I've been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now. The problem is that we are both TOO similiar!

We both have the same 'respect' for wine, music and drugs. Both A grade students, top of the class, and both are musicians...YET we struggle to start and maintain a conversation (unless fucked up on wine assuch). We have NO problem with intemacy; when we can't think of something to say we just makeout lol! But he's terribley self concious!

so 2 questions:

1) How can we actually TALK to each other!

and

2) How can I make him less self concious!

1. Find something you both dislike, so you can jointly bitch about it. Ask questions about his past, and share some of your's.

2. Compliment him, say ego-boosting things, make your orgasms a bit more cinematic, etc...

....how old are both of you??

dating someone just like you usually doesnt work out too much in the long run....you have to have differences to talk about.

Start teasing each other.. build the chemistry with some flirting.