I sure as hell haven't been here in a long time. Bet you all thought I forgot about you. Nope. I'm sorry to see that DeadlyCindy isn't a mod anymore, though.

Anyway, to keep the post relevant to this forum, I guess I'll disclose a bit about my romantic circumstances. I've been dating a 42-year-old woman for about 10 months and I couldn't be happier. Another me couldn't have ever imagined myself in such an age-disparate relationship, but damn, it's good. They CAN and do work, so it seems, and it doesn't have to be about money or desperate older women or anything of the sort.

Yeah, I'm in love. Anyway, any thoughts or experiences to relate about age-disparate relationships? I realize this is probably an old topic, but hell, this is an old forum. It's good to see that it's still here. Bye, everyone.

-Infrared

LOL WTF OMG HAHAHAHAHAHAH GREAT SUCCESS.

*mauls*

How many years is she older than you???

My exgirlfriend was 10 years older than me and I'm just 18. Think you can beat that?

I've never understood the 'older woman' thing.

Admittedly, my partner is younger than I am, but it's not a huge age discrepancy.

Is it good?

How's the sex?

Where the FUCK have you been?!!?

The best word to describe the sex would be "OMGGGGROX0RZEXPLOSIVE". Or something.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Where the FUCK have you been?!!?

I concure.

We've been missing you.

Good to see you back buddy.

Wondered where you got to.

And what in the name of Christ happened to Cindy?!?!

Ha! DeadlyCindy... forgot about her.

Bot to stray off topic, but did she just disappear suddenly or what? That's pretty unfortunate.

Hey Infra!

I've recently been going out with a girl 5 years older than me. And it's... good?

*has nothing else to contribute*

Good to knwo you're still alive. Now dont leave us again.

So...tell me...please...

What makes the relationship good?

What do you share in common that makes up for the differences in life experiences?

Does she have children?

Has she ever been married before?

In what areas do the two of you struggle in the relationship? (Although, your relationship is quite young so you might not have reached that point yet.)

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Bot to stray off topic, but did she just disappear suddenly or what? That's pretty unfortunate.

I seem to remember she was going to get rid of the roommate from hell...

Then she stopped posting...

Maybe he took her back down there with him?

Kinda funny. I hit rock bottom around the same time you crawl back up from it.

DAMN YOUSE, GOD!

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Kinda funny. I hit rock bottom around the same time you crawl back up from it.

DAMN YOUSE, GOD!

Sorry to hear it. You still married?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

So...tell me...please...

What makes the relationship good?

What do you share in common that makes up for the differences in life experiences?

Does she have children?

Has she ever been married before?

In what areas do the two of you struggle in the relationship? (Although, your relationship is quite young so you might not have reached that point yet.)



It's good because we have a great rapport with each other, romantic and otherwise. I knew her for a good few months before ever dating her (it came as quite a surprise to us both, one night). Of course, this isn't the only reason, it's one of many, but this could easily turn into another long post if I go on and on. Suffice it to say, there's a lot of love there, and a lot of highs (and a few lows) hit in the time we've been together that have brought us very close.

What do we share in common? Well, one thing would be thirst for adventure and a love of the New Mexico outdoors (any local out there knows what I mean...All three of you!). We also think a lot alike about a lot of things, but we're different (actually, quite different) enough from each other to keep things interesting too.

One kid, and a previous marriage.

I suppose we struggle, albeit minorly, over misinterpreted communications that occur now and again (you know; "I didn't mean it that way", "I should have thought that one out more", etc) from both ends. We've never had any massive, screaming fights (both of us are too mature for that), but several heated, emotional, though pretty civil, arguments.

-Infrared

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

What do we share in common? Well, one thing would be thirst for adventuring around in peoples back gardens at night

PLEASE say this is true.

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Bot to stray off topic, but did she just disappear suddenly or what? That's pretty unfortunate.

Yeah, it sucks when regulars do that. Really inconsiderate.

EDIT: Holy shit, don't go back into Bad Ideas, you'll have a brain haemorrhage or something. It's a little... worse for wear.

[This message has been edited by Mr.Happy (edited 03-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:



One kid, and a previous marriage.



Is her child a younger child, or a teen?

Do you get along well?

How is her relationship with her ex?

Btw, how old are you? You didn't say.

edit:

Btw, I'm not just being nosey. There are reasons why I'm interested in this part.

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 03-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Bot to stray off topic, but did she just disappear suddenly or what? That's pretty unfortunate.

Real-life issues with her boyfriend. Never heard back from her.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Kinda funny. I hit rock bottom around the same time you crawl back up from it.

DAMN YOUSE, GOD!

So what happened to you my little hombre?

I may hit rock bottom in a few weeks, because I recently found out the air force might not be renewing my husband's commission!!!! This would mean he would be unemployed in like 3 weeks...I think my hair has started to all fall out due to the extreme anxiety.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Kinda funny. I hit rock bottom around the same time you crawl back up from it.

DAMN YOUSE, GOD!

So what happened to you my little hombre?

I may hit rock bottom in a few weeks, because I recently found out the air force might not be renewing my husband's commission!!!! This would mean he would be unemployed in like 3 weeks...I think my hair has started to all fall out due to the extreme anxiety.



