I recently made a thread about my ex a few days ago. For those of you who didnt read it, I'll kindly explain the story again.

I went out with a girl, who i loved dearly, and i thought she felt the same.. she would always say "You have no idea how much i love you" randomly during conversations on msn/phone. She got me so hooked on her. Anyway, she told me one night about this guy named Doug at her school. Apparently she used to like him before me and her were together, but something happened at school, and she didnt like him anymore. But he still liked her alot. Anyway, she told me that she was going to the movies with him on saturday (last week), and she said if he made a move on her, she wouldnt be able to resist him. I loved her too much to break up with her myself, and she was being a bitch to me all night, but she eventually broke it off with me.. saying she had mixed emotions for me and Doug.. plus she saw Doug everyday at school, and only saw me once/twice every week/2 weeks. I still love her, and am having a really hard time getting over her.

Updated: Thursday night (last week of course) she told me she still had feelings for me, and that her breaking up with me wasnt meant to be permanent.. but more of a time to set her head straight.

She went to the movies with Doug, after having some problems with him on the friday, but resolved them, and hooked up with him. It kinda pissed me off, and sent a whole bunch of emotions through me at the same time. Rage, disgust, sadness, confusion.. And whatever else. She also said she was being called a slut at school by some chicks, and her way of going about this problem was to doing "stuff" at school (sexually) to piss them off and give them "something to talk about". She didnt go into detail, and i didnt want her to. She told me she was sorry, after i told her how i felt about it.

All in all, no matter how bad she is treating me.. (Deliberately letting me know what shes doing, obviously trying to hurt me) i still love her.. and i cant get over her. And i know, if she asked me back out, i would not hesitate to agree.

What should i do totse.. What is your advice?

You need to walk away from this relationship.

Let her know that she's hurting you and that you need space.

Let her go, man, she sounds like a bitch and you'd be better off without her.

I know it's difficult but it does get easier and afterall, time is the greatest healer.

I hate girls who do that. I could never be like them. Bunch of fucking whores.

Thanks guys. Although it is easier said then done.. I guess its the only thing to do.

Maaan, you close the door on her, and you never look back!



She's a hoe. Forget her completely.

quote:Originally posted by Pansy:

1. Anyway, she told me that she was going to the movies with him on saturday (last week), and she said if he made a move on her, she wouldnt be able to resist him.

2. I loved her too much to break up with her myself, and she was being a bitch to me all night, but she eventually broke it off with me.. saying she had mixed emotions for me and Doug..

3. I still love her, and am having a really hard time getting over her.

4. more of a time to set her head straight.

5. She went to the movies with Doug... and hooked up with him.

6. She also said she was being called a slut at school by some chicks, and her way of going about this problem was to doing "stuff" at school (sexually) to piss them off and give them "something to talk about".

7. And i know, if she asked me back out, i would not hesitate to agree.

8. What should i do totse.. What is your advice?

1. Cunt. Total. Fucking. Cunt.

I'd be immensely fucked off if my partner EVER said that. Wouldn't even be able to look at him or touch him after that.

2. No, she's being more than a bitch. You're being totally taken for a fool.

Pshh, mixed emotions, she doesn't even know herself. Or she just doesn't care who she's hurting. This is just lust, you'll get over it.

3. Can't see how, she's a stupid little girl.

4. Don't think anything could sort out that head of hers...

5. Sluuuut.

6. Because she is a slut. And she's doing stuff with other guys aswell? She's a total bitch. Seriously, finish with her. She's not worth it in the slightest. Only a whore does that to someone she "loves" and only does sexual shit to keep numbers up or to show off or whatever.

7. You're an idiot.

8. Finish with her. Now. Seriously, you're a mug. She doesn't really want you. It sounds harsh, but it sounds like you're just her plaything and she knows she can do what she wants when she wants.

Do you really like the idea of being thought of that little? She's got absolutely no respect for you. She probably doesn't even love you a little bit. She's a using tosser.

I went through exactly the same thing a few days ago, you might have read my post.

I know how you feel, and its shit, I am sorry that you have to go through this, and i completly hated it and still do. All i can say is that if she did it once, then what is stopping her from doing it again? Consider that she is just using you as a reboud from 'Doug' and that she does like him but doesnt want to be by herself, maybe doug didnt do anything with her because of you? Either way you will end up getting fucked over just like i was. My adivce is to bail, i know how hard it is, and i know you need clearance, but it will just carry on hurting if you keep hanging on. I hung on, and she did go out with the other boy, i regret hanging on because i was just fucked over twice i highly doubt that i could of ended it because i loved her and still do, and by the sounds of it you are still in the relationship, if you want to talk then post your msn and i will add you

oohh, i've been through this before, she dumped you to fuck someone else(so she's not a "cheater"), and then wants to get back with you. She still cheated, and all that shit she told you was a lie about needing space. Tell you are tired of her shit and you never want to speak to her again, tell her you are not some little lap dog and you are slave to no one. the pain she has caused you will go away, the best way to get over it is to hang out with friends who will support you and not let you talk to her even though you want to. Cut her out and move on, bad experiences are part of life but they make you stronger.

Dude..

well spoken Blaydes..

unfortunately I too have been there... but I was stupid enough to let her back into my life.. save yourself a lot of hurt and confusion and just leave her.. you're there because you're filling that void/uncertainty in her life til the next dude she likes comes along. she'll leave you and fuck him, and if things don't work out she'll try to come back again.. it's sad but true.. she's a cunt that doesn't know what she wants. you can find better. seriously. good luck dude.



quote:Originally posted by Blaydes:

oohh, i've been through this before, she dumped you to fuck someone else(so she's not a "cheater"), and then wants to get back with you. She still cheated, and all that shit she told you was a lie about needing space. Tell you are tired of her shit and you never want to speak to her again, tell her you are not some little lap dog and you are slave to no one. the pain she has caused you will go away, the best way to get over it is to hang out with friends who will support you and not let you talk to her even though you want to. Cut her out and move on, bad experiences are part of life but they make you stronger.



[This message has been edited by WhistlerX (edited 03-13-2007).]

Yeap... get the fuck out of dodge on that relationship.