im in a fucked up situation, my friends girlfriend and i started cheating together and such, and my friend found out. which really i dont care that he hates me , its just that she loves him and all, and if she dates him she will never be able to see me again, and if she stays with me, she can do whatever , but her half assed boyfriend i guess still wants her, and i keep telling her that it will never be the same with him ever again, he will just contenue to be an asshole, he's very controlling and so forth, and i really dont think its good that she see's him but i dont wanna tell her not to see him , i explained to her that its not a good idea and that i cant stop her. and now i dont know what the fuck to do...but yeah...any suggestions... i will keep updates up

First of all. Shes cheating on your friend with you.. right? So if she stays with you, whose to say she wont do the same thing to you?

Second of all. I wouldnt trust her as far as i could throw her. It wont be the same with her and him, but i wouldnt trust someone thats cheating.. No matter who it is.

I'd suggest to steer clear from that altogether.. and be friends with benefits if anything.. shes gonna break your heart man.

[This message has been edited by Pansy (edited 03-12-2007).]

You have got urself in a shit situation, and i have sort of been in one like it before, you have to realise if u havent been in a long relationship before that sometimes you have urges, and it results in cheating, and im sorry to say it, but u probably dont mean half as much to the girl as her boyfriend does... If she loves him let it be, and if its so destin to fail then it will, he shouldnt give her another chance for cheating tho.. And you may see him treating her like shit, but honestly NOONE will ever know other peoples relationships, or for that matter Understand other peoples relationships..

It looks like you like this girl, and obviously u have chosen the worng chick.. Whats to say if u got together she wouldnt do it to you?

Next time i suggest just fight the attraction and dont hook up with your mates girlfriend..

There is only one solution, only one way this is going to work.

You tell her that until she finishes properly and fully with her boyfriend that you want nothing more to do with her.And you need to mean that 100%.

What you did was stupid and wrong.

Your a piece of shit, cheating with your friends gf is fucking dirt. I hope you get cancer and die you worthless piece of shit.

Don't play with fire, learn from your mistakes and don't help someone cheat again.