My current girl is on birth control. So we fuck with no rubber. She has no STD's....I have none....so it's ok there.

But I'm worried about how effective it is. Should I still be wearing a rubber? Or will there still be no babies if she's on birth control?

YES you should still be wearing a rubber. Never take it on a woman's word alone that she's on birth control. They forget, they don't think it'll happen to them, and if you've got money they get pregnant on purpose so you can't leave them. I don't care how trustworthy she seems, use a fucking rubber.

You should always wear a rubber. No ifs, ands, or buts. ALWAYS.

Yeah man, I had a close call with this once, just use one, srsly

True that.

Depends what kind of birth control she's on and if she's using it properly. A condom would be on the safe side but it's not as risky as people are making it out to be.

I suppose it depends on how serious you are with her. If it's super duper serial and you are willing to accept the fact that she might get pregnant, just do it without. If you have no means to support yourself, let alone a child, just get some condoms.

Don't fuck a girl without a condom, birth control or not, if you are not willing to have that woman as the mother of your child....In case something goes wrong.

My dad gave me this maxim when I got to that age where I started sleeping with girls, and it stuck with me.

I haven't always lived up to it completely, sometimes I have a tough time boning out with a rubber on especially after I've been drinking, so ive played a bit of russian roulette with that one and got lucky; both disease and pregnancy wise....

lately ive been dating a girl who I really do like a lot, and I've been doing her regularly w/o protection; I almost never shoot into her, and when I do its usually like the first shot out then i pull out. She's on the pill. But every time I do it (actually every once in a while), I always get that dread feeling of 'what if I knocked her up this time', what if the pill failed, or she forgot a day, or any number of other reasons why she could and did get pregnant that day....she always tells me that she does NOT want a child at this point in her life, as I dont. and seems to have hinted that she would do an abortion if it came down to it...but I wouldnt want to rely on that...also we're in the DEEP south where these religious nuts (her family) have their own ideas about this. also, I know i'd be a catch for her....despite her not wanting kids now, she said she does in the next few years...wants to get that family thing going on pretty young....shes around 20, early in college right now...I'm 24, about to graduate in a few months with a degree...and I come from a pretty well off family, almost everyone college educated, majority with masters (if not multiple), and law/medicine degrees....she would be the first in her family with a degree when she finishes (very smart girl BTW).

I could see how the potential for her to trap me is there, and the incentive...i doubt she would do that though. not that its not in the back of my mind occasionally....but you can't worry about everything.

I just always think about my fathers maxim; whether or not I would be willing to have her as the mother of my children....and if it came down to it; Yes, I would. But I'd like it be planned and accepted by both involved.

If she takes it every day, then you *should* be fine, pregnancy-wise.

I hear a male contraceptive pill is in the works, maybe start taking that when/if it comes out in addition to your girl's pill?

For now, I would wrap it.

Remember kids: Wrap your wang before you bang!