Don't take it too seriously, or anything. Hell, what exactly is there to be worried about? 6000 years ago people got along just fine without having to go to a 9-5 job. if push comes to shove you could do it, too.

there's always a bright side and such.

don't beat yourself up over anything, there's nothing worth suffering over.

quote:Originally posted by GusMk4:

Real-life issues with her boyfriend. Never heard back from her.

Gus, after all of totse mega fucking owned you, you had to make a new account? Couldn't just face the barrage of insults? lol.

Or...it's some on else. Guessing otherwise.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Gus, after all of totse mega fucking owned you, you had to make a new account? Couldn't just face the barrage of insults? lol.

Or...it's some on else. Guessing otherwise.

Hah, actually FUBAR came into #totse and was rather pissed off because his account was hacked. So I gave him my old account. Then he went and just made a new account, and didn't give it back (accidently killed it).

But hey, whatever makes you feel better you smelly wannabe Kiwi.

Look what the cat dragged in. Good to see you again.

My god...I haven't heard from you in HELLA long....Damn I wish I remembered my old username...thats how long ago it was...back in the tweeker and original night ops days...Its good to see your still alive infrared, I was wondering about what happened to you...I think my old username was like Bladesaclr1 or some shit

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Sorry to hear it. You still married?

Nope. That being the rock bottom.

And the drinking and drug abuse that came along with it, of course.

quote:Originally posted by Maggotote:

How many years is she older than you???

My exgirlfriend was 10 years older than me and I'm just 18. Think you can beat that?

I think you have an inferiority complex and has to spray bullshit all over the place to make yourself feel better. Even if I am wrong, you still get no points because 28 year olds can pick through the litter, not vice versa.

Show some respect to older people shit.

quote:Originally posted by Siash:



Show some respect to older people shit.

I would seriously question the mental faculties of a grown, 28 year old woman that wants to be with an 18 year old boy.

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Bot to stray off topic, but did she just disappear suddenly or what? That's pretty unfortunate.

Hey infared, what happened to you?

Infrared, although relationships such as yours are strange there's nothing in the bible against it.

If you want it to last you should make sure your relationship is centered around Christ and that you wait until you are married before having sexual intercourse.

God bless you!

Wow. I wasn't around when you used to be, so I have no clue who you are, but the fact that the list of people posting in your thread is starting to look like a "Who's Who" of Sex and Affection speaks volumes.

Glad to hear about someone in a strong, happy relationship.

Oh, and nice to meet you.

quote:Originally posted by Siash:

I think you have an inferiority complex and has to spray bullshit all over the place to make yourself feel better. Even if I am wrong, you still get no points because 28 year olds can pick through the litter, not vice versa.

Show some respect to older people shit.

No bullshit sir!!!! THis is Totse and I don't have any reason to lie and I don't have an inferiority problem.....

Never would've guessed it, night ops with a woman. Over 40. Hopefully I'll never "grow" into that.

Now I have to look at W&C and see what's up.

[This message has been edited by AngrySquirrel (edited 03-16-2007).]

Wow I never would have thought you would be back. You might want to check out Nightops infrared.

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

This thread needs MOAR nostalgia!

Holy fucking shit.

HE posted!

quote:Originally posted by Dark Kaiser II:

This thread needs MOAR nostalgia!

Who remembers 5IVE!?!

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Where the FUCK have you been?!!?

Wow, I thought you were dead or in prison man. Good to hear you're ok. You still tweakin' or did you quit?

Also, go and get your ass into W&C and start posting there again too.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Nope. That being the rock bottom.

And the drinking and drug abuse that came along with it, of course.

Wow, that sucks man. Never would have thought that would have happened to you. Mind if I asked what caused it to end? And weren't you like completely straightedge before?

Infra, you have taught me much.

I am sincerely glad to see that you've posted.

Although this reply doesn't contribute to your query, I would like to enforce the point.



Thanks again,

Cpt. Winters

quote:Originally posted by Solid Squall:

Wow. I wasn't around when you used to be, so I have no clue who you are, but the fact that the list of people posting in your thread is starting to look like a "Who's Who" of Sex and Affection speaks volumes.

Glad to hear about someone in a strong, happy relationship.

Oh, and nice to meet you.

My thoughts exactly. Only been here a few weeks... Well, good to meet you mate, and anyone else who feels like a hello too I guess!

quote:Originally posted by Cloaked Dagger:



Wow, that sucks man. Never would have thought that would have happened to you. Mind if I asked what caused it to end? And weren't you like completely straightedge before?

She got into drugs, basically. And I was also a violent controlling asshole much of time, so I can't put all the blame on her.

And yeah, I was a straight, complete T-totaller for three fucking years. I was a huge stoner and drunk before I met her, she convinced me to give that shit up. Ironic that she'd leave me for it.

Even more ironic that I'd go right back to it because of her, haha/

Why didn't you just get into drugs with her then since you ended up back in it anyway? Then things might have worked out. Nothin' wrong with causal drug use. Unless of course she was going down a path of addiction with something hard. That is pretty fucked up though, making you quit then starting to do it herself.

Shit man, long time no see. We were supposed to get high. Come to LA.

quote:Originally posted by HideandSeek:

Infrared, although relationships such as yours are strange there's nothing in the bible against it.

If you want it to last you should make sure your relationship is centered around Christ and that you wait until you are married before having sexual intercourse.

God bless you!

Nigger please.