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 #1 
Old 2007-03-14, 02:02
angelg7 angelg7 is offline
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Default Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Ok well a little short bio of me.

I'm 16, i've had sex 2 times. and good looking, I play football and rugby and paintball, so i'm fit.

Well anyway, I've known this girl for over 4 months or so, and like about 1 month ago, we started like hanging out like often...i'd probably go to her house every day or she'd come to mine. We would watch movies and like cuddle and stuff, and like little things like that.

It would start to progress fast like, she'd like pull my arm to like feel her tits or her ass and stuff while we were cuddling, of course I did because she is really hot.

I would just do more things with her like feeling her up, she'd feel my dick and stuff like that...

Till eventually me and my bud were having a sleepover at my bud's sis's place and they were letting us do whatever we want. So we invited the girl above over, this was like 1am. She got there and we turned on a movie and we broke out the crown royal and I chugged half the bottle so I was kinda wasted, she pulled me up on the bed and just layed me on her. And she would just roll me on the bed and just sit on my dick, so I then like just starting feeling her up and stuff and then I took off her bra and her pants and she was just giving me a hj. Then we had sex.

At the beginning of this happening, I know this isn't like friends with benefits because when this started happening she said she really liked me, and she was in a relationship but she was going to break up with him for me. So she broke up with him, and I was going to wait a bit till I asked her out and stuff, but I didn't but she still liked me and I liked her too, and we knew that.

And periodly throughout the times when we'd do stuff, I'd be like do you want to hang out tonight? and she's like sure - but only as friends.

We would still do stuff, be she would just always tell me that.

So after we had sex, i'm like do you want to do something tommorrow night, sure - only as friends.

So of course I got mad, I said then why did we have sex if you only wanted to be friends.

After I got mad with her, she never responded to me on MSN or if I talked to her in person about it, she'd just say sorry I got to go.

I really really like her, I can't stop thinking about her, maybe to the point of loving her, I need some advice on what to say to her to like change it...

I know she didn't like me because of my dick, because it's 7.2'' and she really liked it, she'd say that.

Also she said she doesn't want to have friends with benefits, because she doesn't want to be a whore???

So any advice is appreciated.
 #2 
Old 2007-03-14, 02:07
CatharticWeek CatharticWeek is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Oh to be sixteen again.
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:12
chunt chunt is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

like really?
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:12
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

She didn't actually want to be just friends or she wouldn't have broken up with her boyfriend.

Do you actually want to be with her, or are you just in it for sex?
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:17
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

quote: 7.2"

I can assure you your cock is NOT 7.2"!

No way.

NO how.

It might be 7 3/16" (approx?)

Its bad enough that americans seem incapable of understanding the fairly simple underlying principles of metric but when you fuck up your own Imperial system then its just annoying.

You can't express imperial in decimal fractions (despite what some radial manufacturers would have us believe).

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 03-14-2007).]
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:25
PWG PWG is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Bring her flowers.

An alternate method would be to douse the flowers in chloroform and when she smells them deeply she is yours forever. Or at least a few hours.
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:39
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

I can tell you one thing, you don't love her.

That's all I have to say.
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:42
Kuki Kuki is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Thanks for summing up my same college situation asshat..wait Kudos...good sir. Your thread brightened my mood for the moment *off to sip some hot tea and watch a comedy*
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:44
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Oh to be sixteen again.
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Old 2007-03-14, 02:47
bunghole bunghole is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Often when a girl says she wants to be friends it means she wants to fuck but doesnt want to go out with you.
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Old 2007-03-14, 05:59
angelg7 angelg7 is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

quote:

She didn't actually want to be just friends or she wouldn't have broken up with her boyfriend.

Do you actually want to be with her, or are you just in it for sex?



She was already broken up with her boyfriend at that point, and me and her were thinking about going out...

I actually just want to be with her, I really don't care if we have sex I just want her.
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Old 2007-03-14, 06:01
angelg7 angelg7 is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Also, I think i'd look pretty gay giving her flowers...Dunno...usually people here don't do thoes kinds if things, or maybe on casual events and stuff...I still talk to her like on msn shes seems mad at me, but in public she looks at me all the time, and kinda makes sex jokes abit...
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Old 2007-03-14, 06:06
stumblemonkey stumblemonkey is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

quote:Originally posted by bunghole:

Often when a girl says she wants to be friends it means she wants to fuck but doesnt want to go out with you.

O' Rly?

Explain?
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Old 2007-03-14, 13:20
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Maybe she wants to be in an official relationship so she doesn't feel like a whore.
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Old 2007-03-14, 18:13
Docta? Docta? is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Quote:
Originally Posted by SilentMind
quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Oh to be sixteen again.
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Old 2007-03-14, 18:37
angelg7 angelg7 is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

quote:Originally posted by grungekid:

Maybe she wants to be in an official relationship so she doesn't feel like a whore.

Yeah but the problem is she doesn't want to be in a relationship either, with me.
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Old 2007-03-14, 20:43
whiteymoza whiteymoza is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

quote:Originally posted by angelg7:

Yeah but the problem is she doesn't want to be in a relationship either, with me.

Shit man you dont get the chance to have a fuck buddie that much at that age, most of them are stupid and want relationships. Make the most of it.

Fuckbudies FTW
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Old 2007-03-15, 02:25
angelg7 angelg7 is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

Yeah ^^ but she say's she doesn't want to do anything anymore even though we do, do stuff when we like meet up in person..but she just always deny's it, or like says she no longer wants to do this and that.
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Old 2007-03-15, 02:31
chumpion chumpion is offline
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Default Re: Girl im doin stuff with, but only wants to be friends? and no benefits??Help

You had yourself a fuck buddy, you screwed it up, and now it's time to move on.

If you play with girls, it ain't gunna make sense a whole lot of the time. Just try and enjoy the ride, and learn from the experience.

Go and fuck a couple of her friends, and see if she still doesn't want you.....
 
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