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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-03-14, 04:47
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shiva 
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Whats wrong with me?
Okay, First off. Im seeing somebody but i wont be doing anything sexual with him for a very long time as im old fashioned with those things and i would much rather wait, but lately i dont even FEEL aroused. I used to just sit in class, start thinking of things and become aroused..like a guy  .
I can orgasm very easily, i only need to touch myself for a few minutes and i can get off.. I even worked out how to give myself multiples, i got upto 4 ( this used to be my way of sleeping when my insomnia was bad  ). Lately i dont touch myself at all, and i dont feel like being affectionate or sexual at all. just NOTHING, my doctor said this would be a big side affect to my xanax dosage considering its SO high.. could this be what it is? Has anybody else experienced this from a form of medication?, im on 2-3mg of xanax a day as well as anti psychotics and sleeping pills because i have terrible insomnia.
The meds have made my sex drive go to 0, i dont like it but i have to take the medication for a while.. is there anyway to cure this???
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#2
 2007-03-14, 04:56
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
You know something??? That is actually not that bad at all. We young people waste a fuck lot of energy thinking about and practicing sex. You can now focus on your studies, job or whatever is it that you do a lot easier. That would be fine for me. That way I wouldn't be thinking about her all day everyday and I'd feel much better....
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#3
 2007-03-14, 05:00
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Anti-depressants can and do stuff around with your sex drive (as well as most of your emotions..) if you are on the wrong dosage, or the wrong medication. They tend to get rid of the "peak emotions" - instead of getting depressed, you may get a little sad. Instead of feeling ecstacy, you feel happy. Instead of feeling horney, you feel, well, not much.
Antidepressants need to be regularly reviewed until the right one and the right dose for you is found. And you need to find the right balance between feeling and not feeling emotions.
My advice? Give them time to take effect (at least 2 weeks or so), and if things don't improve, talk to your doctor about lowering the dosage, or changing the medication.
In my case, my wife got pretty severe post-natal depression after our second child. We tried different things, until she found the right one and the right dose, and she is gradually lowering that one now. We found:
* being on the pill lowers your libido,
* constantly worrying that you should be horney definitely kills the feelings,
* exercise more, eat better and keep busy,
* and don't worry so much.
You'll find if you don't think about sex, the feelings will creep up on you when you least expect it...
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#4
 2007-03-14, 05:00
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Yeah, I was like that when I was on my anti depressants.
The only real way to 'cure' it is to stop taking the meds.
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#5
 2007-03-14, 05:05
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Maggotote:
You know something??? That is actually not that bad at all. We young people waste a fuck lot of energy thinking about and practicing sex. You can now focus on your studies, job or whatever is it that you do a lot easier. That would be fine for me. That way I wouldn't be thinking about her all day everyday and I'd feel much better....
Yeah thats true... i was thinking that the other day, but it just worries me a little. Oh and xanax is not an anti depressant, Its a different type of medication.. im on Anti-Psychotics, and Xanax, Not anti-depressants.
Is anybody here on high dosages of Xanax hrmm =/
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#6
 2007-03-14, 05:12
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by shiva:
Yeah thats true... i was thinking that the other day, but it just worries me a little. Oh and xanax is not an anti depressant, Its a different type of medication.. im on Anti-Psychotics, and Xanax, Not anti-depressants.
Is anybody here on high dosages of Xanax hrmm =/
Xanax is an anti-depressant. And have a look on www.drugs.com (http://www.drugs.com) - it lists the side effects as:
*unusual risk-taking behavior, decreased inhibitions, no fear of danger;
*depressed mood, thoughts of suicide or hurting yourself;
*hyperactivity, agitation, hostility;
*hallucinations;
*feeling light-headed, fainting;
*seizure (convulsions);
*urinating less than usual or not at all;
*muscle twitching, tremor; or
*jaundice (yellowing of the skin or eyes).
Less serious side effects are more likely to occur, such as:
*drowsiness, dizziness;
*amnesia or forgetfulness, trouble concentrating;
*feeling irritable;
*sleep problems (insomnia);
*muscle weakness, lack of balance or coordination;
*slurred speech;
*blurred vision;
*appetite or weight changes;
*nausea, vomiting, constipation;
*dry or watery mouth, increased sweating; or
*loss of interest in sex.
So you are on a large dosage, and are suffering from the side effects that it says you will.
I would say change meds, or at least talk to your doctor......
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#7
 2007-03-14, 05:15
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by shiva:
Is anybody here on high dosages of Xanax hrmm =/
I wish!
