Here's a hypothetical for the women -- I am curious about your opinions.

You're out drinking with a friend of yours who introduces you to one of their male friends. You and the male friend seem to get on really well, talking, laughing, playing the biscuit game, connection happy-go-fun-time, etcetera. The two of you start heavily making out. Eventually, your friend leaves and you want to stay on.

At this point, the guy has been through sickeningly large amounts of alcohol and ends up vomitting all over himself and generally looks horrendously sick... stumbles to his bed and collapses asleep. Does this blow his chances with you?

As a guy, I rekon if ever I did that to a girl, and she stuck around, I'd dump her arse straight away - she's obviously a stalker or a nutter.....

I do that every sunday..

I still get ladies.

I know plenty of guys that do that who still do well with women. However, it's not a lifestyle that I'd suggest.

quote:Originally posted by Durell:

Here's a hypothetical for the women -- I am curious about your opinions.

You're out drinking with a friend of yours who introduces you to one of their male friends. You and the male friend seem to get on really well, talking, laughing, playing the biscuit game, connection happy-go-fun-time, etcetera. The two of you start heavily making out. Eventually, your friend leaves and you want to stay on.

At this point, the guy has been through sickeningly large amounts of alcohol and ends up vomitting all over himself and generally looks horrendously sick... stumbles to his bed and collapses asleep. Does this blow his chances with you?

hahaha i hurl all the time, and never once has it hurt my chances with anybody. on the other hand, i usually miss myself, and then rather than collapsing asleep i brush it off and continue getting fucked up.

so yeah, it wasn't your hurling, but your handling of the situation that has ruined your chances.

Dude just no...

"playing the biscuit game"

Where I come from the biscuit game is when a bunch of guys circle jerk on a piece of food and the last one to finish has to eat it.

quote:Originally posted by Taquito:

Dude just no...

"playing the biscuit game"

Where I come from the biscuit game is when a bunch of guys circle jerk on a piece of food and the last one to finish has to eat it.

Thankfully we don't all come from San Francisco.

quote:Originally posted by Durell:

Here's a hypothetical for the women -- I am curious about your opinions.

You're out drinking with a friend of yours who introduces you to one of their male friends. You and the male friend seem to get on really well, talking, laughing, playing the biscuit game, connection happy-go-fun-time, etcetera. The two of you start heavily making out. Eventually, your friend leaves and you want to stay on.

At this point, the guy has been through sickeningly large amounts of alcohol and ends up vomitting all over himself and generally looks horrendously sick... stumbles to his bed and collapses asleep. Does this blow his chances with you?

lol, Bryan?

No, not Bryan... and what kind of fuckwit spells it with a 'Y', anyway?

[This message has been edited by Durell (edited 03-07-2007).]

If i have ever done that its cause the chicks vomited it several times earlier and now wants to make out

needless to say once i spew its all gravy baby.

I duno my names not bryan or brian or anything of the sort but i do have a friend who has the same problem and it blows his chances for that night for sure but definately not past that.

quote:Originally posted by Taquito:

Dude just no...

"playing the biscuit game"

Where I come from the biscuit game is when a bunch of guys circle jerk on a piece of food and the last one to finish has to eat it.

lmao

I'm really not sure.

I'd kind of feel obligated to care for the stupid fucker. If he got ran over, or stabbed, or choked to death on his own vomit or something after I'd made a hasty retreat, his death would be pretty much my fault.

I'd give him another chance, but if he made a regular habit out of acting like a twat and drinking more than he could handle....to hell with that.

[This message has been edited by yoyobek (edited 03-07-2007).]

quote:Originally posted by chumpion:

As a guy, I rekon if ever I did that to a girl, and she stuck around, I'd dump her arse straight away - she's obviously a stalker or a nutter.....

Or maybe she liked you before you got totally smashed and thought that she'd give you a chance to get to know you because you've got the potential to be a good person?

I agree with yoyobek. I'd probably take care of him, and give him a second chance, but if he did that sort of thing often I'd fuck off.

uh does this ruin his chances with you? ask yourself not us geeze.. im not a girl so ill answere the other way around.. if a girl did this to me id think about if i liked her not if i seemed to like her.. if she liked me or seemed to like me.. if she went and passed out in her room id rape her.. no rewind.. that was really just a joke.. id wake her ass up or shake her till she did and ask her if shed puked enough or was cool.. if she doesnt wake up nomatter what i do ill stick around and help myself to her fridge.. and if that means vagina to somebody.. that too.. just kidding.. and if shes got no damned food in her fridge i dont even know from there.. thatd be a tough one.. somewhere between seeing if shes got some money laying around so i can order pizza at her expense.. and who knows what..

Thanks to Kimness and Yoyobek.

I'd love more advice or opinions from the women of the board, rather than the 15yr old males who can't string a sentence together.

I am not flaming you, I want you to think about an answer to this: Why did you get so drunk?

Was it because you are not familiar with the effects of alcohol and you didn't think you would get that sick!

Did you "black out"? Research the term black out. Many people don't know the true meaning of black out as it relates to alcohol.

Did you mix it with another chemical?

Were you just really uncomfortable being around this girl so you drank to submission?

Forget about the girl right now, she is the least of your worries. You need to determine why you drank the way you did, and then work on the fix.

I am not saying you have an alcohol problem, I am saying there was a reason why you did what you did and possibly risked sabotaging any changes you had with someone you liked.

Take what I am asking seriously and do some searching. If there was some physical or psychological reason why you did what you did, you will need to work on the solution in order to have further success in your life.

The Captain

For that night...definately!

With some girls the mothering instinct comes out and they might want to take care of you. Other girls might dump you. Still others might take the middle road and give you a second chance, but be on the cautious side.

(what's the biscuit game?)

What would I do? It depends on the man.

so my buddy got fuckin wasted one night and started fuckin around with this fat bitch they were sittin on the tailgate of his truck goin at it and this bitch throws up in his mouth...it was really disgusting...NUFF SAID!!!