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Old 2007-03-16, 19:06
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This is for all of you cocksuckers out there who cry inside when you see a guy who appears to have more money or muscle or WHATEVER than you with a lady.

Grow the fuck up.

If you are jealous of people, it is one of the worst fucking poisons known to man. EVERY GUY should be able to get his, and I am so goddamn sick of the competing bullshit. It gets to the point where guys who absolutely dont even care if they get laid or not cant even LOOK at a girl without some little fucking pussy getting an attitude and SPRAYING negative thoughts in his direction. It's not that this pussy will hit on the woman, nope. But he will hate himself for not being comfortable enough to NOT CARE and then be jealous when he sees someone who is.

YOU are creating the misery if there is misery in your life. Maybe society has contributed (and believe me, people try) but dont go hating people just because theyre not bound to the same stupid thoughts as you (as Jimmy Page said, sometimes all of our thoughts are mistaken). Maybe they WERE like you and you never realize they took hold of their nuts, actions and thoughts and changed habits that made them miserable, into good habits which made them happy, healthy and strong. Being this way, naturally attracts women without all the money, the tag and axe body spray, the fucking nice cars or any of the other bullshit.

I mean what the fuck is wrong with you? It's a matter of focusing your attention, and too many people these days focus it on stupid shit, the same nowhere thoughts every single day, day to day lying to themselves, pretending "that guy is cooler than me, oh what a dick, oh he thinks he is so cool, oh he thinks he is better, oh girls like an asshole and not me, oh I wanna be an asshole, aw I wanna be what everyone says, aw poor FUCKING ME." while doing nothing for yourself. Know why that guy is cool? Because that guy doesnt have the time to give a flying shit about what everyone thinks anymore, because he's too busy trying to enjoy life in this shitty world. Even if girls HATE his guts, a real man will still bust his ass to get what he wants, and not boast or whine about it, he just SUFFERS THROUGH and comes out stronger.

So if youre gonna let the world shit on you, fine. If you dont want to get off your ass and make everyday, every BREATH an oppurtunity to change YOUR life and not worry about everyone else, FINE. But DONT take it out on other guys, recognize that feeling in you is false, its dragging you down, even THAT guy has probably been through it. It is a product of the mind which is negative and should be abandoned and is something which the real essential you can never be completely conditioned to, because everything in this universe continously changes.

If you feel like a geek, STOP BEING A GEEK. It takes mental discipline, courage, and will, which EVERYONE has. If you know yourself well, people, and I mean all KINDS of people will throw insults and their perceptions at you, and not one fucking bit of it will stir you. Because you decided its not helping you develop in life and only YOU define who you are, not anyone else. I think more people need to step back and see everyone as the same, rather than this is better or that is better...

If you cant stand it, DO something about it. Dont blame it on everyone else and pity yourself, and rot in your own jealousy. It's miserable, its fucking annoying to you AND everyone. So cut the shit.

Ok that is all.

I dunno, shit like this gets on my mind and I just need to say it. Why? Because Ive noticed, Im happiest alone, and the only reason I am usually miserable is to "fit in" with every other miserable person, because they cant handle someone being happy and laughing, and there is way too much of this negative crap in the air, that we need to clear if we're ever to become more balanced in this world headed for the toilet. I feel like, people have these illusory problems in their mind from attachment to the past, and I have to literally pretend that these problems are real and that they need to suffer like that. Let's fuckin evolve already.

Its not that guy over there that restricts us, but our own MINDS. That is the real enemy, it is within, and to defeat that is to truly defeat the whole fucking universe.

/FIN
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Old 2007-03-16, 19:30
CptnCrackHound CptnCrackHound is offline
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Fuck, I'm jealous because you write longer post than I do.

By the way your post was way too long, so I didn't read it.
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Old 2007-03-16, 19:36
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You make some damn fine posts, Fuck. This one was a bit hard to follow, and perhaps a bit overly opinionated, but damn thoughtful.
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Old 2007-03-16, 19:44
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I just skimmed your post, but it sounds like you're an asshole, and a pathetic one at that. Emo much?
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Old 2007-03-16, 21:26
lauren7249 lauren7249 is offline
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i agree, and reiterate it in a tone that comes off as inspiring rather than scornful.
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Old 2007-03-16, 21:40
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^Shut the fuck up bitch, you do not know what he is talking about.
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Old 2007-03-16, 21:46
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Default Re: Jealousy of other guys, and self-pity

It has a good message, people can change and there's no reason to be the someone that people expect.

What have you been seeing to disgust you so throughly?

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 03-16-2007).]
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Old 2007-03-17, 00:41
Splinter7 Splinter7 is offline
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What if how you act IS how you are?

I for one admit I AM a geek. And I don't want to change. Thing is that by me acting like myself, I actually have a girlfriend, plenty of mates and whatnot.

You can't generalise so much, though you do raise some interesting and possibly true points.

Good read.
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Old 2007-03-17, 00:51
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quote:Originally posted by Euda:



What have you been seeing to disgust you so throughly?



I dunno I think it's just that I've gone through many phases that I see others going through them and I think "I used to be like that" and it really pisses me off to see people making dumb mistakes like I used to...

Haha. Makes me think "what goes around comes around" We're all really the same, just channelling our energy in different manners. That's all it really is, and I think there are some more positive ways to channel it and some completely unproductive ways that do no good for ANYONE. And I see a lot of it around me, it's really a drag.

