So Im still pretty good friends with my ex. We hang out whenever we are both back in town. My spring break is coming up, and she asked if I wanted to come down to her apartment for the night (as in things are gonna happen)

Problem is, every time I try to talk to her on AIM, I never get messages back, even though shes obviously seeing them

I call her, no answer, and no return call even with messages.

I text her cell, no answer.

So really, what the fuck is going on? She still wants me to come, because I finally managed to talk to her on AIM like 2 days ago...

Maybe she just wants some good old fashioned no strings attached loving. She doesnt want to have to talk to you every day. She just wants you to go down there, do your thing, and then dissapear the next day.

Youre pretty good friends yet she doesnt return your calls texts or IMs? I dont know what your definition of friend is but my friends talk to me. Short answer dont waste your time with this chick tell her to take a hike and stop talking to her. The only thing shes doing is seeing how far she can push you before you break and then keeping you there by putting hope in you by playing with your emotions. Shes getting you all riled up for nothing she just likes that she has this much control over you.