True or false?

False.

As a being devoted to self-discovery and enlightenment, I feel deeply that our actions affect the karma of our lives. You give, and give, and give.. and you will get back tenfold. I would also take the opportunity to clarify that I am not religious, but that I am a devout follower of self-discipline, and that means sticking to you beliefs.

quote:Originally posted by Opus:

False.

and that means sticking to you beliefs.

Apparently he's gonna 'stick beliefs to you'?

Watch out!

In what context are we speaking here, life in general, or concerning the opposite sex?

opposite sex. emotionally.

It's true, as far as women go. The correct formula is "The more you give, the more she wants from you."

True.

I love your perpetual cynicism and honesty to yourself, arquin. I really do admire that; it takes a lot to be the way you are in a "glass is half full" world, and I respect that you stick to your worldview.

If you were a real person, I'd probably hang out with you sometime.

kindness is not forgotten

Well.. When you act nice.. and do lots of things for a woman, you are doing what EVERY other guy she has met in the last year has done.

So.. if you expect to get into a womans pants from being really nice to her, and generally being a nice guy(READ: WUSSY), then you can forget it. You'll end up spending hundreds on her.. and you'll end up wondering why you're always jerkin off.

Now.. if you don't take a womans shit, bust on her.. generally make fun of her.. all well being funny about it.. not only is she going to be more attracted to you, you'll be having fun as well.

So.. long story short.. when it comes to women.. More is less.. and less is more.

quote:Originally posted by outcast234:

Well.. When you act nice.. and do lots of things for a woman, you are doing what EVERY other guy she has met in the last year has done.

So.. if you expect to get into a womans pants from being really nice to her, and generally being a nice guy(READ: WUSSY), then you can forget it. You'll end up spending hundreds on her.. and you'll end up wondering why you're always jerkin off.

Now.. if you don't take a womans shit, bust on her.. generally make fun of her.. all well being funny about it.. not only is she going to be more attracted to you, you'll be having fun as well.

So.. long story short.. when it comes to women.. More is less.. and less is more.

QFT, but make sure u do it in a funny way. dont piss her off, or make her think you hate her... i learned this the hard way, just a few weeks ago...

True. Its a shame, but it's life. Especially with the opposite sex. And its not just one of those "nice guys" vs "assholes" issues. Even if you're trying to legitimately just be friends, a lot of girls will turn into parasites, sucking every last bit of good will and kindness out of you, because their inflated ego won't or can't conceive of a world in which you don't secretly want to fuck them. So they do this, thinking they have something over you, until you get tired of it and just walk away. And then they'll tell everyone YOU'RE the asshole. And everyone will believe them because they're a girl.

The more you give, the more likely you are to end up in the FRIEND category.

My girlfriend is great but she is pretty sensitive so i can't really be too far out or she will lose it. But I've been accomadating her every need more and more and getting laid less and less. LOVE STINKS!

I don't think that is true.

But, sometimes, the more you give the more you want back in return. So, you become more aware of those things you think are lacking.

Expectations...can be a bitch.

False, sometimes you just feel like you're giving more, but you're giving the wrong things, or those that aren't worth a lot in other people's eyes. Perception is what it's all about.

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And in the end

The love you take

Is equal to the love you make.

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

False, sometimes you just feel like you're giving more, but you're giving the wrong things, or those that aren't worth a lot in other people's eyes. Perception is what it's all about.



quote:Originally posted by Euda:

And in the end

The love you take

Is equal to the love you make.

Two of the best responses yet.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Two of the best responses yet.

As well as the two least informed. When it comes to "the mating game" women lack the ability to choose the right person. They'll always go for the guy that always seems to be doing something else, doesn't really care for her, and is generally the wrong type of guy for her.

Why? Because people want what they cannot have. Women are just really obvious about it. Wait until they've grown up a bit, then come back with a nice car and a fat wallet and see who they pick. Just ignore them for a bit more, and watch them flock.

Pathetic, but true

^^^Once you stop playing "The mating game", maybe you'll be able to move beyond that. Until then, that's the sort of girls/women you will attract.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

^^^Once you stop playing "The mating game", maybe you'll be able to move beyond that. Until then, that's the sort of girls/women you will attract.

Hah, no. Once you stop "playing" the "mating game", you understand how very useless women are to you in the long run, and how much simpler life is when you don't waste your time and emotions on anyone else.

When you're trying to pick up girls to screw? Sure. you'll probably end up as a 'nice guy' friend.

When you're in a loving relationship? Giving is getting in itself. Nothing is nicer than doing things for the person you love, than giving (emotionally or materially, although the latter should come with the former attached if you give well). Love and be loved, it's simple.

quote:Originally posted by Ballin:

kindness is not forgotten

Yes it is =/

lol

The more you give makes it seem as though you're getting less....

So I says to him I says "Fuck you buddy, your car was already smashed when you loaned it to me!". I go home, take a shit, and POW, there's blood in the bowl. Karma's a bitch.

I try not to share too much with girls how I feel about them.. God knows I like to, but apparently it doesn't do good.