Ever feel like youve completely transformed into a different person, very quickly and that this changes your perspective of the outside world in huge ways? Maybe its not something that happens to everyone.

Oh well. Take it for what you will, I kind of just type posts in a blur usually. Just needed to vent something.
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Old 2007-03-17, 00:54
n20Xide n20Xide is offline
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This isn't opinion, this is fact. It sickens me everytime I hear a fucking man complain about his situation that is easily reversible if he just got the fuck off his arse.

If the women act like women, why don't the men act like men? Society is so full of weak males trying to justify how they behave. But the saddest part is that women have adapated their minds to this and empathise with them. Come to think of it, OF COURSE they empathise with you, you fucking ACT LIKE THEM.

Women's minds and feelings are seperate. Their brains say the ideal man would be a submissive, sensitive guy who would never leave their side, but yet their feelings long for that dominant, self-centered guy who hardly pays any attention to them.

So, they convince themselves that he isn't good for them anyway, and end up marrying the sensitive one. THIS is why the divorce rate today is so high and boyfriends almost never last more than a year.
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Old 2007-03-17, 01:36
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I found that pretty hard to follow, but at the same time interesting and quite insightful. I'll give it a couple more reads.
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Old 2007-03-17, 14:15
shiva shiva is offline
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I like you
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Old 2007-03-17, 14:16
Gambler_Justice Gambler_Justice is offline
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Great post.
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Old 2007-03-17, 14:26
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quote:This is for all of you cocksuckers out there who cry inside when you see a guy who appears to have more money or muscle or WHATEVER than you with a lady.



So much hatred. Why? Were you not once as ignorant as them? Do you yell at those in the darkness because you are in the light? I hope it is only to get their attention...

quote:If you are jealous of people, it is one of the worst fucking poisons known to man.



What is the root of jealousy? Pride. Ego.

quote:EVERY GUY should be able to get his



"His"? What is this possession nonsense?

quote:I mean what the fuck is wrong with you?



Ignorance. Why would you need to ask what the ailment is if you have the cure?

quote: It's a matter of focusing your attention, and too many people these days focus it on stupid shit



Stupid by the standards of who?

quote:Know why that guy is cool?



Because he fits the characteristics you percieve as "cool" which have been ingrained into your mind by society, enviroment, cause and effect, etc.

quote:Even if girls HATE his guts, a real man will still bust his ass to get what he wants, and not boast or whine about it, he just SUFFERS THROUGH and comes out stronger.



Are you not now boasting of not being one of them, and whining about how pitiful they are?

quote:If you dont want to get off your ass and make everyday, every BREATH an oppurtunity to change YOUR life and not worry about everyone else, FINE.

Why should you not worry about everyone else? Why only care about yourself?

quote:Its not that guy over there that restricts us, but our own MINDS. That is the real enemy, it is within, and to defeat that is to truly defeat the whole fucking universe.



When one stops looking at life as a battle, the war becomes much easier.

I overall agree with your message, and I say nothing to be argumentative, but those furthest along the path are usually the ones who do not get checked enough. Thus, it is easier to stray.

just lookin' out for ye' as I look out for myself.
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Old 2007-03-17, 16:26
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I myself, I do not get jealous this is wrong and it is a weakness. Just get over it. There will always be something that you want that someone else has. Who the fuck cares about these possessions just get rid of that mind sense and you will be a better fucking person.
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Old 2007-03-17, 20:12
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good post.

for a long time i was stuck in a rut like that.i was unconfident,unloving,drug abusing and just straight up loser.

then something happened...and to this day i dont know what it was...something in my mind...but i became a narcissistic,uncaring of others thoughts about me,confident,stylish,unflinching motherfucker...i quit using/drinking after a little while just because i have to get shit straightened out but i fucking love it...

I LOVE IT
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Old 2007-03-17, 20:37
whiteymoza whiteymoza is offline
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Im not jealous of anybody. I am who I am, I love how I am and I will always be me.

Yeah im a bit of a geek, a social reject and slightly crazy but I dont care. If somebody doesnt like that... Fuck em!

Nobody will ever change me and I will never envy anybody. You are who you are and if you want to change that then only you can do it!
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Old 2007-03-17, 21:46
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Too long/will probably read later.
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Old 2007-03-17, 21:54
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Jealousy is a sickness. I agree entirely... it's crazy. I didn't read the whole thing just now, but I will.
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Old 2007-03-18, 05:08
Kafka_Cure Kafka_Cure is offline
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My favorite poem for "Atomik Aztex" says it best:

Step out of history

to enter life

try that all of you you'll get it then.
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Old 2007-03-19, 11:38
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quote:Originally posted by Fuck:



Its not that guy over there that restricts us, but our own MINDS. That is the real enemy, it is within, and to defeat that is to truly defeat the whole fucking universe.

/FIN

That last part is very true. The mind is the real enemy.

But maybe jealousy is a necessary catalyst for change. If we didn't feel like we were missing anything we wouldn't be pushed to get it and be happier and grow stronger and all that good shit you're preaching.

So the 'cocksuckers' crying and being miserable are maybe in a necessary phase of become the hero of a strong male you want them to become.

Also consider that some are born ugly/have micro or small penises, born with 2 heads, have a nasty rash that makes them look like a freak, had their leg shot off by their drunken father as a child or are just general losers in every way (of which i know one TRUE candidate to fit this label) and can't land any chicks so they settle for a heap of shit and grow miserable. Its all about natural endowment, perhaps not all are so endowed with the capacity for self motivation you have/claim to have.
 
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