Well, I'm starting to get into it with this girl, but shes a little on the larger side, and I'm not too into that. Other then that she's damn perfect. How would I go about hinting to exercise or do sit-ups or something without being a dickwad? Asking Totse might not have been the smartest thing to do either...

It's really hard to tell your girl that she's a bit heavy and needs to work out...girls are already really self conscious about their bodies....the best way to deal with the situation is to get her to be more active. You should try to get her to do things with you.

Like, instead of just sitting in and watching tv or some other sedentary activity, ask her to go to the gym with you, or to go play a game of tennis, or some other similar activity. maybe if you're just sitting around, especially after dinner, say you feel like going outside and getting some fresh air and go for a walk, its not much but its still exercise.

I don't know your situation, but if you have your own place you should offer to make her dinner or something every once in a while, and make something healthy....

You like to exercise and want her to join you.

Fuck like rabbits , it soon goes.

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Fuck like rabbits , it soon goes.

I like that idea...

I don't have my own place (still in high-school), but I do ride BMX, so maybe she'd like to try that at some point. Not likely, but worth a shot. She likes to swim, so this summer it shouldn't be a problem to get that going. Thanks for the USEFUL tips. (Most on Totse are useless).

You know that thing were you go to pick someone up in your car, and as they reach for the door handle you accelerate a few meters?

Just keep doing that for a couple of miles every time you go to pick her up.

Just ask her to join you in a sport that you both enjoy (basketball, tennis, etc.)

Or join a gym or start working out after school and after a few weeks say, "Hey, do you wanna come work out with me Tuesday?"

But make it clear that you have been working out for a while by yourself so she doesn't think you are just doing it for her.

All in all, don't worry about it. It's really not that big of a deal. I've dated chicks on the chubbier side, but they've all been cute or hot. If you really love her, it shouldn't matter, but I understand how you feel.