But really, Zoloft did the same for me. I've been off it for a couple months now though and my sex drive really hasn't come back. :/
-F☺rd
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#8
 2007-03-14, 05:45
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Xanax must be used as a anti depressant in america, in australia they use it as a panic/anxiety disorder drug. I am on it because i started getting panic attacks in my psychosis when my schizophrenia went bad, thats why i noted anti-psychotics.. wow i didnt realise its an anti depressant too...
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#9
 2007-03-14, 08:43
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
You're obviously fighting your pure urge to bring this Age of Kali Yuga to an end & your bowing down to society's admonitions to 'play nice' is getting your goat.
You know you'll only be happy falling upon the world like Mount Everest losing it's structural integrity overnight. That's just Shiva's innate nature.
ps You getting your quota of Omega-3s?
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#10
 2007-03-14, 08:59
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
yupp, that's the antipsychotics
Let me tell you want kind of a sex drive I had while on lithium, trazodone, and risperidal.
-23.
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#11
 2007-03-14, 09:23
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
yupp, that's the antipsychotics
Let me tell you want kind of a sex drive I had while on lithium, trazodone, and risperidal.
-23.
Im on risperdal, OH MY GOD....NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO....lol 
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#12
 2007-03-14, 09:25
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by shiva:
Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
yupp, that's the antipsychotics
Let me tell you want kind of a sex drive I had while on lithium, trazodone, and risperidal.
-23.
Im on risperdal, OH MY GOD....NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO....lol
you have no idea
I had a bitch completely naked grinding her pussy onto my dick
and I couldn't get hard
I was so completely bored and it was so warm in that room and I was dehydrated so that made the lithiumness so much worse.
[This message has been edited by Rizzo in a box (edited 03-14-2007).]
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#13
 2007-03-14, 09:35
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
you have no idea
I had a bitch completely naked grinding her pussy onto my dick
and I couldn't get hard
I was so completely bored and it was so warm in that room and I was dehydrated so that made the lithiumness so much worse.
Oh u sound just like i am now  , I touch my pun pun but i dont feel anything.. and then i cant sleep so i take stilnox and then i walk aroundmy house hallucinating... its horrible i get no sleep *cries*.. i feel your pain rizzo 
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#14
 2007-03-14, 09:42
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
You don't want to fuck, and you are currently taking sedatives. A riddle of gordian proportions or what?
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#15
 2007-03-14, 10:12
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
It's the drugs.
Drugs make sex drives die. Since you started giving me a daily dose of xanax (.5mg twice daily) I haven't made my self come once. NOT ONCE! It's pretty cool.
Were you horny at the titty bar?
Oh, I'm lying, I had a sex drive when you got me that dance. When that stripper put her cunt in my face, then rubbed my dick...then licked my face...I would have slammed that shit for a whole night.
Wow, that was such a fucking fantastic night. Man I'm drooling thinking about it. Maybe you should just start selling more of your xanax to the strippers at bar 20?
Lets stop talking about that, and start talking about strippers. Strippers are cool. I want a pet stripper. Maaaan....thankyou shiva
Oh what was I getting at? Right, no sex drive. Appart from right now, and that night at the strippers, since you started giving me xannies, I've been dormant in the pants zone.
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#16
 2007-03-14, 10:18
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Thats ok my lovely, any time  .
No i wasnt aroused at the titty bar  ... but i felt like pushing that ugly girl in the blue off the pole.. *vomit*.
Its okay, im gonna start weening myself off xanax and cut down my anti-psychotics.. or maybe find another one that might not give me this side affect.
Poor pun pun  .
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#17
 2007-03-14, 10:21
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Teenagers are so stupid.
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#18
 2007-03-14, 10:24
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Not teenagers but okay.
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#19
 2007-03-14, 10:41
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
I was on anti-depressants once. The fact it was nigh on impossible to masturbate ironically made me more depressed.
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#20
 2007-03-14, 11:01
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
I was on anti-depressants once. The fact it was nigh on impossible to masturbate ironically made me more depressed.
Antidepressants and antipsychotics are two very different classes of drugs.
antipsychotics turn me into a zombie
antidepressants turn me into a homicidal maniac.
quote:Oh u sound just like i am now , I touch my pun pun but i dont feel anything.. and then i cant sleep so i take stilnox and then i walk aroundmy house hallucinating... its horrible i get no sleep *cries*.. i feel your pain rizzo
Luckily I'm on some really good medication now, almost zero side effects!
What are you prescribed them for? And have you tried self medicating with weed? It tends to help a lot, although maybe it not work for you. You might want to try just weed and xanax, or something.
have you tried taking natural supplements like 5 HTP and melatonin?
[This message has been edited by Rizzo in a box (edited 03-14-2007).]
