So, my girlfriend is living in another state. We're doing a long-distance relationship. She calls me up and tells me that she needs some weed (knowing I have lots of weed connects back home). I make some calls and set-up something for her to get a bag from a guy I know. This guy is a good friend of mine, I totally trust him. She met him 1 time, but only for like 5 seconds.

I told her to give me a call when they were done so that I would know everything went ok (I told him the same thing).

They were supposed to meet at like 7:00 PM. Well, I hadn't heard from either of them by 8:15 PM. I called him at his house (he doesn't have a cell), no answer. I call her cell, no answer. I tried her again like 15 minutes later and she answers. I ask her what's going on and she says, "Nothing, your friend is trying to fix my ipod." I know her ipod has been broken, so I believe it.

I guess he stayed there another hour or so and then left. What pisses me off is that she's hanging out for hours with this guy she doesn't know (friend of mine or not) and smoking weed with him and all that. Fuck her stupid ipod, the conversation shouldn't even get to the point where he's learning that she has a busted ipod. And she knows I'm waiting for a call from her, and she's letting hours go by and not even thinking about that.

This could be just a stupid jealous thing, but whatev. I know nothing actually happened, but do I still have good reason to be pissed? I'm doing a favor for her. She needs weed, I'm helping her get it. I'm not setting up pow-wows for her to sit there getting high with strangers.

If it matters, I'm 22 and she's 24.



[This message has been edited by tehzoid (edited 03-08-2007).]

Im not saying you shouldnt trust her, but Im not not saying you shouldnt trust her. How often do you see eachother, and when you do how is your sex life(if applicable)?

Long distance relationships are doomed.

I would bet my penis that she's fucking him or is going to fuck him. Especially if she's a stoner and he's got the hookup.

Don't trust girls that do drugs. Even if you do them yourself.

[This message has been edited by The_Rabbi (edited 03-08-2007).]

She's not fucking him. He's getting married and is crazy in love w/ this girl he's seeing. He's talked to me about it privately, he would never touch another girl.

I just moved like a week ago and things are good, if I was gone longer I would have doubts about trusting her, but it was so recent. And things lately have been especially good.

I'd be pretty jealous too.

What, I'm not good enough, but my boyfriend could get high with some total stranger? Fuck that.

And how exactly do you 'Fix' an ipod? Unless you're an electrical engineer, there's a limit to the shit you can do to fix an ipod, it certainly wouldnt take over an hour to do.

Not to make you paranoid or anything..

Honestly I think your just being paranoid then. If it had been longer then i would think that she might have been seeking what you cant give her due to the distance, but seeing as how that isn't the case I don't think you have anything to worry about. Also if you know that this dude is so in love with his girl and would never do anything with another woman then why are you even worried about it in the first place. Your girlfriend still may be lying to you though. Not about them doing anything together but the reason he was there(fixing an ipod) sounds like a lame excuse so you wont question why he was there so long and get upset about something that is nothing, like your doing now(not that you're upset but that you're jealous or whatever). I could be way off because of lack of information i have on the subject but from what ive read so far this is what i think.

1) As Rabbi said, long distance relationships are doomed.

2) I see absolutely no reason why you should be upset that she's talking/haning out with a guy that you trust completely. Maybe she's just looking for new people to hang out with.

Either way, if they didnt so much as kiss...then theres no reason to be jealous.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

2) I see absolutely no reason why you should be upset that she's talking/haning out with a guy that you trust completely. Maybe she's just looking for new people to hang out with.

Exactly.

I think you're being a bit stupid.

So what if they hung out a lil? And you did say you trust him.

Also, my parents were long distance for quite a while and been together around 19 years.

Also my aunt and other various people I know met their husbands/boyfriends and it was long distance for a while and they're still happy and together.