Long story short, I've had this thing for my best friend recently, but I never had the balls to tell her. I was pretty close to giving up on it until today... I can't decipher this at all. Am I her shoulder to cry on, or is she hinting for me to 'make a move'?

her: i'm asking for

her: a guy

her: that will fucking make a movie

her: move*

her: ha

her: i mean now.

her: a guy will tell a girl

me: maybe they think that youre the kind of person

her: that he likes her

her: u kno

me: that if you didnt like them back

her: WELL I'M NOT

her: I'M A BIG FLIRT

her: SHIT

me: youd laugh in their face and spread it around or something

her: fuck them

her: FUCK THEM

her: i must be wierd

her: and scare them off

me: yeah youre weird.

her: our relationship is 100% positive

me: what does that mean

her: we're just so

her: nice to eachother

her: ya kno?

At least I know now she wouldn't be too freaked out if I told her, the worst she'd do is let me down... she pretty much said herself its a guys obligation to tell the girl he likes that he likes her. I think.

She's screwing half of the football team. I'm sorry.

that's hard to decipher. Get her drunk and make out.

Shes not desperate, just really, really pissed off. The last four guys shes been after either ignore her or don't like her or already have girlfriends. Shes not ugly or anything, just... sorta weird.

But I like weird people, so it's all good.

Edit: spelling

[This message has been edited by Arrow2brain (edited 03-13-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

She's screwing half of the football team. I'm sorry.

affirmative.

"So I've been sorta thinking...

About yesterday. And how you said that if a guy likes a girls hes got to have enough balls to tell her that he does so she can do whatever from that point. Thats the way things work.

This is a huge mistake. I'm sorta drunk right now, so thats my excuse if this goes terribly wrong, which it probably will. Thisl probably come off as creepy or weird or awkward or bad or secretive or whatever the fuck, and I'm sorry for that. Im not trying to fuck everything up, but it probably seems that way.

No laughing.

I like you. You've probably known this all along, youve asked me if I liked you before and I tried to deny it, but not very well. but whatever. I didn't always like you though... not from the beginning. One time when talking to you when I was walking away I heard your friends say "he so likes you!" and I sorta laughed at the thought of that. Me like you. el oh fucking el. But I dunno... recently with you and your problems and everything and just.. I wanna be there in your life. I swear this is storgic. Youre my favorite person in the whole fucking world, how ever cheesy that may sound. Im not sure if you like me back, I'm horrible at this. You told me once your 'alternate personality' liked me, but youve also told me you dont like me that way. Im fucking confused. Do you like me or not?

Im not gonna be mad at the answer. even if you dont like me the same way, I hope we can still be friends and Ill try to move on or something. This is horrible.

This is not a love letter or anything. I'm just curious as to what the answer is... I mean, if you do like me back, thatd be awesome. We could.. I dunno. Go from there. If you don't like me, that sucks. But I'll move on, I'm not a stalker guy or something. Id just rather get a straight answer and know that itl never work out than be kidding myself and regret later on that I didn't make a move

So think about it over your little vacation thing, Id really like to know the answer"

Hows that for a confession. Anything need to be changed you think?



[This message has been edited by Arrow2brain (edited 03-14-2007).]

Ahhh I need a response. Im about to send it...

dude. that's so pussy. that's "i'm a pussy who gathered up the courage to tell you this." for fucks sake, if you're such good friends, then go hang out. see what kind of vibe you're getting IN PERSON. then just go for it. put your arm around her, kiss her, just do something thats a step forward. dont send her a love letter, because even though you deny that's what it is, it most definitely is a love letter.

good luck though.

[This message has been edited by uncoiledspaghetti (edited 03-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

see what kind of vibe you're getting IN PERSON. then just go for it. put your arm around her, kiss her, just do something thats a step forward.



I need to let her know NOW, I never get the chance to be with her for more than 10 minutes anywhere else like at school, and all the plans we've made to be together have gone completely shit. If I could tell her in person I would do it in a heartbeat. Shes going on a spring break vacation though so I thought itd be the perfect time to tell her and let her think about it before she goes off telling her friends or getting caught up in shit with other people

k then just tell her. but not with a letter like that or anything, if you must do it on the computer at least do it on aim, and stick to a few main points from that letter. the whole "long letter" thing just comes across as pussy.

Would it be better to just leave it at 'I like you, think about it for me' on aim instead of the whole 'love letter' thing?

Just read the above message, gonna do it now...

But how should I say it. Like, 'I like you' and then say why, or just be like 'do you like me' and then respond to whatever she says? I didn't think it'd be this hard...



[This message has been edited by Arrow2brain (edited 03-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by Arrow2brain:

Would it be better to just leave it at 'I like you, think about it for me' on aim instead of the whole 'love letter' thing?

Just read the above message, gonna do it now...

But how should I say it. Like, 'I like you' and then say why, or just be like 'do you like me' and then respond to whatever she says? I didn't think it'd be this hard...



edit: didnt see your edit, yeah just tell her you like her. be as casual as possible, and dont ask her for an answer or expect one right away.

i've been in pretty much the same situation and it turned out she didn't like me, but because i just threw it out there and wasnt all "omg do you like me back?" it went alright and it didnt get awkward or anything.



[This message has been edited by uncoiledspaghetti (edited 03-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

She's screwing half of the football team. I'm sorry.

not half, the entire team

Said no.

I'm gonna go get shitfaced now.

quote:Originally posted by Arrow2brain:

Said no.

I'm gonna go get shitfaced now.



you better have listened to me and been casual so it didnt get awkward. cause otherwise you may have fucked up your friendship.

fix it as soon as possible. talk to her, pretend nothing happened, make sure she knows it's not a big deal to you.

seriously, stay friends, even though it'll probably be hard on you.

[This message has been edited by uncoiledspaghetti (edited 03-14-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by uncoiledspaghetti:

you better have listened to me and been casual so it didnt get awkward. cause otherwise you may have fucked up your friendship.

fix it as soon as possible. talk to her, pretend nothing happened, make sure she knows it's not a big deal to you.

Did. Just a little awkward, but were getting over it I gues.

Its still gonna be pretty weird talking to her in a week

Im glad I took your advice and didn'tsend that fucking letter, that would have been the worst mistake of my life. It still is though. Fuck.

Word of advice kiddies: Don't fall in love with your best friends.

Edit: drunken typos



[This message has been edited by Arrow2brain (edited 03-14-2007).]