-up. But many of them are - and in my experience, very often the ones who are mouthiest about how drugs are a-okay.
I council MODERATION, you dumbass. Read my post before cocking off to me - your snide little "nuh uh!" is barely amusing, let alone thought-provoking.
EDIT:
What the fuck's your point about the famous drug users? Sigmund Freud used coke - no shit, thanks a mil. Sigmund Freud also suggested coke would make a fine cure for opiate addiction, thereby issuing shoddy and even life-threatening advice to thousands of desperate people. The lesson? "Sigmund Freud said to do it" isn't 100% foolproof reason for doing anything.
Ernest Hemingway drank at least eight glasses of absinthe, often straight-up, every day for a huge period of his life. He wrote some wicked books, I'll grant that - The Sun Also Rises being my all time favorite.
Of course, he also had a perpetually turbulent social life, constant fears of failure even after he succeeded, massive and rapid-cycling bipolar symptoms, etc. Guy got so sick of his life that he ended up putting a shotgun in his mouth. So maybe it's not a great idea to emulate his psychological state, hey?
Quit with this easy-categorizing bullshit. Listing drug-using celebrities is an out, not a rebuttal.
[This message has been edited by StillArmedStillAngry (edited 03-24-2007).]
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#67
 2007-03-24, 18:20
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
Basically for me it's like this...
Anything in excess is a bad idea. Drinking, smoking, whatever it may be... it's a crutch.
I think drug users, who use on a constant basis, have a deeper problem with their life. They use it to get away, even if they say it makes them relax and chill out.
You don't need drugs to chill out and relax and get away.
I would never date a girl who uses hard drugs. Marijuana is still an issue because you don't come by a stoner who just gets high once and a while. Most people who smoke weed are obsessive in a sense... getting high before a movie... before a drive... how they're going to smoke it... the process of the whole thing.
It's discusting to be honest.
I drink from time to time on the weekends and know in my own mind I don't have a problem. I may get smashed, but I'm around the right people and my mind is clear. I don't see what's wrong with that here and there.
People that have a past of drug use?
Once a drug addict always a drug addict. They may not be addicted to drugs, but they need something on their life to have as a crutch... even emotionally... like love, being angry, eating problems...
I don't know where I'm going with this or whatever... but in a nutshell... it's discusting.
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#68
 2007-03-24, 19:04
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Grab:
I think drug users, who use on a constant basis, have a deeper problem with their life. They use it to get away, even if they say it makes them relax and chill out.
hey douchebag, ever heard of another reason for doing drugs? like, maybe, that they're FUN?
Ever think, maybe, a drug user can LIKE their life? including the sober parts?
I, personally, love my life. i have a great girlfriend, my parents are pretty chill, good friends, obviously life isnt perfect but i don't really have anything to "get away" from.
and yet, i drink, toke, and trip all the time.
please, oh wise Grab, tell me what it is i hate about myself so much??
I NEED YOUR HELP MAN!
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#69
 2007-03-24, 19:48
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
As a drug user, I must say that everyone is entitled to their opinion about drugs-
but i will punch you in the cunt before i'll listen to you preach to me about the ills of my ways.
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 2007-03-24, 19:52
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Grab:
Basically for me it's like this...
Anything in excess is a bad idea. Drinking, smoking, whatever it may be... it's a crutch.
I think drug users, who use on a constant basis, have a deeper problem with their life. They use it to get away, even if they say it makes them relax and chill out.
You don't need drugs to chill out and relax and get away.
I would never date a girl who uses hard drugs. Marijuana is still an issue because you don't come by a stoner who just gets high once and a while. Most people who smoke weed are obsessive in a sense... getting high before a movie... before a drive... how they're going to smoke it... the process of the whole thing.
It's discusting to be honest.
I drink from time to time on the weekends and know in my own mind I don't have a problem. I may get smashed, but I'm around the right people and my mind is clear. I don't see what's wrong with that here and there.
People that have a past of drug use?
Once a drug addict always a drug addict. They may not be addicted to drugs, but they need something on their life to have as a crutch... even emotionally... like love, being angry, eating problems...
I don't know where I'm going with this or whatever... but in a nutshell... it's discusting.
Sir.....If you think me taking LSD is to escape my problems you are SADLY mistaken
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#71
 2007-03-24, 21:36
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
EDIT: I had typed out a long reply but on second thought fuck it. I'll just leave it at you know absolutely nothing about me. This will be my last post in this thread and I will not read any further replies or even open this thread from this point on so don't bother replying to me. If you feel you absolutely must reply you can get my email at the top of the W&C forum.
[This message has been edited by Cloaked Dagger (edited 03-24-2007).]
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#72
 2007-03-25, 00:03
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:
Because druggie bitches stab you in the back.
I've done my fair share of drugs and probably will continue to do so, but I've met very few druggie bitches that wouldn't sell you out of fuck another fella for either more drugs or because he has a higher status than you, like a dealer.
They're just very fickle and have no conviction, which is probably why they get into drugs in the first place.
I agree 100% with you.
Actually, you seem like a really smart guy.
I've done alot of drugs and probably will continue to do them, but I think it's a man's job to protect the woman.
Call me sexist or whatever, but that's the way I feel.
If it was something soft, like if I smoked with a chick rarely or something, that would be ok.
But speed or coke or something? Hell no.
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#73
 2007-03-25, 01:00
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quote:Originally posted by pyroman5000:
Couldnt have said it better myself. This is why the human race fails. Perpetually searching for the easy way out of things.
And that assclown above who asked me 'what did you accomplish in your life' before going off on some random bullshit that doesnt matter, it would take all day to explain how I made something of myself after rebuilding the shattered life I grew up with. So fuck you.
Just because your fuck up, addict parents gave you a shitty life doesn't mean no one can use drugs responsibly.
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#74
 2007-03-25, 07:01
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
find someone with similar drug limits/boundaries. not hard.
don't conform yourself into something your not. so if you do drugs, don't pretend you don't. if you don't want to do something, say so. compromise. find level ground [this works not only in this matter, but alot in relationships in general].
i don't know what i'd do if i couldn't share my drug experiences with my girlfriend. something just wouldn't be right. you think drugs are cool? now imagine sharing that experience with someone you love. yea. point proven.
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#75
 2007-03-25, 08:33
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Re: Drugs and Girls.......(What do ya think ladies)
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Someone is a bit ignorant...
Doubtful. Have it on good authority from a MD buddy that it fucks up your brain juice. A temporary overload of pleasure results in a far longer period of depression. And Prozac doesn't help.
Seen it happen to a druggie acquaintance, too.
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