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#21
 2007-03-14, 11:01
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by chumpion:
You'll find if you don't think about sex, the feelings will creep up on you when you least expect it...[/B]
and then they're just generally better and more comforting after about a week of non-sexuality. all it takes is will-power to exercise not over-doing it. at which point you kind of regule your own emotions and sex drive. it kinda goes to show how life has a balance, and once you slip in - you've turned golden. it ain't hard, just a pain in the dick  when its really less of one than the bastard itself used to be.. lmao i'm losing my train of thought here man xD i'm gonna go. peaace
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#22
 2007-03-14, 11:03
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Can we get a "LOL I TAK MEDS" forum already?
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#23
 2007-03-14, 11:05
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:
Can we get a "LOL I TAK MEDS" forum already?
...BLTC...?
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#24
 2007-03-14, 11:14
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Luckily I'm on some really good medication now, almost zero side effects!
What are you prescribed them for? And have you tried self medicating with weed? It tends to help a lot, although maybe it not work for you. You might want to try just weed and xanax, or something.
have you tried taking natural supplements like 5 HTP and melatonin?
I have undifferentiated schizophrenia, do you know of any anti-psychotic with less side affects i could take.. because ive tried a few including risperdal and solian and i dont like either. I smoke sometimes but i dont think too much weed is a very good thing for my condition.
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#25
 2007-03-14, 11:17
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by shiva:
I have undifferentiated schizophrenia, do you know of any anti-psychotic with less side affects i could take.. because ive tried a few including risperdal and solian and i dont like either. I smoke sometimes but i dont think too much weed is a very good thing for my condition.
*edit* this question is probably better for the BLTC area so ill post it there i think*
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#26
 2007-03-14, 11:25
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Your question is probably more suited for somebody with a modicum of medical expertise rather than a forum full of raid huffing DXM swilling retards.
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#27
 2007-03-14, 11:30
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:
Your question is probably more suited for somebody with a modicum of medical expertise rather than a forum full of raid huffing DXM swilling retards.
Shush, the adults are speaking. Go back to the play pen, or say "Hi" to Chucky Cheese.
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#28
 2007-03-14, 11:31
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
Somebody call this dude the waaaaahmbulance.
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#29
 2007-03-14, 11:36
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:
Somebody call this dude the waaaaahmbulance.
Why? You're the only one bitching here.
oh, I forgot to put in an internet meme
im just doing it for the lulz!!111

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#30
 2007-03-14, 11:43
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shiva 
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:
Somebody call this dude the waaaaahmbulance.
I asked here because the doctors wont go into detail with me about my meds, they just want me to take them. I dont know anybody else IRL taking them so i asked totse. If you have a problem with that im sorry but just dont post in the thread if it bothers you, its really not that hard. Anywho i posted it in BLTC, so theres no need to be a grumpy pants  .
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#31
 2007-03-14, 11:46
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by shiva:
I asked here because the doctors wont go into detail with me about my meds, they just want me to take them. I dont know anybody else IRL taking them so i asked totse. If you have a problem with that im sorry but just dont post in the thread if it bothers you, its really not that hard. Anywho i posted it in BLTC, so theres no need to be a grumpy pants  .
Im requesting the waaahmbulance for that whiney bitch Rizzo. He's pissed because he can't take a joke and his meds ran out.
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#32
 2007-03-14, 11:50
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:
Originally posted by shiva:
I asked here because the doctors wont go into detail with me about my meds, they just want me to take them. I dont know anybody else IRL taking them so i asked totse. If you have a problem with that im sorry but just dont post in the thread if it bothers you, its really not that hard. Anywho i posted it in BLTC, so theres no need to be a grumpy pants  .
Im requesting the waaahmbulance for that whiney bitch Rizzo. He's pissed because he can't take a joke and his meds ran out.
I'm sorry, but I thought a joke had to be funny to be considered humor.
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#33
 2007-03-14, 11:53
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
I'm sorry
It's ok, I forgive you for being an idiot.
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#34
 2007-03-14, 11:53
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
This thread was very slow and boring until Duckwarrior started posting.
=CK=
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#35
 2007-03-14, 12:00
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Not Esplender:
This thread was very slow and boring until Duckwarrior started posting.
=CK=
Yes, and then it got immature and stupid.
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#36
 2007-03-14, 12:03
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Yes, and then it got owned.
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#37
 2007-03-14, 12:06
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Yes, and then DuckWarri0r and myself stopped posting here because internet pissing contests are lame and noone wants to have to wade through all our crappy comments when reading this read.
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#38
 2007-03-14, 12:09
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
HEY GUYS CAN I POST IN HERE TOO?
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#39
 2007-03-14, 12:15
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Re: Whats wrong with me?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:
Yes, and then DuckWarri0r and myself stopped posting here because internet pissing contests are lame and noone wants to have to wade through all our crappy comments when reading this read.
This thread pretty much ended when shiva posted this in BLTC, anyway.
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