well my parents have been divorced for abou t 2-3 years now and my mom still cant take it. today when i was in the car i was talking to my sister, in moms car, and said that that one piece of property that we looked at last week was good and they are thinking about putting a bid on it and my mom FLIPPED! she came it and started bitching to me about it, i dont really care, and she threw my bookbag at the wall and almost put a hole in the wall, definitely damaged it, and is starting to piss me off.

what should be done or whats your opinion?

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okay who else thougt he said she threw his nutsack against the wall?

quote:Originally posted by Fubar_v2.0:

okay who else thougt he said she threw his nutsack against the wall?

Unfortunately. Honestly dude, if you want a serious response here, use spell check in Microsoft word or something.

The post definately needs cleaned up.

This is what I'm getting out of it:



His dad and his, let's say...replacement female, are buying a place together? (Or, is it just him?)

His mom struggles to make ends meet and she's pissed because he's doing well. ????

So she went into a rage at her son. He's fed up and wants to know what to do. ????

Did I get this right?



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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

The post definately needs cleaned up.

This is what I'm getting out of it:



His dad and his, let's say...replacement female, are buying a place together? (Or, is it just him?)

His mom struggles to make ends meet and she's pissed because he's doing well. ????

So she went into a rage at her son. He's fed up and wants to know what to do. ????

Did I get this right?



somewhat. shes making ends meet very well, over 100k year, shes started going out with other guys and has always said shes over it but still very distent. i know im jsut ranting but its pissing me off. shes been acting like this all week,

It sounds to me like she's upset with having been replaced so easily. Going out with other guys is so much different than having someone else to share your life with.

She hurts, and she's probably afraid.

She shouldn't be taking it out on you though. Tell her to get some counseling. She makes enough money and it could do the lot of you a world of good.

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quote:Originally posted by oc6:

It sounds to me like she's upset with having been replaced so easily. Going out with other guys is so much different than having someone else to share your life with.

She hurts, and she's probably afraid.

She shouldn't be taking it out on you though. Tell her to get some counseling. She makes enough money and it could do the lot of you a world of good.



thanks man. he did replace her quite quickly and thats probably it. within the first 1-2 years they were married. he has always had to be in a relationship, from old stories from friends/family, and thats probably it. ill talk to her

How old is she?

I lived with my mum through menapause and it was as hellish as you describe.

She's going through an episode. She'll calm down. Women are just crazy, for no reason, for an indeterminate amount of time.

Bu that's not the fucked up part. If you're understanding and sympathetic one of two things can happen: She'll over it quicker or be a million times bitchier.

Mojo...and I speak from experience. If this sort of thing is not resolved early, it can carry on for years. I've seen it, and have been smack dab in the middle of it.

It might pass, it might not. I think that outside help could be essential in her working out those feelings.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Mojo...and I speak from experience. If this sort of thing is not resolved early, it can carry on for years. I've seen it, and have been smack dab in the middle of it.

It might pass, it might not. I think that outside help could be essential in her working out those feelings.

shes always beed sick and has had "fibromyalga" (dont know how to spell it) and from what ive read about it she doesnt have it. its all in her head. shes been laying in her bed for practically all my life and its taken a BIG toll on me and thats one thing that lead to the divorce. she has the godo job mainly she knows people and she also is quite up to date on everything in her field. shes always bitchy and stuff and its bad. ive probably said too much but yeah since i let her chill for awhile shes alittle better, to her normal self, but still REALLY moody and stuf but w/e it shall work itself out

She's an alright mother apart from the craziness? I mean she's supporting you kids, she doesn't let the new guys she's been seeing treat you like shit or anything?

My mother never was, she was always drunk and always had boyfriends that hit me, stole from me and tormented me, and she kept inviting them back. Which is why I could never do what I'm going to advise now...

Just a simple gesture. Ask her how she's doing, if she wants to talk. Give her a hug. Let her know you still appreciate her and love her. I gaurantee that will make her feel great.

Oh. She has a lot of problems then. Has she ever seen someone about it?

Do you live with her or your father, or do they have shared parenting?

I was talking with a woman recently who has fibromyalga and she takes some vitamins that seem to help. She's also a cancer survivor. If you like, I'll see if I can find what those are. It couldn't hurt.

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she did talk to a dude for awhile after the divorce but suspended it because she thought she wasnt getting anything out of it, she was and i noticed. we have shared parenting and i usually spend the most time at her house becasue its closer to school plus shes not as prude as my dad and can take a joke every once and awhile. she has a few times in the past attempted to hit me but my brother stopped her and told her off.

she was addicted to HSN MSNBCSHOP jewelery.com but i have made changes on the computer and tv so she cant watch/surf those channels anymore. she is somewhat a prescription med addict, not too bad and has been treated in the past, and she takes lots of vitamins and stuff like that. shes really spiritual too.

thinking now one thing that we could do for her is start talking more, never been a really open family, and complementing eachother. wouldnt hurt to go out and work a litle and i know that helps, helped me alot in many ways.

after evaluating this ive jsut noticed abunch of stuff that i can help fix and try to get us on a better track. going to talk to her now. see what she says so ill update u later.