I have a problem with making moves. I'm dating a girl who I constantly think about and although we havn't been together long it always takes me all night to muster up any kind of move. I've got anxiety issues and I've only been in one serious relationship before. I know most of you are just going to say suck it up, but is there anything I could do in order to try and become less lame? haha.

Suck it up?

quote:Originally posted by memoryhole:

Suck it up?



That's what I'm going for. I just hopeed someone was similar and got over it somehow.

Ye gods man, i'm in the sorta the same situation right now... Actually it's more of a public thing for me... I just hate trying anything with other people around, even though I know she wont shoot me down or nuthin... Kind of annoying isnt it?

quote:Originally posted by Mojo Savage:

Ye gods man, i'm in the sorta the same situation right now... Actually it's more of a public thing for me... I just hate trying anything with other people around, even though I know she wont shoot me down or nuthin... Kind of annoying isnt it?



Yep. It's the same with me, if I'm alone with her I'm fine, it's just when I'm around people.

Yea, tell me about it.

I know she loves me, and she has since before we were going out apparently... But yeeeeaaa I still hate showing affection around other people, I mean hugs are about all I feel comfortable with when we're hanging around with mates.

So far i've just told her that I hate public and she's fine with that, as long as I make it up to her in private...

Any advice you get on this thread works for me too.

Seriously... people say suck it up, 'cuz if you get over it, that's what you do. You suck it up. I've been there. I learned to ignore the anxiety of going for it because afterwards there would be joy

Riley

"You all niggas are gay."

The fuck!? You fags need to come out of the closet.

Me and my woman don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks, we clean the back of each others throats whenever we feel like it. Hell, I'd fuck her over my car if I don't forget the condoms at home.

Get over your peer acceptance and get it on!

just whip it out...

who knows what may happen